FabSwingers.com forum: WMFC - White man's fan Club

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

How do people feel about a white mans fan club social starting up..... lets see how many women want this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How do people feel about a white mans fan club social starting up..... lets see how many women want this

Am I allowed to join

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What are the criteria for joining? I mean surely white guys aren't particularly hard to find in the UK?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What are the criteria for joining? I mean surely white guys aren't particularly hard to find in the UK?"

I agree a bit of a floored concept most clubs are mainly full of white guys in my experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What are the criteria for joining? I mean surely white guys aren't particularly hard to find in the UK?

I agree a bit of a floored concept most clubs are mainly full of white guys in my experience."
and frightfully non pc

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yes but ive been chatting to a few girls and they want it ....im sure there are some with just love white guys ....and there is a bmfc ...so why not a wmfc

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yes golden u can come ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most my mates are white might feel left out if I can't get in lol But the truth is I wouldn't go to a Bmfc as its called just like I don't go to main stream clubs that are mainly for black people ! Was born and bread in the UK so I want to socialise with people I've grown or meet on my travels as long as I get on with them whatever racial background they might be from . Just the way my parents brought me up and what I think is the right way but can see why a white person would be pissed of because if it was a wmfc it would be reported on the NEWS AT TEN

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Lol true but i just want to get a fed back ....i know women who go to bmfc they are white ....im black but it just finding out

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By *lackCherryCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

"Yes but ive been chatting to a few girls and they want it ....im sure there are some with just love white guys ....and there is a bmfc ...so why not a wmfc "

There is no reason in the world why you cannot have one/set one up, if we can have BMFC's or BBW "clubs" or under 30 events then go for it.

Some will get their knickers in a twist over discrimination and cry about PC without realising the irony (of promoting one set of discrimination but not another).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lol true but i just want to get a fed back ....i know women who go to bmfc they are white ....im black but it just finding out "
I wouldnt have a problem with it but the blackmans fan clubs would not deny a white guy attending so it would not be a good idea to stop a guy coming in as he is not white. Also when you say white did you mean to include italian german spanish?? Or uk british white?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thats what i thought

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By *lackCherryCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

"Lol true but i just want to get a fed back ....i know women who go to bmfc they are white ....im black but it just finding out I wouldnt have a problem with it but the blackmans fan clubs would not deny a white guy attending so it would not be a good idea to stop a guy coming in as he is not white. Also when you say white did you mean to include italian german spanish?? Or uk british white?"

Do BMFC's have rules on what region of the world the man has to be from to be included ? ;o

odd world we live in.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I mean whole just need a fed back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I might start up an AMFC....yep. asian man's fan club

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

It is

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Lol

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By *lackCherryCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Id quite like a Welsh washed up ex rugby playing man living in England fan club

WWUERPMLIE fan club has a ring to it I think!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Lol ......funny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do BMFC's have rules on what region of the world the man has to be from to be included ? ;o

odd world we live in.

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good question I think it covers black African and carribean as there is not really any other black category and in this country its a minority, including mixed race? That's confusing as my dads nan was half chinese. How about a fuk a human if you fancy fan club??? just a thought.

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By *lackCherryCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

good question I think it covers black African and carribean as there is not really any other black category and in this country its a minority, including mixed race? That's confusing as my dads nan was half chinese. How about a fuk a human if you fancy fan club??? just a thought.

Well there are as many different "types" of African black men as there are European white males, a north African man is quite different to a West African and indeed different to a South African, hell even tribe to tribe there are some differences in appearance, just as much if not more so than the variations in white men across Europe and the world.

I'm all for people being able to screw what they want, but I hope you're just as prevalent on the BMFC threads with this attitude as on other threads

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Lol yes its just ive heard about the bmfc and the friends i know that go are into black guys .......but then i have other friends who are into white guys ......and they are from all mixed races ...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yes i know about african tribes ....etc ...

As my background is that

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By *lackCherryCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

"Yes i know about african tribes ....etc ...

