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"Sounds like we need to move north! Lol So many clubs down south restrict or don’t allow single guys." You know there's always a good chance of plenty of guys at Ignite on a Friday or a Sunday 😉 but have you ever tried the Tuesday at OP4F? Or a Thursday at Le Boudoir? We went to the OP4F one quite a while ago now and there was like 2 couples and 20 guys 🤣 although, you can never gaurentee numbers anywhere... | |||
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"Sounds like we need to move north! Lol So many clubs down south restrict or don’t allow single guys. You know there's always a good chance of plenty of guys at Ignite on a Friday or a Sunday 😉 but have you ever tried the Tuesday at OP4F? Or a Thursday at Le Boudoir? We went to the OP4F one quite a while ago now and there was like 2 couples and 20 guys 🤣 although, you can never gaurentee numbers anywhere..." That’s good to know, thank you 🙏🏼 We will definitely look into those | |||
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"I’d say we need more of this type of meeting for guys in clubs Every time we go to a club single guys are very thin on the ground Which is why we started using cinema more than clubs " Wish there was a cinema down south, we would go regularly as have loved our visits to Angels and Empire | |||
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"Bad girl this Friday at hellfire or half price night at ignite quite few guys and couples " I liked the idea of bad girls but hated a lot about it when we went :/ | |||
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"As a single guy, I can’t afford it. Living alone is expensive, bar a measly discount on council tax that’s sky high to begin with, you have to pay 100% of everything. With cost of living, below inflation pay rises, rising utility bills… it’s endless. The income barely covers the outgoings even working extra jobs. There isn’t money left over for fun! This is an expensive hobby if you’re going to do it regular. Movies once a week if you’re lucky. " Agree, but having a wife is even more expensive   | |||
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"As a single guy, I can’t afford it. Living alone is expensive, bar a measly discount on council tax that’s sky high to begin with, you have to pay 100% of everything. With cost of living, below inflation pay rises, rising utility bills… it’s endless. The income barely covers the outgoings even working extra jobs. There isn’t money left over for fun! This is an expensive hobby if you’re going to do it regular. Movies once a week if you’re lucky. Agree, but having a wife is even more expensive "Getting a divorce cots more than a wife | |||
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"As a single guy, I can’t afford it. Living alone is expensive, bar a measly discount on council tax that’s sky high to begin with, you have to pay 100% of everything. With cost of living, below inflation pay rises, rising utility bills… it’s endless. The income barely covers the outgoings even working extra jobs. There isn’t money left over for fun! This is an expensive hobby if you’re going to do it regular. Movies once a week if you’re lucky. Agree, but having a wife is even more expensive "Not if they are working and you are sharing bills and a huge chunk of wives are working now. You also get into swinging clubs for a fraction of the price.  | |||
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"As a single guy, I can’t afford it. Living alone is expensive, bar a measly discount on council tax that’s sky high to begin with, you have to pay 100% of everything. With cost of living, below inflation pay rises, rising utility bills… it’s endless. The income barely covers the outgoings even working extra jobs. There isn’t money left over for fun! This is an expensive hobby if you’re going to do it regular. Movies once a week if you’re lucky. " Are you going to bang this drum on every thread that has Club in the title ? | |||
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"I'd say any greedy girls kind of events? But also maybe at least some men realised that (some) clubs are treating them very much like cash cows and voted with their feet? I have also found that day time spas normally have quite a few men around, with not as many women or couples. Usually ones on "extended lunch break". Unless your post was "tongue in cheek". " Absolutely not tongue in cheek. I like clubs that have a good amount of single guys but even the GG nights are having less and less guys (cost obviously a factor). I just see people talking about clubs with loads of guys and wondering where I should try as it's not really been my experience where I go! X | |||
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"Every club up north I think, reading the above I might move South, sounds ideal to me I hate competition haha" . Maybe I need to head north 😈 | |||
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"I stopped going to clubs up north as it was a 10-1 ratio of men to women. " You're selling it to me 😈 | |||
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"To be fair, I'm put off by the crazy fees they charge single men at clubs. I'm thinking of going to GGs in Runcorn though as that does seem more reasonable. As for ratio, yeah, that can be tricky to judge. Rios in London is good but the men tend to be the wanking dead and not really joining in with couples." I had a great time when I went to Rios! But as a solo female I think you need to be pretty confident to go! | |||
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"I have found most clubs limit the number of single men as most prefer it that way. When I was in a couple we found it uncomfortable if there were too many single men and as a single man it can be frustrating. When a guy is paying between £30 and £50 a pop you want to enjoy your night. I don't mean expect anything to happen but I don't want to be bumping into cock every time I try to move. For the ladies that want more attention places like The Townhouse used to run fairly regular Greedy Girls events. I'm sure other clubs will too. I would be interested to hear from anyone that has been to a GG event to see what they are like. Are they worth attending? " I used to love GG nights but lately they seem to have more couples then solo guys xx | |||
