FabSwingers.com forum: Never been. Quick question

By *ppybearded OP Man
23 hours ago

Ipswich

Hi all. I've never been to a club before and never thought my wife would have any interest in it either.

Recently they've actually floated the idea that they'd like to be watched.

I'm aware I'm not as attractive as my wife and would assume at a club they'd get a lot of attention and I'd be almost left to one side.

Is that a concern other men have had on here?

Does anyone mind sharing a similar story and how it went?

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By *allySlinkyWoman
23 hours ago

Leeds

Is your wife wanting to be watched whilst playing with you ? You will have no problem achieving that.

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By *ppybearded OP Man
23 hours ago

Ipswich

"Is your wife wanting to be watched whilst playing with you ? You will have no problem achieving that. "

Yeah I think that's what she'd be looking for.

I think I've just got it in my head that everyone would be watching her or would wanna speak to her afterwards and I'd basically just end up being ignored lol

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By *igladAndLulahCouple
20 hours ago

Reading & Ignite & Kent

"Is your wife wanting to be watched whilst playing with you ? You will have no problem achieving that.

Yeah I think that's what she'd be looking for.

I think I've just got it in my head that everyone would be watching her or would wanna speak to her afterwards and I'd basically just end up being ignored lol"

It depends what you want, if you just want to be watched then that will happen. It’s also how you are as a couple, if you don’t want to personally ignored then don’t engage with anyone that does that.

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By *apperleymanMan
20 hours ago

Leicester

The good thing about the club scene from my experience at least is that there are folk there of all size & shapes. All ages & colours too.

You get into your head that it is only the so called ‘beautiful people’ who go then please be reassured it isn’t the case.

I’ve been to clubs as a (slightly) overweight balding single male in my (very early) 50’s and I always have a good time. 😊👍

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
20 hours ago

Central

There's big interest in watching people, including those who don't have model looks.

You can go, as if it's a pub, relax and start things slowly. You'll definitely get attention

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By *allySlinkyWoman
20 hours ago

Leeds

If you are wary about going to a club you could invite one man to watch you both in your home or a hotel room. Then you can lay down the ground rules before the meet.

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