As my background is that

Sorry that was aimed at the poster I quoted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm all for people being able to screw what they want, but I hope you're just as prevalent on the BMFC threads with this attitude as on other threads

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most definatly am as I dont like the idea of someone wanting to fuk me because im black and d is white. We are much more than just a colour. We just live and let live keep it simple and was expressing an opinion on the topic.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

;-)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

";-)"
your all beautiful by the way lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I know that .. lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone has a preference and I believe its there own business so hey more groups more new ppl to meet. ...equals more fun for all

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By *izzjulezWoman
over a year ago

Essex

I'm one of the ladies that spoke to onlysweetashoney tonight and think this is a good idea but it seems that discrimination is being bought into this, why? I personally prefer English white guys or afro Caribbean guys, it's a personal preference but can't understand why your all up in arms when it comes to the subject of white guys?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im with you , mr posh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

End of day if folk want white mans or black mans social so be it as long as we are all.open about it.

All this pc shite has gone too far for example the mobo awards for black musicians i do not care one way or the other but if it was proposed similar for white musicians there would be uproar.

All i want is equality for all.

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

Forgive me, but it isn't about being PC. I fear many miss the point about minority things being highlighted.

Because media (and privilege) is and always has been predominantly male, straight and white.

I'm not going into an argument, but that is "easy mode" through most of life. This is why race issues, feminism (non radical) gender equality and identification (especially for trans, two spirits and everything inbetween) are such hot button topics right now and focus on "positive discrimination". In the UK, there wouldn't be the need for a WMFC, because that's the norm. (No need to give me false equivalence, i know some of you live in areas with a higher multi race mix).

Its kinda like saying Male Rights Activists should be taken seriously, in an overly patriachal society. Yeah.....no. That's already the unbalanced status quo.

Anyway, WMFCs exist in places in the world where whatever you class as white aren't common in those societies. Some in Far East Asia. And some African countries too.

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By *otwife CoolhubCouple
over a year ago

Bathgate

"Forgive me, but it isn't about being PC. I fear many miss the point about minority things being highlighted.

Because media (and privilege) is and always has been predominantly male, straight and white.

Its kinda like saying Male Rights Activists should be taken seriously, in an overly patriachal society. Yeah.....no. That's already the unbalanced status quo.

Anyway, WMFCs exist in places in the world where whatever you class as white aren't common in those societies. Some in Far East Asia. And some African countries too. "

Absolutely bang on my friend and much more eloquently explained than I could have hoped

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Lol i would of like to have heard the discussion when the bmfc first started up...if this whats to go by

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I want Eskimo blind dwarf fan club

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you babe

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Dont we all ...when i was talking to a few girlfriends last night ....we was sayin that there must be some black girls or of other skin colour ..that want to meet fit white guys but in a social theme ...it wasnt to put the black guys down at all or to rub peoples nose its all a bit of fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wmfc is pretty much going to any club night which is not BMFC as any night we have attended Silk has been pretty much the only black guy in attendance so don't think there would be as much call for it. I would never go to a normal club night looking for a black guy as I know over 90% of the men there would be white.

MissD

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Forgive me, but it isn't about being PC. I fear many miss the point about minority things being highlighted.

Because media (and privilege) is and always has been predominantly male, straight and white.

Its kinda like saying Male Rights Activists should be taken seriously, in an overly patriachal society. Yeah.....no. That's already the unbalanced status quo.

Anyway, WMFCs exist in places in the world where whatever you class as white aren't common in those societies. Some in Far East Asia. And some African countries too. "

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By *igerstyle2k2Man
over a year ago

Oxfordshire

"I might start up an AMFC....yep. asian man's fan club

haha! Going by feedback in other forum topics There'd be no women or couples at an Asian Man's Fan Club! Haha!

But each to their own, happy swinging, one love!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

See well i can put i go to soul events arranged by people from south london and 90% are black that attend....

so u cant put that down

Its nothing to do with colour its people preferences ...

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

*sigh* I think you missed my point. Nevermind. Good luck with your idea.

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By *lackCherryCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Anyway, WMFCs exist in places in the world where whatever you class as white aren't common in those societies. Some in Far East Asia. And some African countries too. "

Having travelled the world and lived all over I have never seen anything like this anywhere im afraid.

The idea behind positive discrimination is a good one, but its not something thats universally applied country to country. It only ever seems to apply to certain demographics in certain countries.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I have not missed ur point ...i just will not go down that road ..