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"The Attic in Derby had more than enough guys wandering around on the few Saturday nights we visited." Its on my list to try! Xx | |||
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"As a single guy, I can’t afford it. Living alone is expensive, bar a measly discount on council tax that’s sky high to begin with, you have to pay 100% of everything. With cost of living, below inflation pay rises, rising utility bills… it’s endless. The income barely covers the outgoings even working extra jobs. There isn’t money left over for fun! This is an expensive hobby if you’re going to do it regular. Movies once a week if you’re lucky. " Well of course! But I'm just curious where the single guy heavy clubs everyone talks about actually are! | |||
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"I'd say any greedy girls kind of events? But also maybe at least some men realised that (some) clubs are treating them very much like cash cows and voted with their feet? I have also found that day time spas normally have quite a few men around, with not as many women or couples. Usually ones on "extended lunch break". Unless your post was "tongue in cheek". Absolutely not tongue in cheek. I like clubs that have a good amount of single guys but even the GG nights are having less and less guys (cost obviously a factor). I just see people talking about clubs with loads of guys and wondering where I should try as it's not really been my experience where I go! X" That's interesting. Cost obviously a factor but I wonder if the pool of men interested in this type of scenario (and willing to pay even a more modest amount for it) is relatively limited. Lots of men just really don't like when m/f ratio gets really high. The event near me seems to get people but they struggle and put in a lot of effort including socials just for that purpose. | |||
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"Ignite can easily have these ratios and last time I was at Hellfire on a Wednesday night there were a lot of single guys. " . Ive been to Ignite a lot and while there are a few single guys I don't find it single guy heavy (if that makes sense) Might try Hellfire one Wednesday! | |||
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"Where can I find these clubs (asking for me 😈) I see it mentioned abouts clubs all the time but it's been far from my experience. Even parties that are designed for women/couples who like single guys I'm finding the ratio is becoming less and less guys. So where can I find an event/party that's genuinely single guy heavy! " Attic in Derby host Greedy Girls nights every Thursday, it's always very well attended and the has a lot of guys attend in big numbers, it's been very popular and going for a very long time, always hugely popular with single females and couples who love lots of make attendees, been going for over 10 years, it always busy on those nights ! Give it a try | |||
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"Where can I find these clubs (asking for me 😈) I see it mentioned abouts clubs all the time but it's been far from my experience. Even parties that are designed for women/couples who like single guys I'm finding the ratio is becoming less and less guys. So where can I find an event/party that's genuinely single guy heavy! Attic in Derby host Greedy Girls nights every Thursday, it's always very well attended and the has a lot of guys attend in big numbers, it's been very popular and going for a very long time, always hugely popular with single females and couples who love lots of make attendees, been going for over 10 years, it always busy on those nights ! Give it a try " Thank you! 😘😘 | |||
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"I'd say any greedy girls kind of events? But also maybe at least some men realised that (some) clubs are treating them very much like cash cows and voted with their feet? I have also found that day time spas normally have quite a few men around, with not as many women or couples. Usually ones on "extended lunch break". Unless your post was "tongue in cheek". Absolutely not tongue in cheek. I like clubs that have a good amount of single guys but even the GG nights are having less and less guys (cost obviously a factor). I just see people talking about clubs with loads of guys and wondering where I should try as it's not really been my experience where I go! X" if it was men talking about "loads of guys", or 10:1 ratio, do take it with a pinch of salt. As men don't seem that great with numbers, particularly on here- a 4" becomes 8+, and 5'7" becomes 6'+, for example. | |||
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"I'd say any greedy girls kind of events? But also maybe at least some men realised that (some) clubs are treating them very much like cash cows and voted with their feet? I have also found that day time spas normally have quite a few men around, with not as many women or couples. Usually ones on "extended lunch break". Unless your post was "tongue in cheek". Absolutely not tongue in cheek. I like clubs that have a good amount of single guys but even the GG nights are having less and less guys (cost obviously a factor). I just see people talking about clubs with loads of guys and wondering where I should try as it's not really been my experience where I go! X if it was men talking about "loads of guys", or 10:1 ratio, do take it with a pinch of salt. As men don't seem that great with numbers, particularly on here- a 4" becomes 8+, and 5'7" becomes 6'+, for example. " Very true 😄 but no it's couples and ladies too! I know everyone's perception of 'loads of guys' will be different depending on what they are looking for but even from my own experience of doing GG parties over the last few years there is definitely a shift in the amount of guys who attend xx | |||
