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"James and Tanya are lovely and depite being straight, are very bi friendly and so it shouldnt really matter their own sexual orientation. What baffles me, and I've mentioned it before both here and to both hosts directly, is why the clubs have their bi nights on the same night when they are geographically so close and so effectively just halving the pool of available punters to each. Makes no sense at all. " This has been discussed for years, and it really baffles me, too, why the two clubs can't agree to have bi nights on different days. Penthouse Playrooms managed. | |||
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"James and Tanya are lovely and depite being straight, are very bi friendly and so it shouldnt really matter their own sexual orientation. What baffles me, and I've mentioned it before both here and to both hosts directly, is why the clubs have their bi nights on the same night when they are geographically so close and so effectively just halving the pool of available punters to each. Makes no sense at all. This has been discussed for years, and it really baffles me, too, why the two clubs can't agree to have bi nights on different days. Penthouse Playrooms managed. " Yep, it smacks of someone being bloody minded and cutting their nose off to spite their face. | |||
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"I've never been to VA "bi event" (well, sorry, "inclusive" event) as it clashes with Jaydees one and Jaydees is more my "club of choice" than VA, for loads of reasons. However, if I was in your situation, I would go at finding a solution in a practical way. VA's membership is yearly, are you likely to go back within a year after that one night? If yes, then try, but be aware there are no private lockable rooms there (and hotel rooms don't count as they're not included in the entrance fee). I do hear a lot of good things about this event, but every opinion is personal. Jaydees, the membership is lifetime, or you can opt for a one-off membership, for just that night only. I have experienced bi nights at Jaydees, they can be a lot of fun, with male on male action happening in the open, usually, if that's your thing. They also have a good selection of rooms available, and plenty of open play areas, too. " This seems a good approach  | |||
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"James and Tanya are lovely and depite being straight, are very bi friendly and so it shouldnt really matter their own sexual orientation. What baffles me, and I've mentioned it before both here and to both hosts directly, is why the clubs have their bi nights on the same night when they are geographically so close and so effectively just halving the pool of available punters to each. Makes no sense at all. This has been discussed for years, and it really baffles me, too, why the two clubs can't agree to have bi nights on different days. Penthouse Playrooms managed. Yep, it smacks of someone being bloody minded and cutting their nose off to spite their face. " Wasn't it VA who moved their night to first Friday knowing full well it would clash? | |||
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"James and Tanya are lovely and depite being straight, are very bi friendly and so it shouldnt really matter their own sexual orientation. What baffles me, and I've mentioned it before both here and to both hosts directly, is why the clubs have their bi nights on the same night when they are geographically so close and so effectively just halving the pool of available punters to each. Makes no sense at all. This has been discussed for years, and it really baffles me, too, why the two clubs can't agree to have bi nights on different days. Penthouse Playrooms managed. Yep, it smacks of someone being bloody minded and cutting their nose off to spite their face. Wasn't it VA who moved their night to first Friday knowing full well it would clash?" Hi G - yeah it was, but when Jaydees closed for a year or so. VA did their bi night on the last Friday of the month when L and I first started going, when Kitty and Gizmo hosted. | |||
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"Yes VA moved the bi night to the first Friday of the month in 2023 when I was thinking about doing the bi night bi monthly due to starting college. It wasnt because Jaydees had closed at all. Ive always hosted my bi nights on the first Friday (when at VA) or the first Saturday (when at Tease 2) always first Weekend of the month for the past 15 years. Tattooed talent then took over my event at VA and was kind enough to move it to the last Friday of the month as he knows Ive always done the first. I have recently asked VA if they would consider moving it , not for me but for the attendees and was told this wouldn't happen. They did actually say their bi night was always the first of the month but actually it was my event, They hadnt had one for years before I set it up. I dont have the option of changing it as only have the first Friday of the month at Jaydees. I do however feel it would benefit everyone as the Jaydees event is getting lots of attention now and getting busier and busier and this gives people more options to try VA, but hey ho. It is what it is. It would be great to see people at Jaydees and I look forward to meeting everyone who attends "I will definitely give jaydees a visit for your bi night in June | |||
