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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Are there any single men coming to Cupids Saturday night or is it just all us single women!!???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are there any single men coming to Cupids Saturday night or is it just all us single women!!???"
I am going........was there this afternoon. Great fun!!

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

Hope there are!!!!!

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By *hyllyphyllyMan
over a year ago

Bradford

Would love to, but £75 is a bloody week's giro!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it really 75quid if so what planet are they on charging that.

Yes i know in part its to cull numbers of single men but if true its disgraceful.

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By *hyllyphyllyMan
over a year ago

Bradford


"Is it really 75quid if so what planet are they on charging that.

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£50 membership + £25 entry.

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

The membership does last six months so, or i thik it does......check the club section for prices

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By *hyllyphyllyMan
over a year ago

Bradford


"The membership does last six months so, or i thik it does......check the club section for prices"

It is, but it screams inequality! I am going to chain myself to the railings outside.... who's with me brothers?

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

Agree in many ways.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The membership does last six months so, or i thik it does......check the club section for prices

It is, but it screams inequality! I am going to chain myself to the railings outside.... who's with me brothers?"

*perk* you in chains? *licks lips*

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By *hyllyphyllyMan
over a year ago

Bradford


"

*perk* you in chains? *licks lips*"

Hey, the suffragettes weren't into bondage.

Well maybe on their days off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The membership does last six months so, or i thik it does......check the club section for prices

It is, but it screams inequality! I am going to chain myself to the railings outside.... who's with me brothers?"
There are no railings.......oooops the builders merchants has a few.

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By *ans123Couple
over a year ago

manchester


"Is it really 75quid if so what planet are they on charging that.

Yes i know in part its to cull numbers of single men but if true its disgraceful."
mmm

well

£60 is the guest fee for the night but if you put your hand a little deeper in your pocket ian pay £75 for a years membership or £50 for 6 monthe then the entery is a lot less

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey I'd love to go to cupids but am I too young? I have been Adam and Eve's once before x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

£75 what would you spend on a general night out in town clubs and taxi etc or down the pub I know where I would prefer to go x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"£75 what would you spend on a general night out in town clubs and taxi etc or down the pub I know where I would prefer to go x"

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By *ans123Couple
over a year ago

manchester


"£75 what would you spend on a general night out in town clubs and taxi etc or down the pub I know where I would prefer to go x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Al capone and his crew wouldnt charge that much.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wanted to go but that's too rich for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its shocking how much they charge for single

ive only ever been to clubs as a couple and would not go on my own because of the price guys get charged.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey I'd love to go to cupids but am I too young? I have been Adam and Eve's once before x"

Why how old do you need to be?

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By *hyllyphyllyMan
over a year ago

Bradford


"£75 what would you spend on a general night out in town clubs and taxi etc or down the pub I know where I would prefer to go x"

Went out last Friday night in town with a mate. We were buying rounds.... cost me £35ish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a Couple who don't want to meet other Couples we feel that just as there are Couples only Nights there should be nights where Single Guys pay a much more reasonable fee. The choice is normally quite limited and it could give it a more proper club atmosphere. Just a thought x

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By *isco2Man
over a year ago

warrington

I,m going to stick my two pence worth in

£50 / £75 it,s not unique to Cupids all clubs charge single males a membership fee,ring and check if you don't beleive me, Adam & Eves is similar if not the same, and No3 and Chams too, in some respects its done to keep the weirdo's out and provide a safe enviroment for single ladies to go alone, you could always take a lady along with you then there is no membership fee just a couples entrance fee, but you both must leave together at the end of the evening.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are there any single men coming to Cupids Saturday night or is it just all us single women!!???"

Where is that plz? X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's clearly not too much as I've never known a club to be short of Single men!

It's not sexism it's supply and demand, a very simple economic principle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The local massage parlour only charges £50!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

£75 is taking the mick! And you wouldn't spend that kind of money on a "general" night out round here, that's for sure!! As mentioned, a massage parlour is much cheaper with a 100% happy ending too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a disgraceful amount of money.

