FabSwingers.com forum: Recommendation for a first club visit?

By *nspiringPhilant! OP Couple
8 weeks ago

South Wales

Hi all, we are looking to visit a club for the first time so want to ensure we pick the right club. Mr is particularly nervous, but social when he gets comfortable. Ideally a club where we could spend the night meeting people without feeling like we have to play, but where we would be able to learn and see a bit more about what the best clubs are like. Would like to watch some play, Mrs is more likely to play on first visit, hubby has performance anxiety and as such a club where he wouldn't be judged for sitting back and watching her play. We are South Wales based, but more than happy to travel for the best experiences. We appreciate we are probably over worrying as we know no is no etc, but don't want to pick the wrong place for our first time and be put off.

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By *heFoofsCouple
8 weeks ago

lincoln

If you are willing to travel why not try officially the best club in the country 2026.. The Mirage nr. Lincoln

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By *nspiringPhilant! OP Couple
8 weeks ago

South Wales

"If you are willing to travel why not try officially the best club in the country 2026.. The Mirage nr. Lincoln "

Thank you. Yes we love to travel around the UK.

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By *abulincsCouple
8 weeks ago

near a bridge

"If you are willing to travel why not try officially the best club in the country 2026.. The Mirage nr. Lincoln "

That’s a very big claim by such a relatively new club lol

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By *WB85Man
8 weeks ago

Staffordshire

Our favourite is Townhouse Wirral.

They do events specific for newbies as well as a very popular couples and single ladies night which has a much more relaxed feeling.

Just treat it like a regular night out, have no expectations of going upstairs with others and just enjoy being with yourselves.

Good luck to you both.

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By *nspiringPhilant! OP Couple
8 weeks ago

South Wales

"Our favourite is Townhouse Wirral.

They do events specific for newbies as well as a very popular couples and single ladies night which has a much more relaxed feeling.

Just treat it like a regular night out, have no expectations of going upstairs with others and just enjoy being with yourselves.

Good luck to you both. "

Thank you. Just looked at their site. It looks great.

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By *annaBeBeachBumMan
8 weeks ago

Sunny SouthWest

Come across the bridge and turn right for sunny Devon and head just under 2 hrs to Steamers in Torquay on a Saturday night. A great club with loads to do and see. I think there are still some couples places for the social on 11 July which should be a great place to start your journey even if you just chat and observe. look up their website or check out the clubs or the southwest swing social’s profiles on here.

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By *vonne5exMan
8 weeks ago

Doncaster

Quest if you don't mind travelling

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By *ambamxxxMan
8 weeks ago

Daventry

Depends on what your comfortable with.

Many are dress down clubs and some people aren’t comfortable in doing that. also how busy you would like it? Fridays / Saturdays being the most busy usually.

Check out the web sites.

You don’t have to play, no thanks is enough to stop any unwanted attention. Most of all both be comfortable, confident and listen to each other. Have a safe word when one feels uncomfortable or wishes to leave.

Most of all have fun

Be safe

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By *otathletic1Man
8 weeks ago

camden

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By *heFoofsCouple
3 weeks ago

lincoln

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By *heFoofsCouple
3 weeks ago

lincoln

"If you are willing to travel why not try officially the best club in the country 2026.. The Mirage nr. Lincoln

That’s a very big claim by such a relatively new club lol "

It's not a claim, its a fact 🤣

It was awarded best club of the year 2026 at the annual industry awards.

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By *etro manMan
3 weeks ago

manchester

Few places in Blackpool infusion club play and swingers hotel

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By *idnight SecretMan
3 weeks ago

Derby

Chameleons at Newport is near you. Or the bigger brother Chameleons Darlaston if you like to travel and they have room where you can stay overnight to.

Hope this helps x

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By *uckNLickCouple
3 weeks ago

North Cork

"If you are willing to travel why not try officially the best club in the country 2026.. The Mirage nr. Lincoln

That’s a very big claim by such a relatively new club lol

It's not a claim, its a fact 🤣

It was awarded best club of the year 2026 at the annual industry awards."

Industry awards are normally paid for. I would take them with a pinch of salt.

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By *heFoofsCouple
3 weeks ago

lincoln

"If you are willing to travel why not try officially the best club in the country 2026.. The Mirage nr. Lincoln

That’s a very big claim by such a relatively new club lol

It's not a claim, its a fact 🤣

It was awarded best club of the year 2026 at the annual industry awards.

Industry awards are normally paid for. I would take them with a pinch of salt."

Not this one it's all public vote.

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By *heFoofsCouple
3 weeks ago

lincoln

"If you are willing to travel why not try officially the best club in the country 2026.. The Mirage nr. Lincoln

That’s a very big claim by such a relatively new club lol

It's not a claim, its a fact 🤣

It was awarded best club of the year 2026 at the annual industry awards.

Industry awards are normally paid for. I would take them with a pinch of salt."

Not this one it's all public vote.

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By *uckNLickCouple
3 weeks ago

North Cork

"If you are willing to travel why not try officially the best club in the country 2026.. The Mirage nr. Lincoln

That’s a very big claim by such a relatively new club lol

It's not a claim, its a fact 🤣

It was awarded best club of the year 2026 at the annual industry awards.

Industry awards are normally paid for. I would take them with a pinch of salt.

Not this one it's all public vote."

If that's the case well done to that club.

If I owned a recently opened club I'd get everyone to vote!

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By *allySlinkyWoman
3 weeks ago

Leeds

"If you are willing to travel why not try officially the best club in the country 2026.. The Mirage nr. Lincoln

That’s a very big claim by such a relatively new club lol

It's not a claim, its a fact 🤣

It was awarded best club of the year 2026 at the annual industry awards.

Industry awards are normally paid for. I would take them with a pinch of salt.

Not this one it's all public vote."

Who was invited to vote ?

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By *ukaMan
3 weeks ago

Chester

"If you are willing to travel why not try officially the best club in the country 2026.. The Mirage nr. Lincoln

That’s a very big claim by such a relatively new club lol

It's not a claim, its a fact 🤣

It was awarded best club of the year 2026 at the annual industry awards.

Industry awards are normally paid for. I would take them with a pinch of salt.

Not this one it's all public vote.

Who was invited to vote ?"

Not me. 🤷‍♂️

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By *etro manMan
5 days ago

manchester

No3 club near Chorley train station very nice club and the club owners very friendly and helpful

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By *andystick72Man
5 days ago

kinky Street

Hands down

chameleons Darlaston,,

west mids

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By *uckNLickCouple
5 days ago

North Cork

Having spoken to a lot of people from the UK in the lifestyle we've decided to stick to mainland European clubs instead.

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By *ocial HeathrowCouple
4 days ago

Heathrow

"If you are willing to travel why not try officially the best club in the country 2026.. The Mirage nr. Lincoln

That’s a very big claim by such a relatively new club lol

It's not a claim, its a fact 🤣

It was awarded best club of the year 2026 at the annual industry awards."

When did this happen? Seems a lot of the big clubs had no idea this happened.

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