FabSwingers.com forum: Ignite or hellfire

By *edcat69 OP Couple
11 weeks ago

emsworth

Trying to decide between the two , have been to hellfire once but never been to ignite .

Who’s going to either of these on the 28th ?

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By *rMk84Man
11 weeks ago

London

Haven't been to hellfire yet but I've been several times at ignite and it'sa cool place where to be and spending great time!

Plenty of spaces and people, perfect to have a night or day out.

"Trying to decide between the two , have been to hellfire once but never been to ignite .

Who’s going to either of these on the 28th ?"

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By *iolet_FyreCouple
11 weeks ago

Yateley

We’ve never been to Hellfire, seems to BDSM for us. We go to Ignite 2 or 3 times a week and will be there on the evening of the 28th

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By *edcat69 OP Couple
11 weeks ago

emsworth

"We’ve never been to Hellfire, seems to BDSM for us. We go to Ignite 2 or 3 times a week and will be there on the evening of the 28th"

There wasn’t much bdsm when we went but they have different themed nights I think .

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By *heekychick15Woman
11 weeks ago

essex

Both are good clubs I’ve only done ignite during the day which is a nice chilled atmosphere the facilities are clean. The staff are amazing and I quite like the bar area. Both have a cinema room. hellfire can be transferred to the bar tv for others can watch. Hellfire has got a a Dodge car so if you wanna have the car experience. I think hell fire wins a little bit more for me. Ignite has hotels right next door or you could do hellfire Saturday night and then Sunday swing past ignite for more of a chilled out afternoon best of both worlds. Or the other way round cause I’m sure hellfire hellfire far is now open on a Sunday afternoon x

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By *edcat69 OP Couple
11 weeks ago

emsworth

"Both are good clubs I’ve only done ignite during the day which is a nice chilled atmosphere the facilities are clean. The staff are amazing and I quite like the bar area. Both have a cinema room. hellfire can be transferred to the bar tv for others can watch. Hellfire has got a a Dodge car so if you wanna have the car experience. I think hell fire wins a little bit more for me. Ignite has hotels right next door or you could do hellfire Saturday night and then Sunday swing past ignite for more of a chilled out afternoon best of both worlds. Or the other way round cause I’m sure hellfire hellfire far is now open on a Sunday afternoon x "

Thank you , we did go to hellfire on couples only night a few months back , it was good and liked the place , it was a bit quiet though .

Have you been to an all bar none night at hellfire ?

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By *heekychick15Woman
11 weeks ago

essex

No, I haven’t but the couple of times I’ve been it’s been really busy which has been on Saturday nights. I think wherever you go, you’ll have a great time lol. Hellsfire is definitely got more rooms to play x

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By *eeshellsCouple
11 weeks ago

Reading

Ignite has 9 rooms (inc couples room) - Hellfire has 7, I think. Both have a mixture of private and not so private.

We've done an all bar none at Hellfire, actually our first ever club night. There was a bit of kink going on, but it was generally normal people.

Ignite is considerably bigger and includes the pool, steam room and jacuzzis. The locker situation at Ignite is vastly superior to Hellfire's woeful provision.

Both have a dungeon, Hellfire probably wins there (plus the dogging car!).

Hellfire bar is BYO for booze - Ignite bar is pretty good and prices are reasonable. It's quite small without much seating - Ignite bar is huge and great for mingling. Hellfire does have a great outdoor area.

As mentioned, Ignite has hotels next door - the only really walkable hotel for Hellfire is the Sunbury PI and that gets busy.

Over all we prefer Ignite, but many go the other way.

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By *eeshellsCouple
11 weeks ago

Reading

Oops. Looks like Hellfire is now a licensed bar.

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By *R01Couple
11 weeks ago

St Albans

We would recommend Iqnite for sure. The pool (when heated!), the hot tubs, the cinema , lots of playrooms and the bar is great. Day or the right night.

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By *edcat69 OP Couple
11 weeks ago

emsworth

Thank you for the info !

Such a hard decision.