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By *inkyperky4uCouple
over a year ago

warrington


"The local massage parlour only charges £50!"

been to cupids on many occasions and its far from being a parlour or anywhere near. surely you dont go to a club including cupids and expect sex do you?

cupids is very up market, plush and full of very nice people regardless how much they have paid.

we have always enjoyed ourselves even when MR has gone on his own, and yes believe me its worth it.

if you think you should expect sex in the club then maybe a parlour is for you then for your £50.

will always go both as a couple or a single, you do a great job cupids

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you equate a massage parlour and a swinging club then perhaps swinging is not for you. It's not £75 for one night, it's £50 and then £25 per night. Plenty of single men go who dont think it's a rip off. I think if you want garaunteed sex and are moaning about being ripped off, we'd all rather you went to a massage parlour. I certainly wouldn't want Tor to be involved with any man who thought that paying to get in entitled him to sex with Tor.

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By *ondcpl4meetCouple
over a year ago

North of the river

The single guys are ripped off up North too eh ,lol

As long as there are guys willing to pay they will always be ripped off ,how can a club justify the price!!!!!oh and the curb the singles guys is a load of b#####cks lol its all about the £££££ honey .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ripped off? What do you want? Free entry? It's a business not a charity for you to get laid. Astonishing really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do think the membership is a little high, I also dont think its fair that single women pay next to nothing but single guys pay the most.

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley


"I do think the membership is a little high, I also dont think its fair that single women pay next to nothing but single guys pay the most."

As a single woman and just talking about this subject in cupids last night,it appears that if the cost to a single man was reduced then maybe too many would go then maybe couples would nit go as much its a fine line....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Three simple words

Supply and demand

There are not very many single women going so they are charged less (low supply:high deman makes their "value" higher so they're encouraged to go by dropping the price.)

There are lots of single men they pay more. (High supply in fact too high therefore a higher price is paid to increase their "value".

The club isn't think about you and your one cock they're thinking about ratios and staying in business (not a shagging charity) so they should try to maintain ratios.

Too many men go and lots of women and couples will be put off so less of them will go and then you have a situation where the ratio of single men to couples/women is too high.

I don't get how people don't understand this. It's not complex.

At the end of the day, if you don't want to pay don't go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do think the membership is a little high, I also dont think its fair that single women pay next to nothing but single guys pay the most.

As a single woman and just talking about this subject in cupids last night,it appears that if the cost to a single man was reduced then maybe too many would go then maybe couples would nit go as much its a fine line...."

They could just limit the numbers of single guys going in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you equate a massage parlour and a swinging club then perhaps swinging is not for you. It's not £75 for one night, it's £50 and then £25 per night. Plenty of single men go who dont think it's a rip off. I think if you want garaunteed sex and are moaning about being ripped off, we'd all rather you went to a massage parlour. I certainly wouldn't want Tor to be involved with any man who thought that paying to get in entitled him to sex with Tor."

Apologies for my earlier quote, in no way was I comparing cupids to some two bit knocking shop, it were a sarcastic comment regarding the high fees and taken in the wrong context. I know some of the staff from there and know it to be a great club. It's obvious as mentioned why it's so high and that makes sense,

So again to apologise to all at cupids and all its members for my stupid comment,

Consider my arse slapped. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Might have to join u single women..

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By *ondcpl4meetCouple
over a year ago

North of the river

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"£75 what would you spend on a general night out in town clubs and taxi etc or down the pub I know where I would prefer to go x"

Where on earth are you spending £75 for a general night out???

Even when I'm going for a big night out with my former uni mates living miles away, I don't spend that much!!

I understand why they need to keep the prices high but come on, you can't expect men to spend £75 (plus the cab, etc.) anytime!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People really do need to check out the club site to check prices. The £75 that keeps getting mentioned is for 6months membership plus entry on a Friday or Saturday night.

If you are a member entry sun-thurs is £15, fri-sat £25. Prices are different for party nights but its also different prices for couples and single fems on party nights too.

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By *hyllyphyllyMan
over a year ago

Bradford


"People really do need to check out the club site to check prices. The £75 that keeps getting mentioned is for 6months membership plus entry on a Friday or Saturday night. "

Yeap, but the 1st visit will cost £75 on a sat night

I have better things to spend that on.

I'm not trying to change the system.... I just won't go and good luck to the rich sods who go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"£75 what would you spend on a general night out in town clubs and taxi etc or down the pub I know where I would prefer to go x

Where on earth are you spending £75 for a general night out???

