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the myth of chameleon's

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Time to see if the legend of chameleon's is true!?

First night Were off there tonight with a close couple give us a shout if your there x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its all true its a brilliant club

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We hope soooo :D its well overdue x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always a good night to be had there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thursday nights are not the busiest, but its still fab!

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By *esperatewifeWoman
over a year ago

Spalding

It's not true but as you are a young slim couple I am sure you will have a great time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not true but as you are a young slim couple I am sure you will have a great time."

??? Curious as to what's not true and also why being young and slim makes a difference.. as the great thing about chameleons is that everyone is welcome xxx

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By *ub bbwWoman
over a year ago

oldbury


"It's not true but as you are a young slim couple I am sure you will have a great time."
I'm not slim but have a great time every time I go do don't get what this comment is about. Off there tonight with Sir for some fun

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By *anejohnkent6263Couple
over a year ago

canterbury

good club esp if yr a greed girl and dont mind lots of single guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"good club esp if yr a greed girl and dont mind lots of single guys "

That's really only true on a Friday lol.. rest of the time we find single guys lacking in numbers lol

Cali

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By *esperatewifeWoman
over a year ago

Spalding


"It's not true but as you are a young slim couple I am sure you will have a great time.

??? Curious as to what's not true and also why being young and slim makes a difference.. as the great thing about chameleons is that everyone is welcome xxx"

The staff are always welcoming granted, and it is a lovely clean well run club. However, I have found other customers to be extremely unfriendly and I could not get a shag there for love nor money! The slim young women seem to have great success there though, particularly if part of a couple. I don't expect anyone to agree with me, as I have noticed in the reviews section, anyone who says Chameleons is anything other than fabulous is shot down in flames!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I attend and have never struggled to get play... And I'm hardly stick thin...to be honest I'm normally about medium..

Think it's about what you put in to get out... There have always been plenty of offers at chameleons.. I just choose to rarely play there.

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By *ub bbwWoman
over a year ago

oldbury

I think some of it boils down to confidence if you feel good about yourself it shows I'm a fatty and get plenty of offers if I go alone or with Sir. We love the place but that's down to the staff some nights we just have social evenings and chat to.other couples but it depends what night you go on.

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By *esperatewifeWoman
over a year ago

Spalding


"It's not true but as you are a young slim couple I am sure you will have a great time. I'm not slim but have a great time every time I go do don't get what this comment is about. Off there tonight with Sir for some fun"
just because you have fun does not mean everybody does. I simply meant that slim couples generally have more success there in my experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not true but as you are a young slim couple I am sure you will have a great time. I'm not slim but have a great time every time I go do don't get what this comment is about. Off there tonight with Sir for some fun just because you have fun does not mean everybody does. I simply meant that slim couples generally have more success there in my experience."

I think that you may imagine that... However without sounding critical, I read your profile and your lack of self confidence screams out from it.. so perhaps you genuinely perceive that bigger girls aren't wanted at chameleons.... Me personally.. I find it's the other way around.

Yes there are all sizes there.. but plenty of guys that like all sizes.. I've been turned down once in chameleons.. and simply moved on to the next person.

Go on a bbw night if your worried... I got told I wwas to slim for a guy once on that night lol xxx

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By *esperatewifeWoman
over a year ago

Spalding

Ok, ok! There must be something wrong with me, I must be just dreadfully ugly as well as fat! Now I know why I have never told the truth before

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chameleons is a nice club, but I wouldnt say its outstanding. Ive been to a number of clubs and would say its pretty average. Ive only ever been in the jacuzzi's once aswell as the chemicals in them made my eyes sting like anything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not true but as you are a young slim couple I am sure you will have a great time."

I am not young nor slim and I had a great times at chams both social and playing.. sovgreat travelling over again by myself.. felt very safe there...xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok, ok! There must be something wrong with me, I must be just dreadfully ugly as well as fat! Now I know why I have never told the truth before "

There is no such thing as ugly.. I am sure ur very pretty honey...xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok, ok! There must be something wrong with me, I must be just dreadfully ugly as well as fat! Now I know why I have never told the truth before "

No one has said that.. but when your confidence is lacking you tend to give off the wrong signals.. not sure if you feel this way about yourself that swinging is the right world for you as sometimes it can be a pretty harsh place..

Think you need to stop being so hard on yourself to be honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

U dont need to be slim to be sexy.... or confident. . U just carry ur head high.. ur chest out laugh at the right times..have a great convo with folks and remember u are sexy as hell....xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"U dont need to be slim to be sexy.... or confident. . U just carry ur head high.. ur chest out laugh at the right times..have a great convo with folks and remember u are sexy as hell....xxx"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Toypaj your French Knickers flatter your bum delightfully x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've been to a lot of clubs and never found anything as good as chameleons had some truely magic Saturday nights there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We've been to a lot of clubs and never found anything as good as chameleons had some truely magic Saturday nights there "

Does go to show all like different things..Saturdays are a day I avoid.. too clicky even for sociable little me x

So op did you go... And what do you think ? Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We've been to a lot of clubs and never found anything as good as chameleons had some truely magic Saturday nights there

Does go to show all like different things..Saturdays are a day I avoid.. too clicky even for sociable little me x

So op did you go... And what do you think ? Xxx "

Never found it that way and have made some great friends infact when we go up there we stay with friends now rather than a hotel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not true but as you are a young slim couple I am sure you will have a great time.

