FabSwingers.com forum: First club

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm going to my first club nite as a single male how does it work do I sit and wait to be asked to join in its not a big club I'm nervous about going on my own really any advice

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm going to my first club nite as a single male how does it work do I sit and wait to be asked to join in its not a big club I'm nervous about going on my own really any advice"

Its not a big deal. Arrive, say hi to the Management, get a drink at the bar, see who else is there, and smile at those who interest you. If you get a nice smile back, walk across and introduce yourself, and chat to them (this you must do).

If you're nervous, just say that its your first time, and most folks will be happy to tell you how things work ... and if they're taken with you and you with them ... walk around together, checking out the place.

If I like her/them ... I just ask if they'd like to come to either a public room, or one of the private rooms. Invariably, its a yes, so the rest is down to you.

Be confident, and you'll have a great time. And, if you get naked .. make sure you have condoms. Enjoy