Even when I'm going for a big night out with my former uni mates living miles away, I don't spend that much!!

I understand why they need to keep the prices high but come on, you can't expect men to spend £75 (plus the cab, etc.) anytime!

"

£75 is a one off payment! Then £15 weekday and £25 weekend. Seriously some people want everything for free then would moan about the quality of the club if it wasn't perfect as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Three simple words

Supply and demand

There are not very many single women going so they are charged less (low supply:high deman makes their "value" higher so they're encouraged to go by dropping the price.)

There are lots of single men they pay more. (High supply in fact too high therefore a higher price is paid to increase their "value".

The club isn't think about you and your one cock they're thinking about ratios and staying in business (not a shagging charity) so they should try to maintain ratios.

Too many men go and lots of women and couples will be put off so less of them will go and then you have a situation where the ratio of single men to couples/women is too high.

I don't get how people don't understand this. It's not complex.

At the end of the day, if you don't want to pay don't go."

Well Said 100% agree

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By *ohnjones3210Man
over a year ago

Chester

Just you single ladies I'm afraid!

I get get sex without paying silly money!

I can even get a hotel for £25 and just invite dome ladies I know.

That infact, has just given me a great idea! Mmmmmm.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

May I say .. I started this thread in 'best intent' last week.. not for you boys to have a moanfest!! If you can get sex elsewhere for£2.50 and a cone of chip.. fill your boots... Literally!!

Im sick of all the whinging and whining... go.. dont go.. not assed really! Ive been to the clubs that charge less for males and after witnessing them 'trolling' the street for single women who might want to come in... and navigating through the sea of wanking men to get to the changing room only to decide to make a fast exit out!

Cupids is not the only club to charge this price, do your research and stop bashing this great club!

I would however as a single woman be willing to pay more to get in if it shut up the whining gents!

*sits back down demurely and readjusts dress *

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont understand why people get so heated over discussions.

We are not that stupid to understand to know why the pricing system is in place and certainly do not need it spelling out to us. We as a couple do not agree with the pricing system that most clubs have and I dont see that it solves the ratio problem either..... Oh and if people dont like what I say then dont read it.... Simples!!!

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By *hyllyphyllyMan
over a year ago

Bradford


"

Im sick of all the whinging and whining... "

I'm a Yorkshire bloke, I would moan about having nothing to moan about

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

Im sick of all the whinging and whining...

I'm a Yorkshire bloke, I would moan about having nothing to moan about "

In Ireland we'd say 'stop your whinging or I'll give you something to whinge about'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was thinking of going to cupids this evening for my first ever club visit.. I'm already nervous about going but now am terrified there is just going to be a room full of women and hardly any blokes

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By *hyllyphyllyMan
over a year ago

Bradford


"I was thinking of going to cupids this evening for my first ever club visit.. I'm already nervous about going but now am terrified there is just going to be a room full of women and hardly any blokes "

Well they'll be at least one guy thinking "I'm going as I'll have all the women to myself"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"£75 what would you spend on a general night out in town clubs and taxi etc or down the pub I know where I would prefer to go x"

On the other hand, £75 doesn't guarantee you get any fun at a club, think I would choose to go up town with mates, might not get any sex but at least I will have some fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would love to, but £75 is a bloody week's giro!"

If you weren't so far away, I would go with you as a couple

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By *ans123Couple
over a year ago

manchester


"£75 what would you spend on a general night out in town clubs and taxi etc or down the pub I know where I would prefer to go x

Where on earth are you spending £75 for a general night out???

Even when I'm going for a big night out with my former uni mates living miles away, I don't spend that much!!

I understand why they need to keep the prices high but come on, you can't expect men to spend £75 (plus the cab, etc.) anytime!

"
go to the pub mate spend ya money and go home with your left hand we will all be having fun fun fun won`t we ladys xx

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By *ans123Couple
over a year ago

manchester


"Three simple words

Supply and demand

There are not very many single women going so they are charged less (low supply:high deman makes their "value" higher so they're encouraged to go by dropping the price.)

There are lots of single men they pay more. (High supply in fact too high therefore a higher price is paid to increase their "value".

The club isn't think about you and your one cock they're thinking about ratios and staying in business (not a shagging charity) so they should try to maintain ratios.