??? Curious as to what's not true and also why being young and slim makes a difference.. as the great thing about chameleons is that everyone is welcome xxx The staff are always welcoming granted, and it is a lovely clean well run club. However, I have found other customers to be extremely unfriendly and I could not get a shag there for love nor money! The slim young women seem to have great success there though, particularly if part of a couple. I don't expect anyone to agree with me, as I have noticed in the reviews section, anyone who says Chameleons is anything other than fabulous is shot down in flames!"

haha trust me that's the tip of the iceberg. At least every couple of days I receive either an abusive or threatening message because I dared to criticise Chams.

The silly thing is that we've really enjoyed going on all but a couple of times. There are nice people there and we've never had any issue with offers etc.

But the messages I've had offering to put me right in the car park are not nearly as worrying as the lack of basic literacy most have in writing their abuse. Added to what we saw on our last visit, it has painted a very different picture to the friendly, relaxed place we used to really look forward to visiting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's it like Monday day times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Monday day times are chilled with a mix of couples and singles.

Monday is a bisexual day from opening with a lot of open male bi activity going on from when the club opens at 2.

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By *uietlyKinkyUsCouple
over a year ago

midlands

Ok I've been visiting chams for more years than I will admit too, I used to drive to chams when I lived other side of Sheffield. Can someone explain to me what the 'myth' of chams is?

It's a lovely venue, with great friendly warm and welcoming staff (anyone count how many snogs go over the bar? )

But it's a venue. I have never known chams to hire in girls (as I know other clubs did) & if someone is behaving badly and is reported they are evicted.

Can the staff be held responsible for the clientele? especially if no one tells them? or are people expecting to be given rose tinted glasses as they walk through the door or Lynn to be holding a wand?

I go on nights that might be suitable for me, and I go with the expectation of having a relaxing time, anything extra is a bonus. If I go on a night where it isn't as I expected do I complain? Nope, I shouldn't have set expectations.

One of the biggest things I love about chams is the diversity of the people in the place, they provide the facilities for me to engage in (indulge in maybe) but I really can not understand how that gives them a 'myth' nor why they come under fire for not meeting with individual expectations.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Monday day times are chilled with a mix of couples and singles.

Monday is a bisexual day from opening with a lot of open male bi activity going on from when the club opens at 2."

Thank you that's helpful

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By *uietlyKinkyUsCouple
over a year ago

midlands


"It's not true but as you are a young slim couple I am sure you will have a great time.

??? Curious as to what's not true and also why being young and slim makes a difference.. as the great thing about chameleons is that everyone is welcome xxx The staff are always welcoming granted, and it is a lovely clean well run club. However, I have found other customers to be extremely unfriendly and I could not get a shag there for love nor money! The slim young women seem to have great success there though, particularly if part of a couple. I don't expect anyone to agree with me, as I have noticed in the reviews section, anyone who says Chameleons is anything other than fabulous is shot down in flames!

haha trust me that's the tip of the iceberg. At least every couple of days I receive either an abusive or threatening message because I dared to criticise Chams.

The silly thing is that we've really enjoyed going on all but a couple of times. There are nice people there and we've never had any issue with offers etc.

But the messages I've had offering to put me right in the car park are not nearly as worrying as the lack of basic literacy most have in writing their abuse. Added to what we saw on our last visit, it has painted a very different picture to the friendly, relaxed place we used to really look forward to visiting."

Any pm that is inappropriate report.

I actually went looking for said review as the hippos comment seemed too far fetched even for this site.

I think if you deliberately post something to upset people, then expect you will upset people. The review is split, with very little actually said about the club more you slatted the guests, many of which use this site.

Actions & consequences, still it shows a side to you that your profile doesn't.

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By *reasured heARTSCouple
over a year ago

STOCKPORT

Not ALWAYS can be a funny atmosphere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We've been to a lot of clubs and never found anything as good as chameleons had some truely magic Saturday nights there

Does go to show all like different things..Saturdays are a day I avoid.. too clicky even for sociable little me x

So op did you go... And what do you think ? Xxx

Never found it that way and have made some great friends infact when we go up there we stay with friends now rather than a hotel "

I think it was that I was a straight female at the time.. no one really wanted that lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We've been to a lot of clubs and never found anything as good as chameleons had some truely magic Saturday nights there

Does go to show all like different things..Saturdays are a day I avoid.. too clicky even for sociable little me x

So op did you go... And what do you think ? Xxx

Never found it that way and have made some great friends infact when we go up there we stay with friends now rather than a hotel

I think it was that I was a straight female at the time.. no one really wanted that lol"

Well you said straight at the time you should try again we love it can't wait till Saturday night haven't been for about a month can't wait

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

LOL forgot about this thread

You'll be pleased to know we went, and we enjoyed ourselves. We did what we went there to do and that was have a good time. Just like every club we go too :D

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By *D40Couple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

I went for the first time a couple of weeks ago & it was great. Some gentleman rubbed my leg in the jacuzzi when I ignored him he stopped. Being a plump girl I take objection to size comments whether aimed at fat or thin people. The last thing I'd expect from a swinger is a rude or judgemental comment. I mean I have only just got into this lifestyle but before I did I would never have called you all sluts!

Live & let live. Have fun, enjoy meeting people and what happens happens

Can't wait to go again

Julie x

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By *D40Couple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

Ps gotta love posters with no identifying face pics lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"before I did I would never have called you all sluts!"

Why not? We do - that's why we attend.

Even swingers make judgements. Funnily enough that's what reviews and discussions are for - to help others make judgements.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Well you said straight at the time you should try again we love it can't wait till Saturday night haven't been for about a month can't wait "

Lol will be going socially I'm sure but I'm not meeting now.. ladies or men..

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