FabSwingers.com forum: Younger couples

By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
30 weeks ago

Coventry

We've also seen an uptick in younger singles and couples in clubs.

First I would say club are for everyone. We've notice there's definitely a cohort of younger crowd seem to give of Instagram vibes. Looking great, very cool but also very conservative in what they get up to. Feels like for them it's more about being seen and hanging out that it is the sex. Which I don't mind. They also tend to stick to their own groups and not socialise with the rest of the club. Clubs are for everyone and they're coming out finding clubs an keeping the membership/cash in the club scene. It seems to me they also tend to go for the couples and single ladies nights, I guess because those nights tend to be a little less extreme and not so many pushy gents.

Then we know other young people 18+ who come, mix and get stuck in like the rest of us. Who are very much integrated.

As to if people are too young that is a subjective question on a individual basis. I think it's on all club users to watch out for eachother.

In terms of the type of young folk you get seems to depend on the club and/or night/party. Trendier clubs tend to attract the Instagram crowd.

As for the sharing on social media that concerns me. All for more good quality of visibility of the scene and normalisation. However there is no quality control here. So we don't get to control the message or the light that is shed on the scene from tiktok ad insta. As a scene that favours privacy of individuals and our venues the uncontrolled media is also a concern. Plus I said clubs are for everyone and I don't mind a cohort of Instagram types. But I don't want the power of social media to make swinging clubs the next new disposable trend to go and pose at. To see the make up and vibe of our clubs destroyed. Because these type of young folk in my experience tend to be a bit dull and inhibited beyond the great dress up and makeup.

By *ischiefManaged69Man
30 weeks ago

Preston

"I have noticed a lot more younger couples coming to clubs now, as in early 20’s. Does anyone else think this is too young as they are not in long term relationships yet and not experienced their sexual desires themselves yet? Or is it just me?"

As long as they're legally old enough and respect the etiquette of the club, where's the harm?

Plenty of younger people are mature and respectful, while plenty of older people can act immaturely.

Not everyone matures the same way.