FabSwingers.com forum: Nervous first timer bghs

By *exandthesuburbans83 OP Couple
34 weeks ago

EASTBOURNE

Hi all,

Verified couple here before anyone jumps on the fact the below is about mr only. We are niche but real and exploring a new dynamic.

We are exploring hothusband style play and as part of this mr is looking to go to bghs alone for the first time (we haven't been together so it's totally new).

Are there any couples that are heading there that maybe we could chat to before or enter with (no obligation obviously) just to break the ice and nerves and to have a friendly face as such to enter with.

Any advice welcome on when would be best to attend etc and thanks in advance x

By *ink vixenCouple
34 weeks ago

Medway

It’s primarily a naturist spa.

What’s to be nervous about?

By *imon and saffyCouple
34 weeks ago

southampton

Nothing to be nervous about, just chat to people when you get there.

There's never that many couples there during the day at weekends, they mostly arrive after 6 when all the singles leave.

Don't go expecting play, as a single man you aren't usually first choice.

By *exandthesuburbans83 OP Couple
34 weeks ago

EASTBOURNE

Thanks both for the replies. No expectations at all. The nervousness is that i/we have never been before and not been to a naturist place before so it's totally new.

By *imon and saffyCouple
33 weeks ago

southampton

"Thanks both for the replies. No expectations at all. The nervousness is that i/we have never been before and not been to a naturist place before so it's totally new."

It's probably not the place to go to explore the "hot husband" approach. Firstly it's just a naturist spa where you can play in the rest rooms. Secondly, if you're there on your own then you're just another single man who's wife isn't there.

You'd be better off going together to both experience being naked and support each other.