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By *edcat69 OP Couple
11 weeks ago

emsworth

Any couples going to either venue that might be interested in meeting up there ?

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By *pankingNorfolkCouple
11 weeks ago

Norwich ish

Been to Hellfire a few times. We enjoy the dungeon there (at least when the heating is on). But it’s not the sole theme of the club. All Bar None this weekend which intimates a bit more kink but we’ve always had space in the dungeon. Less so on Swish nights.

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By *pankingNorfolkCouple
11 weeks ago

Norwich ish

"Any couples going to either venue that might be interested in meeting up there ? "

There will be plenty of couples to chat to at Hellfire. Has a nice bar area and outside space where you can chat to others.

We may be there but haven’t made any plans yet.

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By *edcat69 OP Couple
11 weeks ago

emsworth

"Any couples going to either venue that might be interested in meeting up there ?

There will be plenty of couples to chat to at Hellfire. Has a nice bar area and outside space where you can chat to others.

We may be there but haven’t made any plans yet."

Maybe see you there then .

Are the single men well behaved ?

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By *iolet_FyreCouple
11 weeks ago

Yateley

"Any couples going to either venue that might be interested in meeting up there ? "

We’ll be at Ignite, would love to chat to you both in the hot tub

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By *llaandGCouple
11 weeks ago

London

We might be heading to HF in a couple of weeks. Our first time, so excited about!

Ella

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By *edcat69 OP Couple
11 weeks ago

emsworth

"We might be heading to HF in a couple of weeks. Our first time, so excited about!

Ella"

We have been once and it was our first visit to a club together , very friend And welcoming we found .

Shame your not going this Saturday .

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By *llaandGCouple
11 weeks ago

London

" We have been once and it was our first visit to a club together , very friend And welcoming we found .

Shame your not going this Saturday ."

Glad to hear you had fun! Enjoy Sat x

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By *edcat69 OP Couple
11 weeks ago

emsworth

Executive decision made by the mrs -Hellfire it is .

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By *pankingNorfolkCouple
11 weeks ago

Norwich ish

"Any couples going to either venue that might be interested in meeting up there ?

There will be plenty of couples to chat to at Hellfire. Has a nice bar area and outside space where you can chat to others.

We may be there but haven’t made any plans yet.

Maybe see you there then .

Are the single men well behaved ? "

In our experience yes. The staff are on hand, it’s not a big venue and they pay a lot to get in and I think most are members so wouldn’t step out of line

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By *edcat69 OP Couple
11 weeks ago

emsworth

"Any couples going to either venue that might be interested in meeting up there ?

There will be plenty of couples to chat to at Hellfire. Has a nice bar area and outside space where you can chat to others.

We may be there but haven’t made any plans yet.

Maybe see you there then .

Are the single men well behaved ?

In our experience yes. The staff are on hand, it’s not a big venue and they pay a lot to get in and I think most are members so wouldn’t step out of line"

Thank you .

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By *edcat69 OP Couple
11 weeks ago

emsworth

Anybody else going to hellfire ?

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By *pankingNorfolkCouple
11 weeks ago

Norwich ish

"Anybody else going to hellfire ? "

Just booked for tonight. And the Travelodge just round the corner as it was too cheap to pass up!

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By *edcat69 OP Couple
11 weeks ago

emsworth

"Anybody else going to hellfire ?

Just booked for tonight. And the Travelodge just round the corner as it was too cheap to pass up!"

See you there then !

We are in the premier inn x

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By *cottish guy 555Man
11 weeks ago

London

I've found swish to be the best attended and most fun night of the month to visit hellfire.

For ignite it's the monthly social. Always disappointing when they clash.

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By *edcat69 OP Couple
11 weeks ago

emsworth

"Anybody else going to hellfire ?

Just booked for tonight. And the Travelodge just round the corner as it was too cheap to pass up!

See you there then !

We are in the premier inn x"

Actually got that wrong , we are in the travel lodge too .

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By *ools and the brainCouple
11 weeks ago

couple, us we him her.

Wasn't impressed with ignite at all, felt like going to a leisure centre party for adults.

