FabSwingers.com forum: Which clubs would people say are the top 5 in the uk

By *lit King OP Man
over a year ago

south lakes

I've a female friend I've now introduced to the club scene & she's loving it

Been to some northwest clubs both on couples nights & free for all nights & she's had plenty of attention but we're planning a 'tour' for want of a better description.

We want to visit the best clubs in the UK.

Has anyone ever done a ratings list/poll? Is there a facility in here where club reviews are put into a top 40 or something.

Can anyone help by suggesting the better ones to go too (in their opinion obviously - so I can check them out & use my own opinion!)

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A club is what you make of it, what I think are 5 best clubs, someone else will think different. Surely it's better to read club reviews section on the site, and form your own opinions of what clubs might be best suited for you guys

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By *lit King OP Man
over a year ago

south lakes

"A club is what you make of it, what I think are 5 best clubs, someone else will think different. Surely it's better to read club reviews section on the site, and form your own opinions of what clubs might be best suited for you guys"

I agree hence the bit - "Can anyone help by suggesting the better ones to go too (in their opinion obviously - so I can check them out & use my own opinion!)"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just check out reviews for all the clubs in areas you are planning to visit lol

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By *iss kitty glosWoman
over a year ago

gloucester

Is this also going to be based on where in the uk ppl are lets face it were sw so we have opinions on sw and midlands clubs not attended any up north so can't really have an opinion

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By *lit King OP Man
over a year ago

south lakes

Not including Scotland there are 99 clubs listed in this site - most with great revues & some which have a limited amount of revues which I guess maybe newer or less popular.

I will be reading up on them obviously before I book hotels etc but the reason for asking is to gain a starting point & if a "poll" or something similar has ever been done

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By *lit King OP Man
over a year ago

south lakes

"Is this also going to be based on where in the uk ppl are lets face it were sw so we have opinions on sw and midlands clubs not attended any up north so can't really have an opinion "

Looking at England & Wales but its a tour so will go anywhere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not been to enough to give 5 but my top 3 are Chams Darlaston, Xtasia and Partners in Bury

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Going to stick our neck out on this one and suggest The Vanilla Alternative. Have tried a few others in and around London and still find VA at the top

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cupids, Chams Darleston, Xotix Xtreme are my top 3. Cupids being my favourite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tease 2 and xotic are my favs x cupids is fun too ( when Ruby's there!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree hence the bit - "Can anyone help by suggesting the better ones to go too (in their opinion obviously - so I can check them out & use my own opinion!)"

It's totally subjective though. And you don't even quantify what you think makes a decent club.

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By *ondonpride69Couple
over a year ago

Blackpool

In our opinion. The Vanilla Alternative , Liberty Elite, Abfabs and The Hellfire Club. We haven't been to Chameleons yet but heard lots of good things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wont people from the north just say club f or secrets and people from the south come up with a whole list of others?

Why not just browse the clubs section and the various write ups!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In no particular order,

Infusuions - Blackpool, No3 - Chorley, Partners - Bury for the North/Northwest.

Xtasia - West Bromwhich, Chameleons - Darlaston for the Midlands.

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By *--Cinders---Couple
over a year ago

a place near Blackpool

I have only been to north west clubs, Infusions is great as is Paradise swingers hotel both in Blackpool..Cupids in Swinton is good... Adam and Eves in Eccles is great.. and Partners in Bury is also great

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By *istress-MazikeenWoman
over a year ago

bolton

Depends on what your looking for, I like the Gatehouse in Bolton, Partners Bury, for the wet area, Adam and eves for the banter and having a laugh, Townhouse is really good birkenhead.

I am not mad keen on cupids, as the last time went it was boring.

Not been but have been recommended No 3 in Chorley.

So that is the problem, only been to up north clubs.

Knowing the owners of Xtasia, would assume that the club would be well run, need to get to there one weekend to see for myself.

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By *aveandkate35Couple
over a year ago

telford

Have a look for the member clubpartypeeps I think it is. I'm pretty sure they have released a swingers guide to clubs around the uk.

