FabSwingers.com forum: Best club for BBC

By *ornyPair09 OP Couple
over a year ago

durham

Just wondering which club would be the best for black guys, obviously there is the BMFC nights but there all darn sarf is there anywhere that does the same kind of thing up north?

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

When i lived in Manchester, i used to go to a few clubs that had a good number of black men.

Adam & Eves

Cupids

Don't know if either of those are still open though. Hope that helps if you fancy a trip.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes they are still open

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By *ornyPair09 OP Couple
over a year ago

durham

Thanks fo the replies guys will take a look at their websites x

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By *ornyPair09 OP Couple
over a year ago

durham

Cupids looks the better of the 2 I think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You know black guys hate girls only sleeping with black guys and saying stuff like BBC a couple of guys I know refuse sex with girls like that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You know black guys hate girls only sleeping with black guys and saying stuff like BBC a couple of guys I know refuse sex with girls like that."

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By *ornyPair09 OP Couple
over a year ago

durham

I wondered how long it would take for someone to comment on our tastes, i really don't care what you think tbh, everyone has different tastes and if that's what turns us on then that's what we're going to look for!!

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

"You know black guys hate girls only sleeping with black guys and saying stuff like BBC a couple of guys I know refuse sex with girls like that."

Who made you an expert on the subject?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wondered how long it would take for someone to comment on our tastes, i really don't care what you think tbh, everyone has different tastes and if that's what turns us on then that's what we're going to look for!!"

Well said! Its a preference we sometimes share and its just that a preference and in our experience it doesn't scare any BBC guys off at all! If anything the opposite xx

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

Well said! Its a preference we sometimes share and its just that a preference and in our experience it doesn't scare any BBC guys off at all! If anything the opposite xx"

ahem.... that is not true.... to be honest i like to be seen as a "human being" as opposed to being a "BBC"....

and I know there are people in this thread who feel the same.....

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By *ornyPair09 OP Couple
over a year ago

durham

Well i can see this thread getting de-railed into an political correctness argument, so back to the OP if anyone can offer any advice that would be great thanks in advance.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

back to the original question before it is hijecked by "people who know better" apparently if that is your thing.... you might want to look at cocoaflex in leeds as they cater for that niche

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By *ornyPair09 OP Couple
over a year ago

durham

"back to the original question before it is hijecked by "people who know better" apparently if that is your thing.... you might want to look at cocoaflex in leeds as they cater for that niche

Thanks yeah we have been there loved it, but we want to try a proper club this time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Apparently there are!

Its not objectification as such just as I am partial to a Scouse accent or a man in certain uniforms these are just prefences or kinks to some extent that turn me on. They are only sexy on, of course a human being, and an attractive polite one at that! x

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

i'm guessing the post above will get the poster 48hr on "the naughty step".....

there is a way of disagreeing with a view, and there is abuse..

that is abuse and very uncalled for...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i'm guessing the post above will get the poster 48hr on "the naughty step".....

there is a way of disagreeing with a view, and there is abuse..

that is abuse and very uncalled for..."

Hear, hear!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i'm guessing the post above will get the poster 48hr on "the naughty step".....

there is a way of disagreeing with a view, and there is abuse..

that is abuse and very uncalled for..."

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By *oulou45Woman
over a year ago

Bucks

Well said! Its a preference we sometimes share and its just that a preference and in our experience it doesn't scare any BBC guys off at all! If anything the opposite xx

ahem.... that is not true.... to be honest i like to be seen as a "human being" as opposed to being a "BBC"....

and I know there are people in this thread who feel the same.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OMG can't anyone ask a decent question without being pounced upon? If you have nothing to contribute apart from abuse, stay away from the thread

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By *kmale421Man
over a year ago

wirral

With regards to the OP question, I've been to most of the clubs in NW England and Midlands over the last few years.

My honest answer to your question is that on most occasions, most of the clubs I have been to have had a couple of non white men in attendance at most. I think that if it is a non specialist night, ie not BMFC, you'd simply have to take your chances in the same vein as those that ask for a club which mainly has under 35's etc

I think your chances of finding what you want would be improved by targetting Friday and Saturday nights as clubs are busier then, and going to clubs that have a reputation for being busy, for example Cupids in Swinton, Manchester, Infusions in Blackpool and Chameleons or Xtasia in Darleston and West Brom respectively.

Hope that helps, oh and to the couple whom like guys with Scouse accents, while mine isn't a strong scouse accent, I might just be the man to fit your niche....

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North

I am guessing that posts have been removed.

The townhouse could be worth a look. They sometimes have evenings on. Partners used to, but alas no longer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Threads like this really get on my nerves the title and the whole BBC issue is offensive to me as a black man.

Some guys will cash in on this and use it to their advantage and good luck to them. I can only speak for myself.

The OP's first post is fine I have not got a problem with that at all.

I find nothing decent in stereotyping of any group of people. I am gonna get off my

soapbox now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Has partners stopped their black for white nights?

I always wonder how 'bbc' gets mixed into an inter racial party. I'm not aware of any themes where men have to be a minimum size to attend.

I have been to a few black for white nights at partners and always had fun in that place

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"I am guessing that posts have been removed.

