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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi am mike am looking to start going to swingers clubs around my way and would like to chat to swingers and find out the do's and do not of swingers club!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Come along to the Lodge in Gloucester. We have a social every weds, open from 7.30pm. Lots of likeminded people to talk to :o) xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People sit around playing Crib and reading Womens Weekly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People sit around playing Crib and reading Womens Weekly "

Don't forget scrabble

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By *aveandkate35Couple
over a year ago

telford


"People sit around playing Crib and reading Womens Weekly "

However, don't let put you off there are quieter nights too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't forget the buffet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't forget the buffet "

Thought that was Tea and Scones ??

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By *MFC PartiesWoman
over a year ago

Here, There & Everywhere


"Hi am mike am looking to start going to swingers clubs around my way and would like to chat to swingers and find out the do's and do not of swingers club!! "

To give you a serious answer, i would say that its vital that each person does their homework ...

Check out as much information as possible about the club you are interested in attending and the others available in the area too - read the reviews within the club section, look at the club website, read the forums on here ...

You will find the answers to all of your questions (and then some) but it does take time and lets face it, as the person that wants the answers, its your responsibility to find the answers anyway ...

Asking questions on the forums that have been asked so many times before, unfortunately just gives us the impression that you are hoping to have the answers (and everything else) fall into your lap ..

The old adage - 'seek and you shall find' is appropriate, as is 'you get out what you put in'

Good luck and happy research

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of you like the look of someone try and chat with them, don't follow them around like a lost puppy, don't interrupt them if they're talking to someone else, don't forget top talk to the husband as well, don't tag along if you see them going to a play room with someone else hoping no one will notice you! Smile have fun and don't expect to play just because it cost you thirty quid to get in!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate predictive text.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Of you like the look of someone try and chat with them, don't follow them around like a lost puppy, don't interrupt them if they're talking to someone else, don't forget top talk to the husband as well, don't tag along if you see them going to a play room with someone else hoping no one will notice you! Smile have fun and don't expect to play just because it cost you thirty quid to get in!"

Thanks for that that's a real good help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Treat people with respect, be polite and understand that No means no.. If you are lucky enough to be invited to play, pay attention to your playmate and don't have your head on a swivel, looking at what everyone else is doing ... Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

being in a swingers club is almost like being in the pub from our experience.

people sit at the bar and chill out with a drink talking to other club members and the bar staff.

if theres a sauna or jacuzzi they tend to be popular.

its not a mass orgy or free for all that people who have never been seem to think its gonna be, its a nice relaxed friendly atmosphere.

just talk to people and be confident, too many single guys at clubs just lurk around outside the rooms hoping to be inviited in without even speaking to anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Either lots of sex or none at all. Depends on the atmosphere on the night.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"being in a swingers club is almost like being in the pub from our experience.

people sit at the bar and chill out with a drink talking to other club members and the bar staff.

if theres a sauna or jacuzzi they tend to be popular.

its not a mass orgy or free for all that people who have never been seem to think its gonna be, its a nice relaxed friendly atmosphere.

just talk to people and be confident, too many single guys at clubs just lurk around outside the rooms hoping to be inviited in without even speaking to anyone"

The round room at chameleons can be a bit of an orgy

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