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By *oudnproud OP   Woman
over a year ago

penrith

Im a nervous bbw single girl, would love to go to a club but when, how, where???

What would i wear , do i have to play?

Where would i stay.... anyone wanna help with my questions!!

Or would anyone be willing to come with me???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

first off welcome to the forums my lovely xxx

this mad lot will give u loads o tips and advice xxx

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By *oudnproud OP   Woman
over a year ago

penrith

Hi love. how the devil are you... im always browsing but thought id start asking and answering xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i kow this section is for advice etc but the lounge has more of an audience.

ive never been to a club but the general feel is that Chameleons in Darlaston makes for a wicked BBW night..

babydolls, nice underwear, or naked is allowed. Apparently its all super relaxed and there are ZERO obligations to play

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Ain't Ruggers a spoilsport, when you mentioned clubs, I thought you meant biscuits

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

I liked the fruit or orange ones

The lady will get better advice in here as not everyone goes to clubs in the lounge

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

But my post was removed when being moved! Grr lol

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

If it was on a multiple thread just re post it.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"If it was on a multiple thread just re post it."

Can't be bothered, it was too long!

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By *umpkinMan
over a year ago

near the sounds of the wimborne quarter jack!

Chameleons has already been mentioned and if you keep an eye on the club events you`ll find that on lady on here (Evie) organises special BBW nights at Chams so you`ll be in very good company. If you don`t fancy the idea of running around in your underwear or a towel then you could also try Xtasia which is roughly the same area of the country as Chams but is more of a night club type of venue and you only need to get your kit off if you consent to a bit of fun!

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

hello

as others have said chams do have BBW nights, i run one that is usually on a Sunday night every couple of months. quite a few people from the forums go and its usually a good night.

they also have a monthly BBW night on the first thursday of the month (i think ) although avent been to one of these so not sure how popular they are.

of course you dont have to go to a special night, i have been to plenty of non BBW nights at chams and always managed to have fun (despite, as one friend said, having a fuck off face lol)

what to wear depends on the club you choose to go to.

If you fancy chatting more i'm happy to pm x

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By *oudnproud OP   Woman
over a year ago

penrith

Thank you all for your advice.. im gonna see what i can plan and then get back to the people that have contacted me xx

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

Chams is a great club. But I wouldn't recommend it for a first timer.

I suggest you try one of the dry clubs/nightclub style places for your first time. Possibly even a smaller club.

Don't feel obliged to go with a guy, even though you will gets lots of offers. Many men are convinced they will get more action if they go as part of a couple or they will get into couples night (single fems can go any night, single males can't) which will magically guarantee them action. Add in that it's often cheaper for couples than for single men (single fems get cheapest entry, sometimes free) and you will begin to see why your inbox is full of men offering to help you out...

Don't get me wrong, I often go with a friend. But I also sometimes turn down an invite to go on my own so I'm a free agent with no misunderstandings.

Consider finding another female to join you on your first visit. Or go alone - I did and I'm now a member of a few clubs.

If you do choose to go with a single male then meet him beforehand and establish the ground rules - don't feel obliged to play with him or with people of his choosing, only play when you really want to. As you may have worked out he is getting a favour from you - don't get carried away and turn diva, but don't think you have to be grateful for everything.

Oh, and stay sober and make sure you can get home/back to your hotel under your own steam - I know of at least one single fem dumped at a club by the man who had driven her there because he got an offer to play!

Good luck and stay safe.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

I went to chams in my first time and it was great

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if you go alone which is not a bad idea as if you go with a guy he may want more than just escort you there and you may feel obliged to

, remember all you do is tell the staff your alone and they will watch you and or introduce you to a regular fem cple to sit chat with, most clubs do this for single fems

, also you do not have to play if you do not want to, enjoy and good luck

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