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

Anyway, WMFCs exist in places in the world where whatever you class as white aren't common in those societies. Some in Far East Asia. And some African countries too.

Having travelled the world and lived all over I have never seen anything like this anywhere im afraid.

The idea behind positive discrimination is a good one, but its not something thats universally applied country to country. It only ever seems to apply to certain demographics in certain countries.

It exists, i'm from an African country and can confirm that it is a thing.

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By *lackCherryCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

It exists, i'm from an African country and can confirm that it is a thing. "

I have lived in Nigeria, Kenya, Zimbabwe, Swaziland and SA and have never seen anything like that, heard of anything like it, or know anyone thats ever mentioned it, as half of my family is also south african it might have cropped up once or twice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is this surely just about personal choice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"See well i can put i go to soul events arranged by people from south london and 90% are black that attend....

so u cant put that down

Its nothing to do with colour its people preferences ..."

You have completely missed the point.... We are talking about swinging clubs/socials being almost always 90% white unless themes towards BMFC

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

It exists, i'm from an African country and can confirm that it is a thing.

I'm Nigerian. It was a thing we knew about growing up. Anyway, my point wasn't to initiate sabre rattling. The very idea of WMFC is mostly absurd based on the reasons set out in my initial post in this thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only way a wmfc would work would to be, of and for, bi men.

The number of women attending would be single figures and the number of single men would be at least 10 times that. Also where do the couples fit in?

As has been said already. Most nights in a club is full of white men. Why try starting a fan club for something already rolling every night?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How about HTBGC

Heavily tattoed bi guys club ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

what we have found in the swinging world is there is no bigotry, you lot are the most accepting bunch of people on the planet.

everyone seems really chilled in our experience. when we are in clubs people can go "we are into this..." and everyone goes nice one, and everyone just gets on with it......

so if you want black, white, straight, bi, tv/ts, whatever go luck to you

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yes but must are in a couples thing

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By *lackCherryCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

I dunno what clubs you guys are going to but the ones I go to are full of a mix of all races, to say they are overflowing with white guys seems a little odd, maybe there is a better balance in the SE but all races and creeds attend the nights we do.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Most not must

It is all about swinging but some had to go down that root ..... I could tell u about where my father comes from ..but its not about that ...its findin an easy ground

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By *lackCherryCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Are we talking in a swinging context, or a general one because there is next to no "swining" in Africa on the whole I don't even think there any any organised clubs so if anything is happening its all private meets at houses.

Nothing to do with saber rattling here but if you claim as a key counter point there is the same sort of positive discrimination for white guys in other countries, when clearly thats just not true someone's going to call you on it.

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

Swinging in Africa is subdued, and rarely visible, but that doesn't mean it doesn't/ didn't exist. Like i said, i was aware of it on a local level, the sort of thing that was spoken of in hushed tones. It was/ is a thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive been reading the comments and just think if it works for you go for it. Set up whatever clubs groups you want we always have a choice of what to be part of it or not. Your all basing your views on your own personal experiences so you wont find a common ground. Just a good example of how we are all different!

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By *lackCherryCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

and these hushed toned conversations spoke of organised white mens fan club events ? oooh ok, I guess were just going to have to disagree with this because I just don't believe it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So what about all them beautiful black women like myself ...that like white men and i know they are out there ....its a choice but i feel u are taking this to a completely different level ....i was brought up to never judge a book by its cover and that was with a(beautiful white women)..which i do ...but i wont bring my fathers background or the colour of my skin ......this is swinging .......so lets all enjoy ourselves

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I agree

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By *lackCherryCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

"So what about all them beautiful black women like myself ...that like white men and i know they are out there ....its a choice but i feel u are taking this to a completely different level ....i was brought up to never judge a book by its cover and that was with a(beautiful white women)..which i do ...but i wont bring my fathers background or the colour of my skin ......this is swinging .......so lets all enjoy ourselves "

I'm not sure if this is directed at me, but I am all for your event infact more power to you on it, I think you have every right to have any preference and organise any event you wish.

My posts are clearly responding to blackshadows..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you finally someone who sees reason

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yes i know _lackcherry ...i am as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why must we have any colour fan club, why can't individual choice prevail?

