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By *rDarcy87 OP   Man
2 weeks ago

Burton-on-Trent

I'm thinking of going to the Attic in Derby. But this will be my frist time at this type of club . I am 38 single straight male. I would to get some advice on how act and what to accept and what bring with me.

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By *itty9899Man
2 weeks ago

Bed waiting

Check out the website most information will be there. Be respectful, talk to people.

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By *ally StockingsTV/TS
1 week ago

Birmingham

This is going to sound so over simplified but you’d be surprised how many new single guys don’t follow it.

Be clean, be polite, smile, say hello to people, engage in conversation, if you’re talking to a couple look both in the eye not just her in the tits. Make a connection. That will succeed far more often than “do you want to play” and FFS, DON’T just follow people around in the hope that they are overcome with lust at your stunning levels of testosterone. 😉

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By *allySlinkyWoman
1 week ago

Leeds

Bring condoms in case you get lucky

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By *ally StockingsTV/TS
1 week ago

Birmingham

And don’t wear trainers

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By *ohn1953Man
1 week ago

North Wales

Just respect others , No means No and try not to follow couples around, don’t be afraid to approach others because it’s suprising how chatting can lead to some fun. But just go there don’t expect sex and if you do then that’s a bonus, but a lot of times you get to watch others playing and that can be hot . Hope this helps.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
1 week ago

Leeds


"And don’t wear trainers"

I remember someone saying they were going to wear "box fresh trainers" but they're still trainers!

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By *oliteguyMan
7 days ago

Melksham

Get there early. They try to balance the numbers, and single guys will queue and no guarantee of getting in, depending on how many couples and ladies are in. So the earlier you get there, the better.

As others have said, no trainers. Smart casual.

It’s a big venue so lots of places to explore. Ron’s room is quite a good place to just join in the chat and see people try out his gadgets.

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By *logger and HeelsCouple
7 days ago

Nr Peterborough


"And don’t wear trainers

I remember someone saying they were going to wear "box fresh trainers" but they're still trainers!"

We saw a guy kicked out for wearing trainers his reply was “iv driven 125miles to be here” lol

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By *teelCityCoupleCouple
6 days ago

Sheffield

Anyone going this Friday?

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By *arkhorse7Man
6 days ago

birmingham


"Anyone going this Friday? "

You guys coming to a Greedy Girls sometime soon too !?

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By *teelCityCoupleCouple
6 days ago

Sheffield


"Anyone going this Friday?

You guys coming to a Greedy Girls sometime soon too !? "

Yes end of October (what ever Thursday is in the holidays) is our next free Thursday night...why you waiting to have some fun with me? Mrs x

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By *arkhorse7Man
6 days ago

birmingham


"Anyone going this Friday?

You guys coming to a Greedy Girls sometime soon too !?

Yes end of October (what ever Thursday is in the holidays) is our next free Thursday night...why you waiting to have some fun with me? Mrs x"

Oh yes very much, you look amazingly hot and veris confirm it lol unfortunately not able to make the Friday you're there, so I did see you mentioned you maybe making an appearance at a GG night, which I usually try to make once a month ! Look forward to it

Nick x

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By *aughtylad86Man
5 days ago

Birmingham

How busy does it tend to be on a Friday daytime. Myself and a female friend are still contemplating on what to do and this seems like a good chance to check out the place

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By *mdawsMan
5 days ago

Doncaster

Don't bother - it's a shit club. Get on the guest list for an event at a club that has membership and is more discerning about who goes in. After getting yourself known you can ask about becoming a member yourself 👍

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By *orny DeucesCouple
4 days ago

Mansfield


"Don't bother - it's a shit club. Get on the guest list for an event at a club that has membership and is more discerning about who goes in. After getting yourself known you can ask about becoming a member yourself 👍 "

Is your opinion based on the fact you upset a few people while you were last there and wouldn't accept some constructive criticism from the management on how to better conduct yourself? Is your opinion based on your argumentative attitude you were asked not to return? Is your opinion based on being asked to leave becuase you touched someone without asking? Is your opinion based on you accusing people without listening to what was presented and upsetting staff with your allegations?

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By *eepee25Couple
4 days ago

South Yorkshire

We are considering a first visit tonight. Seems in our favour on the basis it’s free in for us a couple, no membership fee and BYOB to save money on alcohol. It’s a bit of a drive so hope it would be good. Although going with a sexy woman, hoping and expecting it’s not a free for all fumble

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By *irJSubNCouple
4 days ago

STOCKTON-ON-TEES

Male half is at _he attic right now. hope everyone has a great sexy time

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By *apperleymanMan
3 days ago

Leicester

As all the others (apart from one idiot) have said.

Go with zero expectations.

Dress smart, smell good.

Smile (I try to smile but end up looking like a serial killer)

Talk to folk, talk to the staff, ask for a tour.

Be yourself.

Think you’ll find you will have a good time.

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By *teelCityCoupleCouple
3 days ago

Sheffield


"As all the others (apart from one idiot) have said.

Go with zero expectations.

Dress smart, smell good.

Smile (I try to smile but end up looking like a serial killer)

Talk to folk, talk to the staff, ask for a tour.

Be yourself.

Think you’ll find you will have a good time. "

Ooh hope to bump into you there one day

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By *onyMad123Couple
2 days ago

nottingham/ derby


"As all the others (apart from one idiot) have said.

Go with zero expectations.

Dress smart, smell good.

Smile (I try to smile but end up looking like a serial killer)

Talk to folk, talk to the staff, ask for a tour.

Be yourself.

Think you’ll find you will have a good time. "

Make sure you bump into this one.

He's one of the good ones and gives the best hugs

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By *ayeTCouple
2 days ago

Peterborough

We visited The Attix a few months ago.

Had a. Great time, played in 3-4 rooms.

Explorered the whole club and spent 40 mins talking to the manager after doors closed.

Great place.

Great people

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By *he AtticCouple
1 day ago

Derby


"Don't bother - it's a shit club. Get on the guest list for an event at a club that has membership and is more discerning about who goes in. After getting yourself known you can ask about becoming a member yourself 👍 "
....... Coming from someone not once,but twice ejected from the club,your comments are as irrelevant as they can possibly be. Learn to treat others with the respect they deserve, understand no means no.... stop hiding behind the mask and one day even you might fit in!

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By *aomilatteCouple
1 day ago

Midlands


"I'm thinking of going to the Attic in Derby. But this will be my frist time at this type of club . I am 38 single straight male. I would to get some advice on how act and what to accept and what bring with me. "

Be respectful and follow the rules which should go without saying. Say hello to people as it's unlikely people will approach you. Some people will be happy to chat (which "may" lead to more), some people won't want to chat. Go regularly and you'll get club experience and are more likely to get chatting to people.

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By *hell2024Woman
1 day ago

Worksop

I used to help out at _he attic(bar)before covid x when new guys arrive dress smart no trainers bring your own booze x interact with people x don't expect to get laid just because its a swing club zx don't follow people about and defo don't get d*unk z relax ebjoy

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By *ally StockingsTV/TS
2 hours ago

Birmingham


" don't expect to get laid just because its a swing club "

Absolutely this.

It’s not a brothel, you still need to interact with people, you don’t pay your money and pick which one you want.

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