FabSwingers.com forum: Busy or Quiet

By *ustparty OP Couple
over a year ago

Blackwater

What do you prefer? A busy club or a quieter club?

We find that when a club is too busy a lot of people are too busy looking for something better to stop and chat. Yes, there are a lot of people there, but no-one really seems to play until very late, often after you have to leave to get back for sitters or work the next day.

We've had more success when clubs are quieter. At least you can socialize. People seem friendlier when it is not so busy. More people seem to play when it is quieter in our experience.

It can get too quiet for some people and for some strange reason people then don't play. Seems a bit like meeting a couple in a hotel room and saying sorry, it's a bit quiet in here. lol.

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had some of the best nights when its quiet.

People that are in are more up for fun and not being "prima donnas"

By *ustparty OP Couple
over a year ago

Blackwater

"Had some of the best nights when its quiet.

People that are in are more up for fun and not being "prima donnas""

Couldn't agree more. Single guys do a lot better when it is quieter.

By *ungle-FeverCouple (FF)
over a year ago

Bristol/Gloucester

It's nice to have enough people but not be squashed in like sardines. We like to chat and socialise and you can't do that comfortably when people are packed in xx