Cannot believe the current trend by some these days towards looking for racism in every nook and cranny of life, even in swinging clubs. It’s getting to be like the McCarthy communist witch hunts in the USA years ago – ‘right-on’ liberals trying to prove how anti-racist they are and trying to out-liberal their fellow liberals finding ‘racism’ on the flimsiest of evidence.

Some of the posters here appear to contort themselves into all shapes trying to show everyone how much more enlightened they are they exhibit cringingly sycophantic inverse racism which, if I were black, Asian or whatever, I think I might feel rather patronised.

Racism is a higher form of tribalism (like the football team you support, whether you are from Wales, England Ireland or Scotland, and all the rest) and tribalism has been around since the dawn of time – it is an inherent natural trait that is in all humans, not just the monopoly of white people.

Can’t we all just accept people for what they are, human beings whatever their colour or race. If people have chosen to live in our country, however, I do take issue with them insisting their culture must somehow trump mine because an aspect of my culture is offensive to them. FFS people of all races are now sitting in our Parliament, many have been elevated to the nobility, many have dedicated TV programmes/channels, more and more representation in mainstream media, our athletics, many sports and football teams are well over-represented in proportional terms with ethnic minority groups – so why all the self-flagellation over imagined racism and constant scrutiny of everything said/written for the smallest hint of the dreaded racism? I really do find it hard to think of any other country in the world so tolerant, so accepting and where opportunity really is equal for anyone of any colour/race with ambition. Islam adherents apparently make up only a tiny proportion of the UK population but they look at how much of the national agenda they set!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have to say that by definition if we accept BMFC parties then WMFC parties are just as acceptable ( whether successful or not )

Its all about choice and personal preference so by definition we must all accept that some themed nights are for us others arent it does not make them wrong or doomed to failure

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By *lackCherryCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

"Yes i know _lackcherry ...i am as well "

forums are not a great medium for a discussion odd as it seems

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

and these hushed toned conversations spoke of organised white mens fan club events ? oooh ok, I guess were just going to have to disagree with this because I just don't believe it.

Organised fan clubs. Obviously not. A group of like minded "housewives" that held appreciation for rich, white, oil corporation execs either based in, or visiting the country/ state? Yes.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Im startin to agree with u .... Blackcherry .....its people's choices ....

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By *onnoisseur100Man
over a year ago

Woking-ish

"Lol true but i just want to get a fed back ....i know women who go to bmfc they are white ....im black but it just finding out "

How about a BWFC then I nearly went to a recent bmfc meeting in sunburn until I read warning to white guys.... you're in for a quiet night if you come along!

I thought maybe there would be a few black ladies there as well. Apparently not.

If there were a BWFC I'd join immediately!

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How do people feel about a white mans fan club social starting up..... lets see how many women want this

Back to the original question lol I say if theres a need for it fill it

id be interested to see how it goes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im startin to agree with u .... Blackcherry .....its people's choices ...."

Well just to put the cat amongst the pigeons....as it were. I'm a black lady ....and I don't go to BMFC...is there a club for me?..lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Lol thanks ....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Well ur bi so yes as in sure there be women there who would be as well

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Am I really going to be the first to ask....

Will white women be allowed to come along?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Lol like that one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well if there is a need then Id love to go to a WMFC night as I would it would attract some hot black chicks who dig white guys - these situations have some of the hottest I've ever had especially since I like big butts and I cannot lie just like sir mix a lot!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well if there is a need then Id love to go to a WMFC night as I would it would attract some hot black chicks who dig white guys - these situations have some of the hottest I've ever had especially since I like big butts and I cannot lie just like sir mix a lot!

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love it haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Plus it will attract bi fems as well

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By *eendeeCouple
over a year ago

sheffield

"Lol true but i just want to get a fed back ....i know women who go to bmfc they are white ....im black but it just finding out

How about a BWFC then I nearly went to a recent bmfc meeting in sunburn until I read warning to white guys.... you're in for a quiet night if you come along!

I thought maybe there would be a few black ladies there as well. Apparently not.

If there were a BWFC I'd join immediately!