Good luck.

Cheers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have a look for the member clubpartypeeps I think it is. I'm pretty sure they have released a swingers guide to clubs around the uk.

Good luck.

Cheers

My top 5 are the 5 I have been to best first:- Townhouse, Cupids, Partners, Adam and Eves and Atlantis

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

If you are planning a tour why don't you sample a couple in each area and produce a little guide.

Vanilla Alternative has the advantage of having the hotel attached so play and sleep both dealt with. Tease2 isn't that far from there and also has rooms.

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By *hunderstarCouple
over a year ago

hereford

Funny thing this one :

Connections in Blackpool we liked as its an old gay sauna. They had a dark dingy maze with neon lighting. LOVED IT!

However - they are going through referb and have cleaned up and improved the facilities - but for us - it lost a little of what we liked. The seedyness!

Cant go wrong with Chams - Darleston

Also like Xtasia - Brum

And we like the Private Club - but thats more of a sex club than a swingers club.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

look out for clubpartypeeps there top guys on rating clubs, they publish a book on the subject, last ratings were chams first n atlantis second,,,which to be fair seems about right to us!

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By *anSusieCouple
over a year ago

Midlothian

Been to 5 in total Wales and the Midlands.

Topspot for us:The Lodge

2nd Chams Darlaston

3rd Romeos Bristol

(susie)

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By *enuinetallstuMan
over a year ago

nr beauly

"Been to 5 in total Wales and the Midlands.

Topspot for us:The Lodge

2nd Chams Darlaston

3rd Romeos Bristol

(susie)"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oooh so top 3 from my pov,

Chams, Darlaston.

Partners, Bury

La Chambre, Sheffield.

In the interest of fairness, I haven't actually been to lc's or partners this year, as I now live much closer to chams and think of it as my 'home club' now.

It probably speaks volumes that when I lived in Sheffield I drove to chams & I've never lived any where near Bury since being an adult

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can only rate three in my opinion, 1 - new paradise club, 2 - xtasia, 3 - xotix, no idea what any other clubs are like, and no idea if they are type clubs you are after, as havent said if you prefer wet clubs/ dry clubs etc

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By *lit King OP Man
over a year ago

south lakes

Thanks everyone - some great suggestions there to start some further checking & forming a plan from. As for trying a couple in each area mmmmm maybe

Thanks again

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By *xodussxMan
over a year ago

sheffield

1. My bed

2. My living room

3. My Kitchen floor

4. My bathroom

5. My balcony..

Voila

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"1. My bed

2. My living room

3. My Kitchen floor

4. My bathroom

5. My balcony..

Voila

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

our fav

paradise club

xotix

chameleons

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By *aydeesclubCouple
over a year ago

Bedfordshire

Hey you cant forget Jaydeessssssssss lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

British legion club near us is canny

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By *eachyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

hibernating. for now…

It's a fair Q.

Our 2 penneth worth.

Chams Darlaston.

Libya Elite.

AbFabs

Infusions.

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By *andyMooCouple
over a year ago

bedford

It depends what you expect from a club

Our criteria is the following

Clean

Well equipped

Friendly

Good atmosphere

Great looking crowd

Doesn't cost the earth

So far we have only found this at 1 club others can give us some but not all

So it's JayDee's for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have to totally agree with last two xxx, we have tried well lol over the years lots of clubs and where some are totally open and you have no privacy or you pay a fortune at a bar, Jaydees has it all, open play/lockable play room. sheltered smoking free buffet and you take ur own drinks which means that you only spend what u want too, you also have the option of paying to stay over for the night and this has become so popular that 3 new rooms have been added to the club .

lol we don't have a top 5 we have a one and only and that is JAYDEE'S

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

as someone point out... unless you have been to all clubs I think this is a mute point...

people in the north west will say clubs in the north west

people in the midlands will say clubs in the midlands...

people in the south will say clubs in the south

people don't truely do the travelling that they use to do in the old days.... there are some gems of clubs out there, but since people don't travel, they don't find out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We get around a fair bit we love va and chameleons, jaydees is a lovely club as well, have also been to some not so good clubs, but it's all very subjective personal taste what night you go and most important of all who is there the night you go

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By *kmale421Man
over a year ago

wirral

I've been to various clubs around NW and Midlands.

