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Clubs - what would put you off?

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By *mm_n_Zed OP   Couple
over a year ago

Fareham

We've just found out our favourite club is holding a BBQ and screening a football match in the big screen cinema during the evening bi night (they normally play bi porn). We can't see the sense in it as it's a prime play area on a bi night so we're now thinking of not going which is disappointing as we don't get the chance to go on a Monday often - we live an hour away (this is our closest club) and usually have work the next day. Blokes eating burgers, drinking beer and watching football isn't our idea of erotic.

So what would put you off going to a club if you saw they were featuring it on a night you'd planned to go?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

WTF?

I'd definitely not go! Football?

It's as bad as chams showing soaps in one of the rooms but at least that room was a chill out room and I dont think they do that anymore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's puts us off is packs of men roaming round looking for prey

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By *mm_n_Zed OP   Couple
over a year ago

Fareham


"What's puts us off is packs of men roaming round looking for prey "

But you can just make sure you don't go on a couples & singles night I guess. I meant a specific event ... like fancy dress etc - or in our case - screening a bloody football match on our favourite night lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Speaking as a football fan, I can't think of anything worse!!!!!

You go to a club to play, not watch players! Poor form.....more so in a play area.

In open plan non-play area maybe, but agree that porn would be more suitable still.

We also hate the packs of men, we tend to go to a club where men are on a controlled number, or a couples only night.

Most clubs have good and bad points, the one we go to is a little expensive, but provides us with the more controlled men issue. Oh and before all the single guys have a go at us, yes we know here are a lot of you who are very respectful, very well mannered and very nice too!!!

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By *mm_n_Zed OP   Couple
over a year ago

Fareham


"Speaking as a football fan, I can't think of anything worse!!!!!

You go to a club to play, not watch players! Poor form.....more so in a play area.

In open plan non-play area maybe, but agree that porn would be more suitable still.

We also hate the packs of men, we tend to go to a club where men are on a controlled number, or a couples only night.

Most clubs have good and bad points, the one we go to is a little expensive, but provides us with the more controlled men issue. Oh and before all the single guys have a go at us, yes we know here are a lot of you who are very respectful, very well mannered and very nice too!!!"

Glad you agree on the football issue. We go to bi nights to meet bi men - I'm annoyed that some of them may be distracted by Man U Vs 'whoever they're playing'.

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By *atasha_DavidCouple
over a year ago

Slough

We avoid the club your talking about on Bank Holidays for this very reason. It is always full of people that seem to think their on a day trip to Clacton.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

where do you then draw the line...

for example... during the olympics last year, on the saturday nights when mo farah was winning medals, our local club had a tv only in one of the social areas.....

should they have not had it on... after all, if people weren't interested they wouldn't have had it on.... but in the last couple of laps that place was packed!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We avoid the club your talking about on Bank Holidays for this very reason. It is always full of people that seem to think their on a day trip to Clacton."

There is nothing wrong with God's Waiting room I will have you know!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with it if it's in a "non play room" and if it's something special like that, but football? Not our cup of tea!

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

or another example... when raul moat was on the run, because it was in our general area, when they had the standoff 30 miles up the road, they put on sky news.... and people were popping in and out of same said social area taking a peek at what was going on....

again should they have not done that?

things like this only affect you in clubs if you let them?... you don't have to watch

if they were showing it in play areas, i would agree... in social areas why not??

so is it a general issue, a sport issue, or a football issue?

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By *atasha_DavidCouple
over a year ago

Slough


"

if they were showing it in play areas, i would agree... in social areas why not??

"

They are closing a large and popular public play area to do this. So I assume you agree that they are wrong to do so?

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By *mm_n_Zed OP   Couple
over a year ago

Fareham


"

if they were showing it in play areas, i would agree... in social areas why not??

They are closing a large and popular public play area to do this. So I assume you agree that they are wrong to do so?"

^^^ This.

It's in the large cinema area which is a primary play area, especially on a bi night. If it were something like an Olympic final then, in a social area such as the lounge, fine. But to effectively wipe out a significant play area for a football match...? Not on in our book.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"

if they were showing it in play areas, i would agree... in social areas why not??

They are closing a large and popular public play area to do this. So I assume you agree that they are wrong to do so?

^^^ This.

It's in the large cinema area which is a primary play area, especially on a bi night. If it were something like an Olympic final then, in a social area such as the lounge, fine. But to effectively wipe out a significant play area for a football match...? Not on in our book. "

if it is a play area then why draw the line between olympics and football.... it either is okay or isn't.... which is why i asked if the issue is sport or football

in which case you could argue nothing but porn should be shown!!! right????

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By *mm_n_Zed OP   Couple
over a year ago

Fareham


"

if they were showing it in play areas, i would agree... in social areas why not??

They are closing a large and popular public play area to do this. So I assume you agree that they are wrong to do so?

^^^ This.

It's in the large cinema area which is a primary play area, especially on a bi night. If it were something like an Olympic final then, in a social area such as the lounge, fine. But to effectively wipe out a significant play area for a football match...? Not on in our book.

if it is a play area then why draw the line between olympics and football.... it either is okay or isn't.... which is why i asked if the issue is sport or football

in which case you could argue nothing but porn should be shown!!! right????"