Lol

Us too mr dee would love a bwfc he would feel like he's died and gone to heaven

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes "

Yeah, what you saying sexy, you wanna link up sometime??

Lol

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By *wo4moreCouple
over a year ago

around walsall, wolves, cannock

We think BMFC events should be banned and that the proposed WMFC events should not be set up.

These events just make one person or another feel discriminated against.

Clubs/socials should pro-actively increase memberships and attendance of minorities without dedicating whole nights to them and basically prohibiting others attending.

How exactly they do that we haven't a clue, but every night everyone should feel welcome. If you approach someone and your their type then they will play, if your not they won't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We think BMFC events should be banned and that the proposed WMFC events should not be set up.

These events just make one person or another feel discriminated against.

Clubs/socials should pro-actively increase memberships and attendance of minorities without dedicating whole nights to them and basically prohibiting others attending.

How exactly they do that we haven't a clue, but every night everyone should feel welcome. If you approach someone and your their type then they will play, if your not they won't. "

Do you think bbw and t-girl events should be banned to???

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Lol bwfc sounds good ...lol ....i like it ....just need to see how many more would be interested ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We think BMFC events should be banned and that the proposed WMFC events should not be set up.

These events just make one person or another feel discriminated against.

Clubs/socials should pro-actively increase memberships and attendance of minorities without dedicating whole nights to them and basically prohibiting others attending.

How exactly they do that we haven't a clue, but every night everyone should feel welcome. If you approach someone and your their type then they will play, if your not they won't. "
mike for pm lol !!!

Guys remember that anyone can attend any clubs. The blackman fan clubs would not turn white males or females away. Im not bi but would not be excluded from a bi night its just a theme not entrance criteria.

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By *wo4moreCouple
over a year ago

around walsall, wolves, cannock

"We think BMFC events should be banned and that the proposed WMFC events should not be set up.

These events just make one person or another feel discriminated against.

Clubs/socials should pro-actively increase memberships and attendance of minorities without dedicating whole nights to them and basically prohibiting others attending.

How exactly they do that we haven't a clue, but every night everyone should feel welcome. If you approach someone and your their type then they will play, if your not they won't.

Do you think bbw and t-girl events should be banned to??? "

If they made people feel that they can't attend on that night as they wouldn't be welcomed then yes. We have attended clubs on a bbw night and not been told sorry your not large enough no-one will want to play with you. Neither of the demographic's you have mentioned discriminate based on race, largeness and transgenderness isn't race specific...

If a normal night club banned gay people - saying that they couldn't come in as they have there own night clubs - it would probably be shut down or fined as its illegal. Clubs should be open to all and not make anyone feel they can't attend.

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By *wo4moreCouple
over a year ago

around walsall, wolves, cannock

"Lol true but i just want to get a fed back ....i know women who go to bmfc they are white ....im black but it just finding out

How about a BWFC then I nearly went to a recent bmfc meeting in sunburn until I read warning to white guys.... you're in for a quiet night if you come along!

I thought maybe there would be a few black ladies there as well. Apparently not.

If there were a BWFC I'd join immediately!

Lol

Have seen these warnings before and in reply to requests in forums from white guys wanting to attend...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Well i think it will work ...i know some groups that do, do what u said ... But im lookin at it for what some people want ..that adore black women and white girls and the women want decent white guys to play

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We think BMFC events should be banned and that the proposed WMFC events should not be set up.

These events just make one person or another feel discriminated against.

Clubs/socials should pro-actively increase memberships and attendance of minorities without dedicating whole nights to them and basically prohibiting others attending.

How exactly they do that we haven't a clue, but every night everyone should feel welcome. If you approach someone and your their type then they will play, if your not they won't.

Do you think bbw and t-girl events should be banned to???

I've been to bbw nights and never had a problem, and I was a size 10!!

I think clubs do what they can.

Is it perfect no, but nothing ever will be.

I am single and I do not attend couples nights. Does that mean I should head off and open a club for singles only? No.

I simply accept it is what it is and it works for the majority.

The number of single women on this scene is small. The number of real single women attending clubs is lower still.

Trying to start something that requires single women to decide only to play with white men & get them to actually attend.... good luck with that.

As I said before every club has that most nights.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We think BMFC events should be banned and that the proposed WMFC events should not be set up.