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"Yes VA moved the bi night to the first Friday of the month in 2023 when I was thinking about doing the bi night bi monthly due to starting college. It wasnt because Jaydees had closed at all. Ive always hosted my bi nights on the first Friday (when at VA) or the first Saturday (when at Tease 2) always first Weekend of the month for the past 15 years. Tattooed talent then took over my event at VA and was kind enough to move it to the last Friday of the month as he knows Ive always done the first. I have recently asked VA if they would consider moving it , not for me but for the attendees and was told this wouldn't happen. They did actually say their bi night was always the first of the month but actually it was my event, They hadnt had one for years before I set it up. I dont have the option of changing it as only have the first Friday of the month at Jaydees. I do however feel it would benefit everyone as the Jaydees event is getting lots of attention now and getting busier and busier and this gives people more options to try VA, but hey ho. It is what it is. It would be great to see people at Jaydees and I look forward to meeting everyone who attends "Yeah, we'd love to be able to go to both, as would many other punters - just wish someone, somewhere could see sense (although 7 or so bi night hosts in 3.5 years at VA tells me where the issue probably lies..) | |||
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"Yes VA moved the bi night to the first Friday of the month in 2023 when I was thinking about doing the bi night bi monthly due to starting college. It wasnt because Jaydees had closed at all. Ive always hosted my bi nights on the first Friday (when at VA) or the first Saturday (when at Tease 2) always first Weekend of the month for the past 15 years. Tattooed talent then took over my event at VA and was kind enough to move it to the last Friday of the month as he knows Ive always done the first. I have recently asked VA if they would consider moving it , not for me but for the attendees and was told this wouldn't happen. They did actually say their bi night was always the first of the month but actually it was my event, They hadnt had one for years before I set it up. I dont have the option of changing it as only have the first Friday of the month at Jaydees. I do however feel it would benefit everyone as the Jaydees event is getting lots of attention now and getting busier and busier and this gives people more options to try VA, but hey ho. It is what it is. It would be great to see people at Jaydees and I look forward to meeting everyone who attends
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to go to both, as would many other punters - just wish someone, somewhere could see sense (although 7 or so bi night hosts in 3.5 years at VA tells me where the issue probably lies..) "7 hosts that does make you question where the problem truly lies. | |||
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Where bi friendlies are welcomed. | |||
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"VA
Where bi friendlies are welcomed."Also Jaydees, weve had this conversation. Lots of couple come that are bi friendly too  .My rule is with the single guys , which is different to VA | |||
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"VA
Where bi friendlies are welcomed.
Also Jaydees, weve had this conversation. Lots of couple come that are bi friendly too .My rule is with the single guys , which is different to VA "I normally come to Jaydees bi nights with my partner who is straight. That has never been an issue. | |||
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"Does that mean you have to be a bi male for jaydees? " Yes but only the single guys. Its one of the criteria I stick to . | |||
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"Arh I see! I am looking forward to trying it in June " Aww it'll be great to see you . | |||
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"VA
Where bi friendlies are welcomed.
Also Jaydees, weve had this conversation. Lots of couple come that are bi friendly too .My rule is with the single guys , which is different to VA " | |||
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"VA
Where bi friendlies are welcomed.
Also Jaydees, weve had this conversation. Lots of couple come that are bi friendly too .My rule is with the single guys , which is different to VA
"Which is why I said VA 
Straight single guy here,
Also respected and bi friendly. Welcomed at many clubs. Who don't just let in any single men, just those that are correctly checked before being allowed to attend.
I have many bi and gay friends, so why can't I go to bi nights and enjoy their company
No diversion or discrimination
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"VA
Where bi friendlies are welcomed.
Also Jaydees, weve had this conversation. Lots of couple come that are bi friendly too .My rule is with the single guys , which is different to VA
Which is why I said VA
Straight single guy here,
Also respected and bi friendly. Welcomed at many clubs. Who don't just let in any single men, just those that are correctly checked before being allowed to attend.
I have many bi and gay friends, so why can't I go to bi nights and enjoy their company
No diversion or discrimination
"Aww the emphasis on my night is the bi males its how I built my night and what makes it so successful. Sorry, I didnt realise you were single now, obviously more than welcome to come as a couple anytime . It'll be great to see you.
We did have this conversation a little while ago and you were fine with it then and understood how I ran the night. Im not sure whats changed but youre always welcome as a couple and it'll be great to see you sometime  | |||
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"VA
Where bi friendlies are welcomed.