I like all these and have been back to them on more than one occasion, sometimes with a playfriend though mainly as a single. In no specific order:

Xtasia, Townhouse, Atlantis Evolution and Infusions.

I also like Adam & Eves and Chams is on my wish list.

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By *imeonSimonCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

Recently checked the Clubs list on here. Of the 99 clubs listed only 49 are actual clubs, the rest are private house parties, duplicate entries for venues, Fet/Dungeon/Brothel, or groups that tour. Just thought we'd point that out, makes choice a little easier.

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By *enderbycoupleCouple
over a year ago

derbyshire or localish

Definately NOT The Attic!!!!!

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By *andyMooCouple
over a year ago

bedford

"Definately NOT The Attic!!!!!

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I've heard there are many better clubs than the attic

That was a polite way of saying I heard its crap. But they do have a lot of people who go regularly so it can't be all that bad

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By *ornishpastycplCouple
over a year ago

Truro Cornwall

For us it has to be.

AbFab Parties.

The Vanilla Alternative.

Chameleons.

Secrets.

Donkeydicksparties.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The best I've been to so far is the VA...had some great fun there.

They have a great big pool where everyone piled in there and just spent the whole night in the Pool, pretty much.

The staff there are a great.

No3Club in Chorley was pretty good too.

Recently went to Cupids which was ok, but the evening was Ace because a whole bunch of us went together.

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By *etandsoakedCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

Friends of ours has been to most clubs in the country and tell us the ones that are good and the ones that are bad. They said Secrets and Decadentnights and chams are the best so we took their word for it and went they are really good and will go again.

They also told us the worse two clubs they visited was the Attic and the Lodge both very tacky and poorly run so we decided to give those two a miss.

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By *enuinetallstuMan
over a year ago

nr beauly

"Friends of ours has been to most clubs in the country and tell us the ones that are good and the ones that are bad. They said Secrets and Decadentnights and chams are the best so we took their word for it and went they are really good and will go again.

They also told us the worse two clubs they visited was the Attic and the Lodge both very tacky and poorly run so we decided to give those two a miss."

READ THE REVIEWS .... I wonder the motives of the poster above with no verifications, pics etc etc . Who have blocked us lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wonder why paradise your fab club

Mmmmmmmmm

Love the muffits xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well it's The Lodge for us by a mile. Wonder if we will be blocked for saying so !! Skulduggery afoot maybe !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like

Xotix

Paradise

the attic

cupids

and le chambre

but It is normally the company on those nights that makes it for me.

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By *leepyangelCouple
over a year ago

over the hill and far away

I have been doing the same sort of research in the area.

No3 @ Chorley is the best so far. Fantastic jacuzzi and sauna. Nice big beds and immaculate.

Cupids is good, nice and clean. Friendly staff who make you welcome. Can be too hot in some of the rooms.

Partners has a very weak jacuzzi, the rooms needs updating and refurbishing. Seating area badly designed in social area.

Hope this helps xxx

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By *enuinetallstuMan
over a year ago

nr beauly

"Well it's The Lodge for us by a mile. Wonder if we will be blocked for saying so !! Skulduggery afoot maybe !!"

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By *enuinetallstuMan
over a year ago

nr beauly

"Well it's The Lodge for us by a mile. Wonder if we will be blocked for saying so !! Skulduggery afoot maybe !!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our top 5 would be

Chams

Infusions

Xtasia

partners

No.3

not in any order really like them all for varies reasons

though we do want to try and heard good things about

le chambre

The Lodge

but we love to travel so im sure at some point we will be trying majority of the seemingly better one scattered around the kinky Uk

Theres a few Fet clubs we like but wont add them to this list.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My favourite clubs are.

The lodge

Chameleons Darlaston

And Romeo's when it was open.

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