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By *uriouscpl2025 OP Couple
32 weeks ago

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Who’s going to this event? Been to VA a few times but never this - what’s the ‘selected guest list’ like/what’s the criteria for getting selected?

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By *erts74Couple
32 weeks ago

Harpenden

We're going.. so looking forward to it

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By *iamond_and_the_RoughCouple
32 weeks ago

Norwich/St Neots

We are planning on it. We have been a couple of times and it’s one of our favourite events.

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By *ipplesandNipplesCouple
31 weeks ago

Romford

Hi,

There's no bar list. Does anyone know how much drinks are?

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By *teed99Man
31 weeks ago

Kettering

"Hi,

There's no bar list. Does anyone know how much drinks are? "

About the same as local pubs.

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By *nm888Couple
31 weeks ago

Edinburgh

We have never done a club but keep hearing about VA.

Sounds like a lot of fun but no idea what we would do if went!

Deer in headlights sounds true

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By *iamond_and_the_RoughCouple
31 weeks ago

Norwich/St Neots

"Hi,

There's no bar list. Does anyone know how much drinks are? "

It’s really not expensive. Every time we go we are always surprised how small the bill is when we settle up at the end of the night

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By *iamond_and_the_RoughCouple
31 weeks ago

Norwich/St Neots

"We have never done a club but keep hearing about VA.

Sounds like a lot of fun but no idea what we would do if went!

Deer in headlights sounds true "

VA was our first club years ago now. “Deer in headlights” is exactly how we were that first night

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By *nm888Couple
31 weeks ago

Edinburgh

We have heard of dungeons and orgy rooms and I'm not sure if I would give a little squeel if my bum got pinched

Excited though... How do we book tickets if we decided to come x

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By *ara DosCouple
31 weeks ago

Here, There, Everywhere

We will be attending this event … we have attended many and always had a great night

The VA is our go to, it’s a great club, friendly, clean, with a great atmosphere

If you don’t try you’ll never know

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By *iamond_and_the_RoughCouple
31 weeks ago

Norwich/St Neots

"We have heard of dungeons and orgy rooms and I'm not sure if I would give a little squeel if my bum got pinched

Excited though... How do we book tickets if we decided to come x"

Become a member and book through the website, va2 dot com

It’s such a great club, you will love it for sure

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By *erts74Couple
31 weeks ago

Harpenden

You'd love it, there a few local hotels to stay in which the club does shuttle busrun to. Also a dozen hotel room above the club, but these sold out now

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By *ipplesandNipplesCouple
31 weeks ago

Romford

Thanks.

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By *ipplesandNipplesCouple
31 weeks ago

Romford

Thanks. We’ll have a cocktail/cock or two.

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By *tsJustUs2Couple
31 weeks ago

Bury St. Edmunds

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By *tsJustUs2Couple
31 weeks ago

Bury St. Edmunds

"We have never done a club but keep hearing about VA.

Sounds like a lot of fun but no idea what we would do if went!

Deer in headlights sounds true "

It's a great club... Might be a bit far for you guys tho!

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By *tsJustUs2Couple
31 weeks ago

Bury St. Edmunds

"Who’s going to this event? Been to VA a few times but never this - what’s the ‘selected guest list’ like/what’s the criteria for getting selected? "

Was wondering what the criteria was ourselves. We've been many times, and booked a local hotel that night, but can't decide over VA or Jaydees.

Jaydees is always fun, and much cheaper, as it's BYO, and cheaper to get in... But also like the sound of this party. If anyone can better describe the event, as their site doesn't do it very well.

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By *hatHappensNextCouple
31 weeks ago

Essex, near basildon

We have been to the VA many times over the years but never this event. We just booked direct in the site with no vetting so assume it’s open to all

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By *tsJustUs2Couple
31 weeks ago

Bury St. Edmunds

"We have been to the VA many times over the years but never this event. We just booked direct in the site with no vetting so assume it’s open to all"

Kinda makes you question what they mean then!

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By *dinSon99Man
30 weeks ago

East Northants

Tempted to attend this with my partner as a first visit to VA

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By *hatHappensNextCouple
29 weeks ago

Essex, near basildon

Who else is going?

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By *erts74Couple
29 weeks ago

Harpenden

We are... and at least 11 others as all hotel rooms booked long ago..

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By *anCCouple
29 weeks ago

Peterborough

For those that are going, as few of us have a Telegram chat going. So far we have 9 of us warming up for Friday night.

If you fancy joining in, DM your Telegram ID amd will add you to the fun

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By *anCCouple
29 weeks ago

Peterborough

sorry everyone, looks like you are all talking about the Saturday night = Forbidden

I got mixed up as a few of us are going to Friday = Freedom

my bad........ I'm sure you will all have a great night

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By *erts74Couple
29 weeks ago

Harpenden

There is a Tele gram group for the sat Forbidden unofficial

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By *aughtyNaughtyCouple69Couple
29 weeks ago

Suffolk

We’re hoping to go as ticket and hotel but myself (Mrs) has chest infection I think

PDI lurgy got me

hopefully see you all on Sat though, our first time to this event

so looking forward to it x

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By *aughtyNaughtyCouple69Couple
29 weeks ago

Suffolk

"We’re hoping to go as ticket and hotel but myself (Mrs) has chest infection I think

PDI lurgy got me

hopefully see you all on Sat though, our first time to this event

so looking forward to it x"

*ticket and hotel booked

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By *teed99Man
29 weeks ago

Kettering

Before anyone asks, British Summertime ends at 2am on Sunday but as regulars will know, the club disregards this when the clocks change. So club opens at 8pm on Saturday and closes 7 hours later.

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By *ecret-PlaymatesCouple
29 weeks ago

Your Wildest Fantasy.. ;)

We have found the VA to be the best club, and we’ve been to quite a few

Forbidden is a great night, which we normally attend, with the added bonus of a few selected single guys in the mix😈

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By *tsJustUs2Couple
29 weeks ago

Bury St. Edmunds

We have bitten the bullet and renewed our membership, so will be hitting VA tonight

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