These events just make one person or another feel discriminated against.

Clubs/socials should pro-actively increase memberships and attendance of minorities without dedicating whole nights to them and basically prohibiting others attending.

How exactly they do that we haven't a clue, but every night everyone should feel welcome. If you approach someone and your their type then they will play, if your not they won't.

Do you think bbw and t-girl events should be banned to???

I think you will find that white people are in attendance at BMFC events and welcomed its just that a white man shouldn't expect to play anymore then a straight man in gay club would expect to pull. No one is unwelcome to either place just know what to expect.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you

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By *wo4moreCouple
over a year ago

around walsall, wolves, cannock

"I think you will find that white people are in attendance at BMFC events and welcomed its just that a white man shouldn't expect to play anymore then a straight man in gay club would expect to pull. No one is unwelcome to either place just know what to expect."

I think you'll find single guys would be more then welcome in a gay bar. Lesbian bar less so, which is the comparison that you were probably looking for. But basically in a nut shell they can go but aren't really wanted or welcome... In other words they are being discluded/discriminated based on race...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm saying everyone is welcome in either of these places you just adjust your expectations accordingly. If I went to a bbw night I would not be turned away or unwelcome but based on my size 8/10 I wouldn't expect the men/women in attendance to really fancy/play with me. the same goes if a single white guy goes to a BMFC event he would be welcomed on a social level but couldn't really expect any of the women there to play with him.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"Most my mates are white might feel left out if I can't get in lol But the truth is I wouldn't go to a Bmfc as its called just like I don't go to main stream clubs that are mainly for black people ! Was born and bread in the UK so I want to socialise with people I've grown or meet on my travels as long as I get on with them whatever racial background they might be from . Just the way my parents brought me up and what I think is the right way but can see why a white person would be pissed of because if it was a wmfc it would be reported on the NEWS AT TEN

you can't say stuff like that... I get called a hater for having the same view.....

you'll have "the community" in your sights now.......

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By *wo4moreCouple
over a year ago

around walsall, wolves, cannock

The bbw may want to play with smaller women, whereas white males are told no one will be interested...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Well they would be at mine ... Its not a bmfc its a wnfc or bwfc

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

*wmfc

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By *onny BonesMan
over a year ago

a block away from heaven

What's the problem with your idea? If you want to give it a go crack on. My suggestion would be that you investigate things first and maybe research the BMFC idea. I have previously read misconceptions about the events.

I've attended with white mates before and they enjoyed the vibe and played as well. It is welcoming to all really. I think the benefit is for the women, who probably like OP and her contacts have a preference for what may hard to find! I love the mix of all colours, the music and the relaxed feel. Should you be able to entice the women of different races to your event it would be great for all concerned. Remember accompanying the women who are engaging with the men are husbands, partners and buddies. These people also add to the experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im not into black men. Not racist, I meet all cultures through my jobs. WMFC sounds interesting but I bet it wouldn't be in my area lol. Anyway, Ive never been to any club, but am toying with the idea of Paradise Spa in Bournemouth. I know, not a club but a suggestion today from a new friend. Off thread I know, sorry,

but am a little nervous. Ive checked it out.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hun u be ok its always the first step into a club that gets u ....i still get like it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This thread baffles me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yes i know thats what im looking at .....and i want more single males as well

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

I think the thing that doesn't always get noticed in BMFC type threads is that not all black guys like the BMFC "gimmick"..... and that it probably turns off as many as like it...

some people use it to their advantage, but it is a double edged sword and they are normally the first people to play the race card.......

some shy away from it, and some are me vocal than others (yep me... lol)

i'd always like to think of myself as an individual based on my own merits rather than the colour of my skin...

judge me on the things I can control!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I know a lot of white guys that love the music as well as the women ...just like the bmfc ...... Its getting the right balance i might go to one of the bmfc ...

I know eurekas have one this friday ....couple of my friends love the bmfc but do say there should be one for wmfc...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How do people feel about a white mans fan club social starting up..... lets see how many women want this

Sounds good can I join lol x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I wouldnt do that

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do we get a members badge and stickers? Lol! Great idea! There's clubs for everything else!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The bbw may want to play with smaller women, whereas white males are told no one will be interested..."