Yes it has... Which is why it looks a bit disjointed

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"Threads like this really get on my nerves the title and the whole BBC issue is offensive to me as a black man.

Some guys will cash in on this and use it to their advantage and good luck to them. I can only speak for myself.

The OP's first post is fine I have not got a problem with that at all.

I find nothing decent in stereotyping of any group of people. I am gonna get off my

soapbox now.

And you know I feel the same.. I didn't have an issue with the post which is why I made a suggestion, I did have an issue with the abuse and the following generalisation which is why at that point I spoke up....

If anything comes out of this thread, I hope it is a better understanding of how things are put can put off the very people you are trying to attract...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why can we just answer a question

Has it come to this !

When will people just get along , some like black some white some like blonde etc

Just build a bridge and get over it !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Responses like the ones in this thread make my head hurt.

Do I have a strong preference for black men? Yes. It's my choice, get over it.

Does it mean that I'd have sex with anyone based on the fact that they are black? No. I'm damnright picky and I like whole packages, aka beeautiful manhoods teamed with wit, personality and intelligence.

Would I only look for sex with black males? No. I would love a person for them being who they are if it cane to a relationship, regardless of age, race, background, etc.

Don't get so hung up on the actual term of girls looking for BBCs. It's the easiest way to communicate our wants and needs but it doesn't mean we take all of you under the same hat by FAR.

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex

As long as we're getting hung up on terminology, i class myself a STBBC (Smaller-Than-Big Black Cock) but it doesn't define me. I'm more than a black cock, and i believe this is what some of the gents are saying.

Saying that, i tend to avoid 'BBC' parties where the emphasis is gaming a big black cock. False add

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex

( hit submit too early!! )

Saying that, i tend to avoid 'BBC' parties where the emphasis is gaming a big black cock. False advertising is not my style plus the above point of wanting to be seen as more.

However, i enjoy interrracial parties. Am i a black man? Do i primarily swing as a single guy (unless meeting a couple with THB) ? Do i enjoy the socializing, mingling and flirting? All yes to the above. I know i won't be everyone's cup of tea.

To the OP; up north i know of Chams and Partners up north, there may get more so worth looking around.

And can people who know nothing if the subject matter please stop trolling

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By *ornyPair09 OP Couple
over a year ago

durham

Thanks for the replies guys and girls.

Queenofheels hit the nail on the head yes the female half is very picky but the whole bbc thing is a fantasy of ours which we are looking to live out, it doesn't mean that is all we're interested in our does it mean we think all black guys have big dicks because that simply ain't true.

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex

"Thanks for the replies guys and girls.

My partner TattooedHB (who prefers to play as a single female) will probably tell you herself, just cause the guy is black (irrespective of size of cock) doesn't mean he's got a look in.. otherwise a certain president would also be on that list... and he's not! lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"( hit submit too early!! )

Saying that, i tend to avoid 'BBC' parties where the emphasis is gaming a big black cock. False advertising is not my style plus the above point of wanting to be seen as more.

To the OP; up north i know of Chams and Partners up north, there may get more so worth looking around.

And can people who know nothing if the subject matter please stop trolling

Chams is norf of the Watford gap, but still only in the Midlands lol.

Townhouse on the Wirral I've heard do have quite a few 'non-white' (shoot me down for being non PC if you like)members as well as holding the odd BMFC event as well as far as I know.

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex

Chams is norf of the Watford gap, but still only in the Midlands lol.

Townhouse on the Wirral I've heard do have quite a few 'non-white' (shoot me down for being non PC if you like)members as well as holding the odd BMFC event as well as far as I know. "

"Non-White" lol (rifle - BOOM!). "What about little green martians I hear the PC brigade say?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chams is norf of the Watford gap, but still only in the Midlands lol.

Townhouse on the Wirral I've heard do have quite a few 'non-white' (shoot me down for being non PC if you like)members as well as holding the odd BMFC event as well as far as I know.

"Non-White" lol (rifle - BOOM!). "What about little green martians I hear the PC brigade say?

If I wear costume jewellery I go green, does that count?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

xtasias west brom do a blackman fan club check there site not sure if others do similar

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"xtasias west brom do a blackman fan club check there site not sure if others do similar "

But once again, that is in the Midlands, not up norf

Though it is a great club and well worth travelling to visit, especially with a Premier Inn almost next door as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So was the post partially a windup then?

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By *asterSheffMan
over a year ago

Rotherham

Well said! Its a preference we sometimes share and its just that a preference and in our experience it doesn't scare any BBC guys off at all! If anything the opposite xx

ahem.... that is not true.... to be honest i like to be seen as a "human being" as opposed to being a "BBC"....

and I know there are people in this thread who feel the same.....

Yeah me too. The fact that I'm not black nor have a big cock doesn't detract from this either, it's the principle

Joking aside, I know black friends who wouldn't care less about such a request and others that would find it quite offensive, it's all down to the individual but it is quite stereotypical.

I'm on the look out for a TWT, are there any tight white twat's out there? I've met a few folk who are tight in general and been twats but that's not what I'm looking for

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