Tuck shop.

Garden sheds.

Just needed a couple of badminton nets in the hall.

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By *edcat69 OP Couple
11 weeks ago

emsworth

"Wasn't impressed with ignite at all, felt like going to a leisure centre party for adults.

Tuck shop.

Garden sheds.

Just needed a couple of badminton nets in the hall."

Glad we chose hellfire then !

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By *pankingNorfolkCouple
10 weeks ago

Norwich ish

"Wasn't impressed with ignite at all, felt like going to a leisure centre party for adults.

Tuck shop.

Garden sheds.

Just needed a couple of badminton nets in the hall.

Glad we chose hellfire then ! "

How did you find Hellfire? Was one of the busiest nights we have been there. Thankfully still got to have some fun in the dungeon.

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By *edcat69 OP Couple
10 weeks ago

emsworth

"Wasn't impressed with ignite at all, felt like going to a leisure centre party for adults.

Tuck shop.

Garden sheds.

Just needed a couple of badminton nets in the hall.

Glad we chose hellfire then !

How did you find Hellfire? Was one of the busiest nights we have been there. Thankfully still got to have some fun in the dungeon."

I think you were sat opposite us on the sofas early on , and if I’m right , we were watching you for ages in the dungeon , tied up and being spanked with various things ! It was wonderful to watch .

In all honesty though , found a lot of the single men to be a bit creepy , constantly following you around etc . We were hoping to find a couple to play with but didn’t happen unfortunately.

I like the venue but the couples only night was much better , even though we would like to play with the right single man , we really don’t want 8 of them following us into the dark room !

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By *pankingNorfolkCouple
10 weeks ago

Norwich ish

"Wasn't impressed with ignite at all, felt like going to a leisure centre party for adults.

Tuck shop.

Garden sheds.

Just needed a couple of badminton nets in the hall.

Glad we chose hellfire then !

How did you find Hellfire? Was one of the busiest nights we have been there. Thankfully still got to have some fun in the dungeon.

In all honesty though , found a lot of the single men to be a bit creepy , constantly following you around etc . We were hoping to find a couple to play with but didn’t happen unfortunately.

I like the venue but the couples only night was much better , even though we would like to play with the right single man , we really don’t want 8 of them following us into the dark room ! "

Honestly never known so many single guys there and yes know what you mean about the following. Also never really noticed that before either.

I had to give one guy a bit of a stare to get to back off

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By *edcat69 OP Couple
10 weeks ago

emsworth

"Wasn't impressed with ignite at all, felt like going to a leisure centre party for adults.

Tuck shop.

Garden sheds.

Just needed a couple of badminton nets in the hall.

Glad we chose hellfire then !

How did you find Hellfire? Was one of the busiest nights we have been there. Thankfully still got to have some fun in the dungeon.

In all honesty though , found a lot of the single men to be a bit creepy , constantly following you around etc . We were hoping to find a couple to play with but didn’t happen unfortunately.

I like the venue but the couples only night was much better , even though we would like to play with the right single man , we really don’t want 8 of them following us into the dark room !

Honestly never known so many single guys there and yes know what you mean about the following. Also never really noticed that before either.

I had to give one guy a bit of a stare to get to back off"

That’s awful, all they need to do is try and chat to people , following people will just put them off .

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By *cottish guy 555Man
10 weeks ago

London

Swish is an event that I would recommend. The amount of single guys has always been suitable for the night.

Always remember the rule of 3; no, no, fuck off.

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By *-and-tCouple
10 weeks ago

Inverness

There'll be no creepy single men at Ignite this coming Saturday, or any other single men for that matter!

_edcat69 - Why not come along and give it a try?

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By *R01Couple
10 weeks ago

St Albans

"Wasn't impressed with ignite at all, felt like going to a leisure centre party for adults.

Tuck shop.

Garden sheds.

Just needed a couple of badminton nets in the hall.

Glad we chose hellfire then !

How did you find Hellfire? Was one of the busiest nights we have been there. Thankfully still got to have some fun in the dungeon.