How do you know that is said or that a bbw would play with a smaller woman I'm guessing that the odds on that are the same as a white man playing at a BMFC event. If there is a call for it which there quite obviously is the same as other themes nights how can you shoot someone down for their preference. We would not attend a bi night as Silk is not bisexual i wouldn't say that night was discriminating against straight people I just know to attend on a different night for fun.

MissD

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Lol im still looking into it but i can see it being stickers first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No reason not to have a wmfc but they would need to be aware of what would be expected of them .

BMFC are exactly what they say they are .... The guys are there to give the girls exactly what they want , and invariably do .

All shapes , sizes and ages and with equal enthusiasm .

Fair play to them and the girls as the nights are well attended and enjoyed by all .

Would an exclusive White guy night be the same ?

I don't know as horny porny nights which are mainly White guys with a few black guys, seem to be more about the girls trying to get to the black guys !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Mmmmmm im thinking .. . Lol

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By *MFC PartiesWoman
over a year ago

Here, There & Everywhere

"How do people feel about a white mans fan club social starting up..... lets see how many women want this

I feel so sorry that your initial question has been hijacked and i wish you luck with your venture

Feel free to email me if you want to ask me any questions about how i set up the BMFC but trust me, you could be on the start of a very rocky road

I am happy to let everyone here know the history of the BMFC, why i set it up and how i set it up but i doubt the majority of people here will be interested ...

But i can assure you that over 8 years ago (when i organised the first BMFC party) there were very few (if any) Black Guys in the swingers clubs that i attended

Thats why i set up the BMFC!!

And 8 years on i have over 15000 members,

Organise 7 parties each month - in 7 different venues across the UK,

And have an average of 600 guests attend the parties every month

No one is forced to attend a BMFC - its all about that magic word - PREFERENCE

And by the way, these days, its the venues that contact ME to host parties, not vice versa ...

And for the record, i have NEVER refused admission to ANYONE based on the colour of their skin (but i HAVE refused admission for other reasons, being too d*unk, unsuitably dressed, not being on the guest list)

I feel it is important to make non Black guys aware that the ladies who attend our parties do so because they are predominantly attracted to Black Guys, so they may not get much attention

I do that as my main concern is that guests get value for money and that they manage their expectations

It would be totally wrong for me to accept non Black Guys to a BMFC party without making them aware of the ladies preference, as they may possibly feel duped if they did not 'lucky' on the night!!

I am totally aware that the BMFC is not for everyone but my intentions are not and never have been to exclude ANYONE from attending

BMFC parties are well attended, sociable events where the dance-floor is always rammed, the social areas are always buzzing and the play rooms are usually busy!!

If anyone has any BMFC related questions, PLEASE feel free to contact me and i will happily discuss either in private or on here

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ive met u before at eurekas ...i be willing to met up with you ...to have a chat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lol im still looking into it but i can see it being stickers first "

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By *MFC PartiesWoman
over a year ago

Here, There & Everywhere

"Ive met u before at eurekas ...i be willing to met up with you ...to have a chat

Feel free to contact me to arrange

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Will do .....hun ......

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North

I do agree with complex mister though, most clubs are predominately white anyhow.

Best of luck though if you decide to set one up x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hun u be ok its always the first step into a club that gets u ....i still get like it "
Thank you. Just realised I named the place in Bournemouth

. Total accident on my part sorry. Im thinking if I don't go soon, I wont go at all, bonus that ive been asked to go with a nice guy who is going to be patient with me, judging by what he said.

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By *eepsouthCouple
over a year ago

Bournemouth

"Lol true but i just want to get a fed back ....i know women who go to bmfc they are white ....im black but it just finding out "

Not all woman are white at the BMFC quite a lot of black girls too

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

U should try eurekas if u can drive ....excellent place to go to and its relaxing as well open all day and evening

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Well im in talks with the director of bmfc..we see ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wmfc is pretty much going to any club night which is not BMFC as any night we have attended Silk has been pretty much the only black guy in attendance so don't think there would be as much call for it. I would never go to a normal club night looking for a black guy as I know over 90% of the men there would be white.

MissD"

100% true