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By *uckoldcplhunger OP   Couple
over a year ago

DARTFORD

Hi Guys.

Looking for your help on the club scene.

We have not yet attended any clubs or events.

Our main question is what are most like.

Would you walk through the first door and be seen by everyone straight away or could you be more discreet in getting in to the play rooms/private rooms?

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

It depends where you go. They are all a bit different but most have social areas, private play areas and public play areas. Have a look at the reviews on the clubs section.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It depends where you go. They are all a bit different but most have social areas, private play areas and public play areas. Have a look at the reviews on the clubs section.

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Yeah i agree with looking at the reviews, even just click on the link to their websites above the reviews as they pretty much all have a gallery so you can see what the layout of the club is like for yourself

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Plus, you are both still young so there are club and party options open to you that just aren't for old hags. Look at the meets/events section too.

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By *uckoldcplhunger OP   Couple
over a year ago

DARTFORD

Thanks for the posts we will look more

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By *eordiesCouple
over a year ago

newcastle

We love going to clubs, have not been to any south of Brum, so no idea what they are like near you, but if it helps here is what we look for in a club.

1, It has to be clean !!! Believe us, some leave a lot to be desired in that area !!

2, We want to feel "safe" in a club, not that you'd expect violence, but you want the staff to be switched on enough to know when some people are getting out of hand or being a pain. If your not happy in a club because of the atmosphere you won't be relaxed enough to play and have a good time.

3, The staff at the club should put effort into chatting and interacting with the guests, some clubs just take your money then point you at the bar. The best ones will have the staff show you round first visit and be visible and approachable thereafter.

As has been said, look at the reviews of clubs and make your mind up.

J & S

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Blackpools fab for clubs and hotels

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most of the clubs we've been to are the same as you walk through the door a spotlight hit you followed by a drum roll

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By *kmale421Man
over a year ago

wirral

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By *kmale421Man
over a year ago

wirral


"Most of the clubs we've been to are the same as you walk through the door a spotlight hit you followed by a drum roll"

LMAO

Followed by the ritual game of Twister, If you can't play naked Twister you simply can't stay in the club.

Oh and don't forget The Pool Game, where you have to be able to bend down low so everyone can check out the ladies panties or lack of them...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

abfabs / kestrels would be my choice in the london area - convenient fo rthe m25 - great on a sunny day

really welcoming crowd - and if you are just trying for the first time there is a lovely grassy area which is just for sunbathing and chilling

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By *easing_twoCouple
over a year ago

Bristol, Thornbury

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

all clubs are different we have found with each being in the style of the club founders. That being said its how the club owners see swinging and we all know each cple have a different idea and expectation of swinging. Also some clubs are sort of controlled by their local planning operating as sauna clubs, hence the towels, and some with licences for alcahol and somewithout. A club like tease2 has the lockable private rooms, open play areas and voyeur rooms while all the rooms smaller than most clubs the intimacy gives you the choice of what you feel is right for you at the time. That is only our opinion and we would seriously recommend reading reviews asking friends on here and asking in chat rooms too best of luck OP

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By *easing_twoCouple
over a year ago

Bristol, Thornbury

That is BAD ADVISE you don't need to be a exobishonist to go to a club guys like that just like to perve some couples do but not alk


"Most of the clubs we've been to are the same as you walk through the door a spotlight hit you followed by a drum roll

LMAO

Followed by the ritual game of Twister, If you can't play naked Twister you simply can't stay in the club.

Oh and don't forget The Pool Game, where you have to be able to bend down low so everyone can check out the ladies panties or lack of them...

"

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By *kmale421Man
over a year ago

wirral


"That is BAD ADVISE you don't need to be a exobishonist to go to a club guys like that just like to perve some couples do but not alk

Most of the clubs we've been to are the same as you walk through the door a spotlight hit you followed by a drum roll

LMAO

Followed by the ritual game of Twister, If you can't play naked Twister you simply can't stay in the club.

Oh and don't forget The Pool Game, where you have to be able to bend down low so everyone can check out the ladies panties or lack of them...

