Unfortunately, the "mute" epidemic is affecting a lot of clubs. Men seem to believe they made enough effort by just turning up, and that women should just throw themselves at them. I like to play with others when the mood is right, but like your lady, I need a bit of a connection. Last time I went to a club, with my FWB, we had a guy watching us, both times we played. He looked cute, and I would have happily played with him. But he only expressed any interest in me/us when we were in the playroom, despite being told, on both occasions, to come find us at the bar, while we're having a break, so we could have a chat. He passed us a few times, but didn't bother to come for a chat so we didn't bother inviting him to play.
I get that, probably, men who tried chatting to people got rejected so now they just prefer not to, waiting to be approached. Or just invited in the "heat of the moment".
Sadly, OP, I don't have any wise words in here, or any club recommendations that the "muteness" has not hit yet. Good luck trying, and I get how frustrating it must be. |