Also Jaydees, weve had this conversation. Lots of couple come that are bi friendly too .My rule is with the single guys , which is different to VA
Which is why I said VA
Straight single guy here,
Also respected and bi friendly. Welcomed at many clubs. Who don't just let in any single men, just those that are correctly checked before being allowed to attend.
I have many bi and gay friends, so why can't I go to bi nights and enjoy their company
No diversion or discrimination
Aww the emphasis on my night is the bi males its how I built my night and what makes it so successful. Sorry, I didnt realise you were single now, obviously more than welcome to come as a couple anytime . It'll be great to see you.
We did have this conversation a little while ago and you were fine with it then and understood how I ran the night. Im not sure whats changed but youre always welcome as a couple and it'll be great to see you sometime "Which is great, the forum posting is where to go VA or Jaydees bi night. I stated my reason of choice would be VA, as 'a trusted single bi friendly man' who can not attend Jaydees bi night. So in answer to the posters question, my answer, not everyone else's is not through choice of event but by rules of event so that is why I said VA. | |||
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"Hi all. We are Tania and James, the relatively new hosts of VA bi night. Please feel free to read our verifications if anyone is looking for clarification on our event. Yes we are straight, but as hosts we take the role seriously and focus on everyone having a great night regardless of sexual orientation, and as hosts we can't get involved with our guests so it doesn't change the vibe of the event at all. It's all about making our guests feel welcome, included and free to be exactly who they want to be without question or judgement. I have taken on board the comments about changing the date and will certainly discuss this with the owners to see if we can find another Friday that doesn't clash with another regular event. Please feel free to message us if you have any questions and hopefully some of you might consider coming and finding out how we host the event for yourselves 😘 xx" Definitely!!  | |||
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"I love the fact that Jaydees bi night has all single guys have to be bi. There is no confusion when chatting to a single guy if they are bi or not. I have been to other bi nights and the single guys are there purely for the women. Don't get me wrong thats fine for some people. I go for the guy on guy with women watching
Just my opinion btw. "Think you've kinda miss the point of a trusted bi friendly man, not everyone goes to a swingers club to play. Straight wanking dead type is a massive off put, especially if theyre only hunting the ladies and shouldn't be allowed at any club or event,other than greedy girls and especially not on a bi night, but trusted straight guys, who mix with the bi/gay community is a totally different thing altogether, there is never any confusion with me, I often get chatting with both bi and gay men and women. But it's down to the hosts what they want. | |||
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"I love the fact that Jaydees bi night has all single guys have to be bi. There is no confusion when chatting to a single guy if they are bi or not. I have been to other bi nights and the single guys are there purely for the women. Don't get me wrong thats fine for some people. I go for the guy on guy with women watching
Just my opinion btw.
Think you've kinda miss the point of a trusted bi friendly man, not everyone goes to a swingers club to play.
Straight wanking dead type is a massive off put, especially if theyre only hunting the ladies and shouldn't be allowed at any club or event,other than greedy girls and especially not on a bi night, but trusted straight guys, who mix with the bi/gay community is a totally different thing altogether, there is never any confusion with me, I often get chatting with both bi and gay men and women.
But it's down to the hosts what they want. "No i haven't kinda missed the point! Bi friendly trusted man or not it was just my opinion. And I certainly don't go to a bi night expecting to play. I was just commenting on what I have seen at club bi nights! I have my opinions you have yours get over it. | |||
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"I love the fact that Jaydees bi night has all single guys have to be bi. There is no confusion when chatting to a single guy if they are bi or not. I have been to other bi nights and the single guys are there purely for the women. Don't get me wrong thats fine for some people. I go for the guy on guy with women watching
Just my opinion btw.
Think you've kinda miss the point of a trusted bi friendly man, not everyone goes to a swingers club to play.
Straight wanking dead type is a massive off put, especially if theyre only hunting the ladies and shouldn't be allowed at any club or event,other than greedy girls and especially not on a bi night, but trusted straight guys, who mix with the bi/gay community is a totally different thing altogether, there is never any confusion with me, I often get chatting with both bi and gay men and women.
But it's down to the hosts what they want.
No i haven't kinda missed the point!
Bi friendly trusted man or not it was just my opinion. And I certainly don't go to a bi night expecting to play.
I was just commenting on what I have seen at club bi nights!
I have my opinions you have yours get over it."Get over what? Me posting MY (reason) opinion or you missing the point?  | |||
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