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By *andtnw OP Couple
26 weeks ago

Westhoughton

How do you think T would fare in a club. She is very nervous being a bigger lady. I say she would be fine and her nerves would go once she realises that she won't be alone.

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By *reolasmithMan
26 weeks ago

Coventry

She is amazing very sexy

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By *istransCoupleCouple
26 weeks ago

Royston

I really struggled with body image as a bigger lady when my fiancée and I started going clubbing.

Let me tell you, the scene has been the most amazing help for me.

In any well-attended club, you won’t help but to see women come in all sorts of shapes and sizes and every one of them rocks it.

We pick a club to go to every fortnightish, partly because my Mr wants to get his end away with people haha, but mostly for me, because I feel sexy and empowered.

I really hope she gives it go. It has helped me so much. The people on the scene are the loveliest bunch of folks.

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By *iscombobulated1523Couple
25 weeks ago

Worcestershire

You get all body types in clubs

Before we first went we were imagining it would be full of super slim types

But it's just normal everyday people in there

No one is any better or different than anyone else

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By *ime2TingleCouple
25 weeks ago

South Essex

"I really struggled with body image as a bigger lady when my fiancée and I started going clubbing.

Let me tell you, the scene has been the most amazing help for me.

In any well-attended club, you won’t help but to see women come in all sorts of shapes and sizes and every one of them rocks it.

We pick a club to go to every fortnightish, partly because my Mr wants to get his end away with people haha, but mostly for me, because I feel sexy and empowered.

I really hope she gives it go. It has helped me so much. The people on the scene are the loveliest bunch of folks."

This is exactly how we have found the club scene. The biggest problem we have found is getting the outfits that Tingle feels comfy in. Why not try a curvy night as a starting point just to boost your confidence at little.

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By *ENW coupleCouple
25 weeks ago

west lancs

"How do you think T would fare in a club. She is very nervous being a bigger lady. I say she would be fine and her nerves would go once she realises that she won't be alone. "

Any club will be fine you’ve got to remember there’s all sizes of sexyness

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By *imnher2017Couple
25 weeks ago

Warrington

I was very nervous too when I went to my first club 12 yrs ago. Boy fid I have the wrong misconception about bbws

We are loved and very much wanted. Only way to find out is try a club . I have dm'd you x

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By *ogether202569Couple
25 weeks ago

Midlands

"How do you think T would fare in a club. She is very nervous being a bigger lady. I say she would be fine and her nerves would go once she realises that she won't be alone. "

Totally understand the nerves but clubs are places where there is zero judgement. She’ll find every age/body type enjoying the experience and there will be plenty of people there who will think she is hot.

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By *andM36Couple
25 weeks ago

Gravesend

All clubs are different but the ones we have been to are very friendly and people don’t judge. Everyone is there for their own reasons and if you aren’t for them they will generally be polite in telling you that you may not be for them. And I’m sure you be as polite with people you aren’t interested in.

I would say just go and if things get too much to cope with you can leave at any time. One piece of advice is inform the staff you are new and nervous, if it is a good club they will show you around and chat to you. They may also introduce you to a few regulars.

Oh I almost forgot most clubs hold bbw nights so maybe look for one of those.

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By *iddle ManMan
25 weeks ago

Walsall

It is always nerve wracking going to a club, especially he first time. I still get those butterfly's now.

Just chose a club with a relaxed nightclub or bar vibe.

I'm sure most people imagine woman will get swamped by guys as soon as they set foot in the door, or the opposite and no one will find them attractive. I can guarantee you both of those things won't happen, most guys are respectful and from your profile she needs not worry, she's is stunning.

If it's on your mind then just head to a club and give it a chance, you can leave whenever you like.

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