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By *ustlookingabc2024 OP   Couple
4 weeks ago

Birmingham

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By *ustlookingabc2024 OP   Couple
4 weeks ago

Birmingham

Me, my partner looking at going to chameleons on Saturday evening we’ve never been to a swingers club before and very new to the whole lifestyle. Any tips or advice?

Have no perception of what it’s going to be like only we can imagine it’s something very similar to open house ?

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By *emdomCouple2024Couple
4 weeks ago

dudley

It's alot of fun but don't go there expecting all your fantasies to drop in your lap, everyone is super nice but make sure to keep your boundaries clear not only with each other but with others aswell and most importantly have fun xx

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By *iscombobulated1523Couple
4 weeks ago

Worcestershire

Go with no expectations other than a fun night out with like minded people

Most people there are very polite and respectful

Have fun

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By *empest2KMan
4 weeks ago

Derby

Unlike some clubs, one thing to be aware of at Chameleons is that it's a ‘dress down’ club — once you get there, you're expected to strip down to a towel or underwear for the gents, and a towel or lingerie for the ladies. You can also dress down to nothing but your birthday suit if you're feeling confident and/or carefree, but I've found that folk don't usually do that until their nerves have settled or they've already had some fun.

Also be aware that Chameleons is a membership-only club (if I remember correctly), so it can be costly initially.

Like others have suggested, go with no expectations, mingle with others through conversation, and just see where the night goes. My first time at a club was very overwhelming, but it's gotten easier with multiple visits (both to Chameleons and other clubs) although your mileage may vary — every visit, even on the same weekday, can vary from one to another.

Ultimately, have fun, enjoy the experience, and all the best to you during your swinging adventures 😁

Good luck, OP! 👍

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By *om and JennieCouple
4 weeks ago

Chams or Socials


"Me, my partner looking at going to chameleons on Saturday evening we’ve never been to a swingers club before and very new to the whole lifestyle. Any tips or advice?

Have no perception of what it’s going to be like only we can imagine it’s something very similar to open house ? "

Hello!! It’s nothing like Open House which we think is very staged & heavily edited.

If you want to try without forking out for a membership, you could try the 90’s night on Friday 4 July hosted by Liberated Voice Social & Love To Social.

Lots of very friendly, sociable & sexy folk with 90’s music in the background.

Never any pressure to do anything you don’t want to. And I normally wear a lacy dressing gown over my outfits as I’m very self conscious.

Would be lovely to meet you if you can make it.

J x

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By *idnight experimentalCouple
4 weeks ago

somewhere in Cheshire

Sunday might be the best day for a more chilled evening and a first visit before going in to a very busy evening.

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By *iscombobulated1523Couple
4 weeks ago

Worcestershire

We went to an event night for our first visit

Yes it was very busy (250+ people)

But if you can do an event as a first visit you'll be fine on a normal night

I think the membership is 20 or 25 for couples

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By *ee And MikeCouple
4 weeks ago

Cannock

Not been for a while due to circumstances, but generally everyone is very friendly in there and just go at your own pace.

Being a cuckold couple we have a different dynamic to yourselves but have met nice guys and couples in there that we have played with.

Just go with no expectations and be pleasantly surprised !

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By *yesbeenopened2Couple
4 weeks ago

Rugby

It’s a great club. Have fun.

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By *andystick72Man
4 weeks ago

kinky Street

It's a great club

Super sexy vibes and amazing staff always a great crowd in there non pushy

You'll love it

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By *ampireSuccubusWoman
3 weeks ago

Stone

First time going today, will be on my own and a lil anxious

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By *he-ProfessorMan
3 weeks ago

cheltenham


"First time going today, will be on my own and a lil anxious "

Hope you had a fantastic time, I'm sure you will have as it is such a friendly and inclusive place

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By *edditchCouple8077Couple
3 weeks ago

Redditch

Last minute decision and we going tonight as well,hope to see all old and new friends in a crime

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
3 weeks ago

Coventry

Try to suspend your expectations till you go. The only way to understand it is to experience it yourself. It's one of our favourite clubs. Obviously the main thing to note is its dress down and bring your own alcoholic drinks. You pay entry (and couples life memberships) at entry, given a key/number and settle the bill for food and soft drinks on leaving (they take cash and card).

My biggest tip is to make the best of the first time tour and don't be shy to ask any burning questions, whatever they are. The staff are great and look after you.

Also be aware when getting in the hot tub you must be naked (which is also the norm in most clubs). The reason I say this on occasion people make the mistake of wearing something and causing a faux pas. It's a rule strictly enforced and I have seen people get told to get out the hot tub if they won't get naked.

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