Our issue is with showing ANYTHING other than porn in a primary play area in a swingers club. It's nothing to do with being anti football - it's about paying to go to a swingers club to play in the play areas and socialise in the social areas

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having said that, in partners sometimes the porn is so overwhelmingly shit and loud that I'd rather have football on and I hate football!

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"

if they were showing it in play areas, i would agree... in social areas why not??

They are closing a large and popular public play area to do this. So I assume you agree that they are wrong to do so?

^^^ This.

It's in the large cinema area which is a primary play area, especially on a bi night. If it were something like an Olympic final then, in a social area such as the lounge, fine. But to effectively wipe out a significant play area for a football match...? Not on in our book.

if it is a play area then why draw the line between olympics and football.... it either is okay or isn't.... which is why i asked if the issue is sport or football

in which case you could argue nothing but porn should be shown!!! right????

Our issue is with showing ANYTHING other than porn in a primary play area in a swingers club. It's nothing to do with being anti football - it's about paying to go to a swingers club to play in the play areas and socialise in the social areas "

thats fine.... porn on 24.7... point made

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By *mm_n_Zed OP   Couple
over a year ago

Fareham


"

if they were showing it in play areas, i would agree... in social areas why not??

They are closing a large and popular public play area to do this. So I assume you agree that they are wrong to do so?

^^^ This.

It's in the large cinema area which is a primary play area, especially on a bi night. If it were something like an Olympic final then, in a social area such as the lounge, fine. But to effectively wipe out a significant play area for a football match...? Not on in our book.

if it is a play area then why draw the line between olympics and football.... it either is okay or isn't.... which is why i asked if the issue is sport or football

in which case you could argue nothing but porn should be shown!!! right????

Our issue is with showing ANYTHING other than porn in a primary play area in a swingers club. It's nothing to do with being anti football - it's about paying to go to a swingers club to play in the play areas and socialise in the social areas

thats fine.... porn on 24.7... point made

"

... in a major playroom of a swingers club.

Footie is fine down the pub

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By *lackCherryCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Given the vastness of AB fabs one room showing football wont really spoil the fun will it ?

It might be more entertaining the porn shown at most clubs anyway ! (and I hate football).

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By *mm_n_Zed OP   Couple
over a year ago

Fareham


"Given the vastness of AB fabs one room showing football wont really spoil the fun will it ?

It might be more entertaining the porn shown at most clubs anyway ! (and I hate football).

"

If it were any other night I'd agree ... but it's a bi night and if you know anything about them, you'll have noticed guys play differently to couples and bi women. The cinema very much centres on the way guys play ... the porn, the subtle indications followed by pretty much anonymous play. Of course, horny stuff goes on elsewhere but the cinema is a very important element of male bi play.

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By *lackCherryCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Well im not really sure what to tell you, AB Fabs consistently ignore any feedback on this site so I seriously doubt a thread here is going to change their minds.

I guess if you feel this strongly about it you could always vote with your feet and not go

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By *mm_n_Zed OP   Couple
over a year ago

Fareham


"Well im not really sure what to tell you, AB Fabs consistently ignore any feedback on this site so I seriously doubt a thread here is going to change their minds.

I guess if you feel this strongly about it you could always vote with your feet and not go "

Oh I know they won't change their minds - that wasn't the purpose of this thread. I'm pi**ed off and we probably won't go but I asked what OTHER things might prevent people from going to a club ... like fancy dress nights or a certain theme etc. Like I wouldn't want to do a 'naked' night for example.

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

A sploshing night would put me off.

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By *mm_n_Zed OP   Couple
over a year ago

Fareham


"A sploshing night would put me off."

I'm with you there. Yuck!

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By *ootleCouple
over a year ago

Romford, Essex

We were thinking of going on Monday - but I think we might just give it a miss now

We have to agree with Gillyhicks - the number of single guys at some clubs who don't think the rules apply to them really piss us off - by that I mean touching without being invited ! or being followed - In one club I literally turned round to look in a room, which took a couple of seconds and when I turned round there was 3 guys with dicks in hand between me and my wife - if they had just played it cool they would have had a great show, instead they had to listen to our orgasms through a door.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Speaking as a football fan, I can't think of anything worse!!!!!

Glad you agree on the football issue. We go to bi nights to meet bi men - I'm annoyed that some of them may be distracted by Man U Vs 'whoever they're playing'."

I once went to a meet at a couple's house and they had the footy on their 50" screen TV. Very distracting - especially since it was 'my team' and I was trying to avoid the result until Match of the Day later on!

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By *mm_n_Zed OP   Couple
over a year ago

Fareham


"We were thinking of going on Monday - but I think we might just give it a miss now

We have to agree with Gillyhicks - the number of single guys at some clubs who don't think the rules apply to them really piss us off - by that I mean touching without being invited ! or being followed - In one club I literally turned round to look in a room, which took a couple of seconds and when I turned round there was 3 guys with dicks in hand between me and my wife - if they had just played it cool they would have had a great show, instead they had to listen to our orgasms through a door. "

Some never learn though do they? I remember once, I was playing with Z on a bed, I was on top when I heard the jingle of a belt being undone and turned to see a bloke getting undressed behind me, his trousers and kecks were around his ankles and shirt on the floor. I don't know that he THOUGHT he was going to do - but he ended up getting nothing but his marching orders. Cheeky sod!

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