Too many men go and lots of women and couples will be put off so less of them will go and then you have a situation where the ratio of single men to couples/women is too high.

I don't get how people don't understand this. It's not complex.

At the end of the day, if you don't want to pay don't go.

Well Said 100% agree "
very very true

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By *ans123Couple
over a year ago

manchester


"Just you single ladies I'm afraid!

I get get sex without paying silly money!

I can even get a hotel for £25 and just invite dome ladies I know.

That infact, has just given me a great idea! Mmmmmm."
once your a member the room is only £15 wink wink

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By *ans123Couple
over a year ago

manchester


"I was thinking of going to cupids this evening for my first ever club visit.. I'm already nervous about going but now am terrified there is just going to be a room full of women and hardly any blokes "
planty to go arounf love

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I was thinking of going to cupids this evening for my first ever club visit.. I'm already nervous about going but now am terrified there is just going to be a room full of women and hardly any blokes "

Ive just driven from where you are to Cupids!! Bums.. I could have been your moral support.

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By *iddentalentman1Man
over a year ago

Shoreditch.Not far From Liverpool st station

Hmmmmmmmmmm

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By *hyllyphyllyMan
over a year ago

Bradford

Out of curiosity, was there plenty of blokes?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

maybe next time i can come with you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

good question lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On the other hand, £75 doesn't guarantee you get any fun at a club, think I would choose to go up town with mates, might not get any sex but at least I will have some fun"

Haha, how true

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex

While I understand the "demand and supply" aspect, I do have a number of thoughts on this:

1) £25 entry is a great price for single guys, and £50 for 6 months membership isn't too bad, otherwise that would be £100 for 12 months, this way I don't feel committed for the year.

2) However, its only worth it if I make enough visits worth it... I haven't been yet so not sure if I can see as many visits in the future to squeeze into a 6 month period, a bit brief

3) While I couldn't equate a massage parlour with a swing club (not that I know, but I doubt a massage parlour has the thrill of a swing club) I however disagree with people that suggest £75 is the normal price for a night out - the only people I know that spend that kind of money either make shed loads... or ladies that have their nights out paid for them (usually said guys that make shed loads,.. and drive flash cars in feature magazines).

4) I don't agree the £75 will EVER " out the undesirables". If this was ever true then even the swing sites would all be paid membership to get rid of time-wasters, yet we have loads of time-wasters on paid sites. If anything, quite the opposite effect - it tends to create the idea in some guys heads that "I've paid £75, I best get my money's worth".

The easiest answer to "overcrowding" is to limit the number of single guys... then the price can me deduced to model the expected venue costs of the night (ps: if you didn't know - single guys subsidise couples and single girls entry costs. If no single guys came, then single girls and couples would pay more.. just have a look at AbFabs on the couples nights.. the entry price goes way up!)

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By *ans123Couple
over a year ago

manchester


"While I understand the "demand and supply" aspect, I do have a number of thoughts on this:

1) £25 entry is a great price for single guys, and £50 for 6 months membership isn't too bad, otherwise that would be £100 for 12 months, this way I don't feel committed for the year.

2) However, its only worth it if I make enough visits worth it... I haven't been yet so not sure if I can see as many visits in the future to squeeze into a 6 month period, a bit brief

3) While I couldn't equate a massage parlour with a swing club (not that I know, but I doubt a massage parlour has the thrill of a swing club) I however disagree with people that suggest £75 is the normal price for a night out - the only people I know that spend that kind of money either make shed loads... or ladies that have their nights out paid for them (usually said guys that make shed loads,.. and drive flash cars in feature magazines).

4) I don't agree the £75 will EVER " out the undesirables". If this was ever true then even the swing sites would all be paid membership to get rid of time-wasters, yet we have loads of time-wasters on paid sites. If anything, quite the opposite effect - it tends to create the idea in some guys heads that "I've paid £75, I best get my money's worth".

The easiest answer to "overcrowding" is to limit the number of single guys... then the price can me deduced to model the expected venue costs of the night (ps: if you didn't know - single guys subsidise couples and single girls entry costs. If no single guys came, then single girls and couples would pay more.. just have a look at AbFabs on the couples nights.. the entry price goes way up!)"

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