In all honesty though , found a lot of the single men to be a bit creepy , constantly following you around etc . We were hoping to find a couple to play with but didn’t happen unfortunately.

I like the venue but the couples only night was much better , even though we would like to play with the right single man , we really don’t want 8 of them following us into the dark room ! "

We have to agree with you 100%. We once started playing with a respectful single guy in the cinema area, but within moments half a dozen others crowded around us (all single guys). We had only just begun when they gathered around, and even after we politely asked them not to crowd us, they ignored it and stayed there watching. We stopped altogether because it completely ruined the moment — not just for us, but for the poor guy we were actually playing with, who clearly wasn’t impressed either.

Honestly, we think management should consider sending out a polite reminder about etiquette and respectful behaviour. Unfortunately, it’s often the few who ignore boundaries that spoil things for everyone else. Enforcing them when necessary — would go a long way. To assist, It’s also worth remembering that locker numbers are visible, so people who behave badly can easily be reported. The more people report this kind of behaviour, the easier it is for management to take action and remove those who repeatedly ignore the rules, which ultimately creates a better atmosphere for everyone.

Another time, a single guy followed us into the couples-only room and quickly ran back out again for his own safety. Yet another followed us into the dungeon and, after we politely said “no thank you,” responded with a rather crude suggestion. Our reply was that we’d probably rather be eaten alive by ants than have him touch us. He didn’t find that very funny, but sometimes blunt honesty is the only language people understand.

That said, we still enjoy coming here because the majority of people are respectful, the staff are genuinely lovely, and the facilities are great. We just tend to keep things a little more private now when we decide to play, simply because of the small minority who don’t seem to understand basic respect and boundaries.

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By *ain and sortedMan
10 weeks ago

Old Harlow Essex

I must say I do attend ignite have done for years as a single and couple

I’d agree some not all single guys do over crowd , rather than be respectful and watch from a distance just dive in and jostle others out the way some times it feels rather frenzied , experienced this as a couple , few strong words seeems to fend them off . But can kill the moment totally agree! Diffrent cultures may contribute to this sometimes , however there’s many friendly respectful guys as well who sometimes take charge as they see it’s not what swinging is about , overall great club, fab staff always, fantastic facilities much better than David Lloyd haha new balls please

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By *ellfireClubMan
9 weeks ago

Sunbury-On-Thames

Regarding Single Gents

We recently introduced stricter limits on the number of single gentlemen attending our events. For most parties (with the exception of Bad Girls), the ratio is typically around one single gentleman to every four couples, with single ladies further easing that balance.

Our aim is to maintain the relaxed, sociable atmosphere that our guests value, while ensuring couples and ladies feel comfortable and at ease.

We are also introducing a membership system, initially for single gentlemen and later for all guests. This helps us meet requirements from Spelthorne Council, the police, and fire authorities to better account for everyone attending the venue.

More importantly, it allows us to maintain the quality of our events by ensuring that single gentlemen who attend meet the standards expected at the club — including appropriate dress, good manners, and respectful behaviour. Membership will also enable us to reward regular guests and, where necessary, refuse or revoke entry for those who do not meet these standards.

We are grateful for the positive feedback we receive and make every effort to address your concerns promptly.

Peter

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By *uiet fuckerMan
9 weeks ago

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I used to love going ignite with my partner on a Saturday when it was couples only but went on a Saturday recently and I don’t think we will go when single guys are allowed they have ruined it walking around like zombies the dark room and cinema room used to be amazing but now all the couples are cramped in a little tiny room at the back I think a few more couples only areas like the dark room would be ideal but I understand bills are going up it’s a shame lovely club

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By *ackgroundnoiseCouple
8 weeks ago

Aldershot

Having done various clubs over the years it comes down to the rules of the venue and the staff.

Hellfire has over the last few years upped its game and is certainly one of the better venues in the south. Unfortunately the lack of single men’s respect and herding after couples ruins the night for so many hence we will stick to Hellfire where Peter and his team produce a safe environment for their customers.

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