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"Where can I find these clubs (asking for me 😈) I see it mentioned abouts clubs all the time but it's been far from my experience. Even parties that are designed for women/couples who like single guys I'm finding the ratio is becoming less and less guys. So where can I find an event/party that's genuinely single guy heavy! " We’re going to try the lunchtime GG event in Sutton next week. There seem to be few reviews of it so we’ll report back. | |||
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"As a single guy, I can’t afford it. Living alone is expensive, bar a measly discount on council tax that’s sky high to begin with, you have to pay 100% of everything. With cost of living, below inflation pay rises, rising utility bills… it’s endless. The income barely covers the outgoings even working extra jobs. There isn’t money left over for fun! This is an expensive hobby if you’re going to do it regular. Movies once a week if you’re lucky. Are you going to bang this drum on every thread that has Club in the title ? " You could always donate me a membership fee and then I can post about going to clubs instead of being priced out of them…? | |||
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"There is a bi event a couple of times a month at a sauna club near to us that usually has a very good ratio of men to women. I think it’s fair to say that a large number of the guys aren’t bi at all but go along for the ladies and couples. Lots of non native men are attending now though as word gets about. " ME1 I guess? We’ve never thought of trying that. | |||
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"There is a bi event a couple of times a month at a sauna club near to us that usually has a very good ratio of men to women. I think it’s fair to say that a large number of the guys aren’t bi at all but go along for the ladies and couples. Lots of non native men are attending now though as word gets about. ME1 I guess? We’ve never thought of trying that." ME1 bi night is always great fun, the facilities are great and very clean too | |||
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"To be fair, I'm put off by the crazy fees they charge single men at clubs. I'm thinking of going to GGs in Runcorn though as that does seem more reasonable. As for ratio, yeah, that can be tricky to judge. Rios in London is good but the men tend to be the wanking dead and not really joining in with couples." We notice this often at Ignite. Just guys roaming and not bothering to talk to anyone. They pop up fully clothed in the pool or sauna area, are they really expecting the naked wet couple to ask them to join them without a word exchanged? | |||
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"There is a bi event a couple of times a month at a sauna club near to us that usually has a very good ratio of men to women. I think it’s fair to say that a large number of the guys aren’t bi at all but go along for the ladies and couples. Lots of non native men are attending now though as word gets about. ME1 I guess? We’ve never thought of trying that." That’s the one… | |||
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"As a single guy, I can’t afford it. Living alone is expensive, bar a measly discount on council tax that’s sky high to begin with, you have to pay 100% of everything. With cost of living, below inflation pay rises, rising utility bills… it’s endless. The income barely covers the outgoings even working extra jobs. There isn’t money left over for fun! This is an expensive hobby if you’re going to do it regular. Movies once a week if you’re lucky. Are you going to bang this drum on every thread that has Club in the title ? You could always donate me a membership fee and then I can post about going to clubs instead of being priced out of them…? " | |||
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"As a single guy, I can’t afford it. Living alone is expensive, bar a measly discount on council tax that’s sky high to begin with, you have to pay 100% of everything. With cost of living, below inflation pay rises, rising utility bills… it’s endless. The income barely covers the outgoings even working extra jobs. There isn’t money left over for fun! This is an expensive hobby if you’re going to do it regular. Movies once a week if you’re lucky. Are you going to bang this drum on every thread that has Club in the title ? You could always donate me a membership fee and then I can post about going to clubs instead of being priced out of them…? " Try the clubs that don't charge a membership fee, only an entrance fee. Save your cinema and eating out money and use it for a club. Sometimes you have to sacrifice some things to do something else. | |||
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"Ignite can easily have these ratios and last time I was at Hellfire on a Wednesday night there were a lot of single guys. . Ive been to Ignite a lot and while there are a few single guys I don't find it single guy heavy (if that makes sense) Might try Hellfire one Wednesday! " Or try one of their Bad Girl parties? I think they are set up more for the sort of ratio you are looking for | |||
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"Ignite can easily have these ratios and last time I was at Hellfire on a Wednesday night there were a lot of single guys. . Ive been to Ignite a lot and while there are a few single guys I don't find it single guy heavy (if that makes sense) Might try Hellfire one Wednesday! Or try one of their Bad Girl parties? I think they are set up more for the sort of ratio you are looking for " Bad Girls is tonight, we are going as it was lots of fun last time. Not sure the ratio was quite that good but there were a lot of guys there! | |||
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"I think you need to try the Leeds clubs. They aren't £50 for single men. At both Quest and Pandora's there are events with single male prices of £25/£30/£35. " Clubs are much cheaper up North generally. The closer to London you get the steeper the price. I do wonder if these high prices affect the quality of guys? With higher costs do come higher expectations??? | |||