"

Sorry Teasing, I think you'd probably find my comment and the one I quoted as being said very much tongue in cheek. I'd found the comment I quoted amusing and simply added to it, so it was never intended as a proper piece of advice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That is BAD ADVISE you don't need to be a exobishonist to go to a club guys like that just like to perve some couples do but not alk

Most of the clubs we've been to are the same as you walk through the door a spotlight hit you followed by a drum roll

LMAO

Followed by the ritual game of Twister, If you can't play naked Twister you simply can't stay in the club.

Oh and don't forget The Pool Game, where you have to be able to bend down low so everyone can check out the ladies panties or lack of them...

"

Please ADVISE me then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most of the clubs we've been to are the same as you walk through the door a spotlight hit you followed by a drum roll

LMAO

Followed by the ritual game of Twister, If you can't play naked Twister you simply can't stay in the club.

Oh and don't forget The Pool Game, where you have to be able to bend down low so everyone can check out the ladies panties or lack of them...

"

Then just the compulsory pole dancing!

All very easy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Myself and bf booked a cabin at eurekas in the Summer for our first club visit... We were shown around, then went to our cabin, downed some wine before venturing out, it was daytime and hot, as eurekas is a bit of a naturist place in day there were people wandering around naked, then chatting away all very relaxed!! We didn't know where to look lol.. (innocent)

It was lovely though and great facilities, day pool, large grounds, hot tubs etc. Then parties at night with large social area and seperate rooms for play, great new rooms added lately too.

Wish I'd had found out about clubs earlier in life!!!

Enjoy Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clubs can be split into two main groups, wet and dry. Wet clubs have a centre around hot tubs etc. dry clubs centre around a bar.

In the main part with both types the entrance brings you to the bar area, where you can socialise and settle in.

Then the wet clubs tend to be change into towel, and hit the pools. dry clubs tend to be head for playroom of your choice.

There are of course exceptions to every rule, that tends to be the specialist types e.g. BDSM clubs, but to be honest even most of those follow the same basic layout of social area nearest the door.

Never been to a club that didn't welcome new people to take a tour and find out where everything is at the start. Just go you will have fun, or you will go home horny... can't lose

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By *ptimum trajectoryCouple
over a year ago

gloucester


"Clubs can be split into two main groups, wet and dry. Wet clubs have a centre around hot tubs etc. dry clubs centre around a bar.

In the main part with both types the entrance brings you to the bar area, where you can socialise and settle in.

Then the wet clubs tend to be change into towel, and hit the pools. dry clubs tend to be head for playroom of your choice.

There are of course exceptions to every rule, that tends to be the specialist types e.g. BDSM clubs, but to be honest even most of those follow the same basic layout of social area nearest the door.

Never been to a club that didn't welcome new people to take a tour and find out where everything is at the start. Just go you will have fun, or you will go home horny... can't lose "

As with all the best clubs:

No pressure to play but all the opportunity to.

Abfabs would be a great place to start as its very relaxed,lots of equipment to fire the imagination.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

I dont think there is such a thing as a "typical club"... they can vary from club to club and night to night....

I think it is more a case of doing some research on any possible club you are looking at going to

and a lot of clubs worth their salt are worth talking to as to their suggestion of what night would be best for a first-time person to try (not always the most busy nights!!!)

I say to people... just take it in... no pressure to do anything, and my first time all i did was stay in the social areas.....

some like to dive in... some dont

the other thing i would say is don't drink too much before you go...... we were all new once, but being d*unk is not a sexy look....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont think there is such a thing as a "typical club"... they can vary from club to club and night to night....

I think it is more a case of doing some research on any possible club you are looking at going to

and a lot of clubs worth their salt are worth talking to as to their suggestion of what night would be best for a first-time person to try (not always the most busy nights!!!)

I say to people... just take it in... no pressure to do anything, and my first time all i did was stay in the social areas.....

some like to dive in... some dont

the other thing i would say is don't drink too much before you go...... we were all new once, but being d*unk is not a sexy look.... "

Very good advice, particularly about the drinking

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