FabSwingers.com forum: Swindon: Lust

By *irty Work OP Couple
27 weeks ago

Bath

We're planning to make a return to Swindon Swingers before the end of the year.

But the best date for us is the invite only Lust.

I'm assuming we're too old for this one - we can't message the organiser to send some pics and request tickets as they have a cut-off at 50.

Anybody able to confirm we're not missing something obvious?

Thanks,

S&M.

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By *ev_1Couple
27 weeks ago

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By *ev_1Couple
27 weeks ago

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By *eri24Woman
27 weeks ago

Bridgend

They have a certain 'look' they're after on their guest list

I suppose over 50's don't fit it

Sounds a bit elitist

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By *unKinkyCouple-XCouple
26 weeks ago

Hampshire

I think Lust is a privately run party at the club and has an invite only guest list. Xx

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By *ar_MiteCouple
26 weeks ago

Swindon ish

Lust is a purely private event. They hold it at Swindon Swingers but the guys have nothing to do with the running of it.

The couple than run it code so they would like to come.

There's a lovely story behind how the event came about and yes, if you're over 50, you're very unlikely to be chosen.

Not elitist, it's their choice and a private gathering.

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By *avensCouple
26 weeks ago

Stroud

We messaged them and sent photos etc as instructed, but got ignored. Makes sense now.

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By *windonSwingersCouple
26 weeks ago

Swindon

LUST - PRIVATE HIRE the venue.

They can choose whoever they want to attend. It’s their own private party.

LUST has been a test. When next door is completed. Every single one of you will have the same opportunity. Whether it be a small intimate event or a big event.

Likewise, for your event, you will be able to choose whoever you want to attend.

Do we understand that some of you don’t like it? Yes. Do we get that some of you may take it personally if you can’t go? Yes.

But. All the money we get goes into the venue. That money is paying towards a new space which any one of you! Will be able to hire for your own event. In the future.

ALL the events at the club benefit everyone. They may not be for everyone, and that’s okay! You don’t have to like everything; there are aspects of our events that we want to improve on. What is it they say, You can please some of the people all the time.

You will get your own chance to create whatever events you want & invite who you want.

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By *ar_MiteCouple
26 weeks ago

Swindon ish

"LUST - PRIVATE HIRE the venue.

They can choose whoever they want to attend. It’s their own private party.

LUST has been a test. When next door is completed. Every single one of you will have the same opportunity. Whether it be a small intimate event or a big event.

Likewise, for your event, you will be able to choose whoever you want to attend.

Do we understand that some of you don’t like it? Yes. Do we get that some of you may take it personally if you can’t go? Yes.

But. All the money we get goes into the venue. That money is paying towards a new space which any one of you! Will be able to hire for your own event. In the future.

You will get your own chance to create whatever events you want & invite who you want.

Xx "

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By *irty Work OP Couple
26 weeks ago

Bath

"Lust is a purely private event. They hold it at Swindon Swingers but the guys have nothing to do with the running of it.

The couple than run it code so they would like to come.

There's a lovely story behind how the event came about and yes, if you're over 50, you're very unlikely to be chosen.

Not elitist, it's their choice and a private gathering. "

Thanks for the lovely reply. All makes sense and glad we could check with somebody who knew the score.

We're not going to respond to the long justification post. Not sure it was aimed at us, but we never had our noses put out and certainly weren't trying to make it there was anything unfair.

M&S

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