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"Ignite can easily have these ratios and last time I was at Hellfire on a Wednesday night there were a lot of single guys. . Ive been to Ignite a lot and while there are a few single guys I don't find it single guy heavy (if that makes sense) Might try Hellfire one Wednesday! Or try one of their Bad Girl parties? I think they are set up more for the sort of ratio you are looking for " I tired this and although loved the idea, I didnt enjoy it! | |||
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"I think you need to try the Leeds clubs. They aren't £50 for single men. At both Quest and Pandora's there are events with single male prices of £25/£30/£35. " Thanks! | |||
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"I do wonder if these high prices affect the quality of guys? With higher costs do come higher expectations???" We’ll be able to tell you on Thursday afternoon when we’re finished in Sutton. It’s very expensive for single men. | |||
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"I do wonder if these high prices affect the quality of guys? With higher costs do come higher expectations??? We’ll be able to tell you on Thursday afternoon when we’re finished in Sutton. It’s very expensive for single men." Which club in Sutton? Most of the investment bankers live in that belt | |||
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"The Attic in Derby had more than enough guys wandering around on the few Saturday nights we visited." Unfortunately most just wandering around hoping for invite no social skills at all | |||
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"The Attic in Derby had more than enough guys wandering around on the few Saturday nights we visited. Unfortunately most just wandering around hoping for invite no social skills at all " Exactly, they're what stopped us going, sadly quantity over quality. | |||
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"I do wonder if these high prices affect the quality of guys? With higher costs do come higher expectations??? We’ll be able to tell you on Thursday afternoon when we’re finished in Sutton. It’s very expensive for single men." A number of the parties (but not all) at Sutton House have "hostesses" i.e. girls who are paid to ensure the male guests are happy. Which is why they charge a higher price and as such attract a clientele who assume that every woman there is going to fuck them. | |||
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"I do wonder if these high prices affect the quality of guys? With higher costs do come higher expectations??? We’ll be able to tell you on Thursday afternoon when we’re finished in Sutton. It’s very expensive for single men. A number of the parties (but not all) at Sutton House have "hostesses" i.e. girls who are paid to ensure the male guests are happy. Which is why they charge a higher price and as such attract a clientele who assume that every woman there is going to fuck them. " Yeah, I'm aware of Sutton (and others) not something I'm interested in but each to their own. I think the issue of expectations comes when the cost of entry to a "regular" swingers club becomes very close to that of a hostess club (as is happening now at a couple of clubs)- you begin to see why guys paying this sort of rate may arrive with high expectations. | |||
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"I do wonder if these high prices affect the quality of guys? With higher costs do come higher expectations??? We’ll be able to tell you on Thursday afternoon when we’re finished in Sutton. It’s very expensive for single men. A number of the parties (but not all) at Sutton House have "hostesses" i.e. girls who are paid to ensure the male guests are happy. Which is why they charge a higher price and as such attract a clientele who assume that every woman there is going to fuck them. Yeah, I'm aware of Sutton (and others) not something I'm interested in but each to their own. I think the issue of expectations comes when the cost of entry to a "regular" swingers club becomes very close to that of a hostess club (as is happening now at a couple of clubs)- you begin to see why guys paying this sort of rate may arrive with high expectations. " On the other hand lower prices for single guys are maybe why some clubs are inundated with chancers and undesirables who probably wouldn't go if the price was higher. So it's a bit of a double edged sword. R. | |||
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"I do wonder if these high prices affect the quality of guys? With higher costs do come higher expectations??? We’ll be able to tell you on Thursday afternoon when we’re finished in Sutton. It’s very expensive for single men. A number of the parties (but not all) at Sutton House have "hostesses" i.e. girls who are paid to ensure the male guests are happy. Which is why they charge a higher price and as such attract a clientele who assume that every woman there is going to fuck them. Yeah, I'm aware of Sutton (and others) not something I'm interested in but each to their own. I think the issue of expectations comes when the cost of entry to a "regular" swingers club becomes very close to that of a hostess club (as is happening now at a couple of clubs)- you begin to see why guys paying this sort of rate may arrive with high expectations. On the other hand lower prices for single guys are maybe why some clubs are inundated with chancers and undesirables who probably wouldn't go if the price was higher. So it's a bit of a double edged sword. R." Not really - a responsible club/host would manage and regulate the ratios. A higher price point also excludes certain groups (inc younger people with less disposable income) who could contribute a different and positive energy to parties. | |||
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