FabSwingers.com forum: Ignite

By *andKfun OP Couple
4 days ago

London

Went there on Saturday, had a nice night, spent a lot at the bar, ended up in the couples room, having fun together, supposed to close at 2am, staff came in at 1.45 and told us to get out, no warning, just get out ,stood there and wouldn't give us any privacy, we had to disengage and try to find our clothes while they watched. Walking around the room, cock still hard and wet looking for my socks, never found them.

We made friends with another couple in there and while we were swapping names they told us now is not the time for making friends.

Just felt so rude, they switched all the lights off, pitch black as we tried to find our locker, they need to realise we are paying customers, the reason they are there, not sure I ever want to go back.

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By *heTattooedDomMan
3 days ago

Winnersh

I’ve had them knock on the door 15 minutes before closing before, not had the lights turned off.

I will say, closes at 2am means you need to be dressed and out of the door by 2am.

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By *iss DevilWoman
3 days ago

Bedford

I tend not to stay to the very last minute in clubs, but on occasions when I did stay late, staff did come knocking on doors and going through open play areas, with a warning that the club closes soon. And I have absolutely no problem with that, I respect the fact that they need to work within their licensed (and insured) hours, and that staff would like to go home on time, too. I get it, a lot of the time it seems that the connections happen at the last minute, but it's not the club's fault, that's just sod's law.

Therefore, OP, I'd suggest managing your time at a club better and showing some respect to staff working there.

You sound quite entitled in your post (apologies if that wasn't your intention) when you said you spent a lot at the bar - did you expect that would guarantee you "special treatment"? It's absolutely your choice, and your choice only, how much you spend there. Also, by saying you spent "a lot at the bar", I guess it was alcohol rather than soft drinks? Could that have skewed your perception of time and of how staff treated you?

Anyway, businesses (and swingers clubs are those) have to follow certain rules and regulations, they can't just stay open however long because their customers are having great time.

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By *octor ProdMan
3 days ago

Constantly Travelling With Work

Having friends who run bars with late licences, they are strict with closing times as 3 (their closing time), can easily become 3:30-3:45 if they don't start closedown at 2:30

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By *lyingsolo1000Woman
3 days ago

Reading

Closes at 2am means exactly that, not that you get to carry on what you are doing until 2am and then get ready to leave.

I’ve never encountered this issue at Ignite, the staff have knocked on the door with a warning of the time and that we need to finish. Yes, it can feel very jarring if you are interrupted and not able to finish but we should have done a better job of watching the time.

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By *roxhotwifecpl4funCouple
3 days ago

Herts

Think the issue is the advertised opening hours, if the license is to close at 2pm then perhaps changing the opening hours to say close at 1.45am may help.

Can understand the frustration at being interrupted during play but they can also handle it differently, no need to turn lights off ect.

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By *roxhotwifecpl4funCouple
3 days ago

Herts

Would also say don’t let it put you off Ignite as it’s a good club.

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By *ARD888Man
3 days ago

london

Who's going today ?

Going as a straight couple

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By *hyes2023Man
3 days ago

Walton

Possibly spent a bit too much at the bar if you cannot find your own socks in an enclosed space....lols!

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By *andKfun OP Couple
3 days ago

London

It wasn't being asked to leave that was the problem, it was the no five minute warning, just opened the door at 1.45 and told us to get out, then stood there watching us getting dressed. They switched the lights off and it was pitch black in that place. We were still out of club well before 2am.

Just didn't like how rude they were about it.

As for being entitled, gfy.

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By *iss DevilWoman
3 days ago

Bedford

As for being entitled, gfy. "

Lovely attitude!

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By *andKfun OP Couple
3 days ago

London

Have you read your message? I was just saying what happened, you're calling me entitled for thinking that we were treated badly, you weren't there, we are a friendly and easy going couple that get on with everyone, the least entitled people you'll meet but your reply just assumes we are a pair of piss heads that have no respect.

Other couples were in the room that thought the same as us.

So yes, gfy

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By *unguy0069Man
2 days ago

Reigate

"Have you read your message? I was just saying what happened, you're calling me entitled for thinking that we were treated badly, you weren't there, we are a friendly and easy going couple that get on with everyone, the least entitled people you'll meet but your reply just assumes we are a pair of piss heads that have no respect.

Other couples were in the room that thought the same as us.

So yes, gfy"

“We are a friendly and easy going couple that get on with everyone.”

“So yes, gfy.”

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By *host63Man
2 days ago

Bedfont Feltham

TBH clubs are overpriced overrated boring, and an exercise in utter pointlessness.

And was reminded of that today.

Full of people who are mediocre who think that being a couple or single female makes them special.

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By *host63Man
2 days ago

Bedfont Feltham

Said hello to a couple of ladies as I was leaving and complimented them all I got were sneers in reply.

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By *aciamiCouple
2 days ago

Hertfordshire

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By *aciamiCouple
2 days ago

Hertfordshire

"TBH clubs are overpriced overrated boring, and an exercise in utter pointlessness.

And was reminded of that today.

Full of people who are mediocre who think that being a couple or single female makes them special.

Do because two women sneered at you your opinion is that clubs are boring, pointless etc etc. not sure you’d be saying that if you got lucky!

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By *ain and sortedMan
2 days ago

Old Harlow Essex

I’ve never found a club visit or pointless

If you go with no expectation's and to have a good time no matter what happens a great escape from everyday life

What’s not to like

Met some really genuine nice people on my visits

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By *unguy0069Man
2 days ago

Reigate

"TBH clubs are overpriced overrated boring, and an exercise in utter pointlessness.

And was reminded of that today.

Full of people who are mediocre who think that being a couple or single female makes them special.

Couldn't disagree more.

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By *ucksguy2000Man
2 days ago

aylesbury

I visit a few clubs, Ignite being one. I go with absolutely no expectations, sometimes I get lucky.

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By *exy and HotCouple
2 days ago

St Albans

"TBH clubs are overpriced overrated boring, and an exercise in utter pointlessness.

And was reminded of that today.

Full of people who are mediocre who think that being a couple or single female makes them special.

I think this says a lot about you, rather than the clubs….

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By *octor ProdMan
2 days ago

Constantly Travelling With Work

"TBH clubs are overpriced overrated boring, and an exercise in utter pointlessness.

And was reminded of that today.

Full of people who are mediocre who think that being a couple or single female makes them special.

I have many amazing nights (socially as much as anything else) and met and made friends with so many great people. In 20 plus years of going to clubs, I could count on one hand the number of people I have encountered with an attitude or a sense of self importance.

Maybe its your attitude that is stopping you from enjoying peoples company and making new friends

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By *host63Man
2 days ago

Bedfont Feltham

"TBH clubs are overpriced overrated boring, and an exercise in utter pointlessness.

And was reminded of that today.

Full of people who are mediocre who think that being a couple or single female makes them special.

Do because two women sneered at you your opinion is that clubs are boring, pointless etc etc. not sure you’d be saying that if you got lucky!

I have been in trouble scene fir a while visited a fair few clubs it's always the same.

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By *exy and HotCouple
2 days ago

St Albans

"TBH clubs are overpriced overrated boring, and an exercise in utter pointlessness.

And was reminded of that today.

Full of people who are mediocre who think that being a couple or single female makes them special.

Do because two women sneered at you your opinion is that clubs are boring, pointless etc etc. not sure you’d be saying that if you got lucky!

I have been in trouble scene fir a while visited a fair few clubs it's always the same.

It’s best you don’t go to any clubs in the future as they obviously don’t suit you!

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By *host63Man
19 hours ago

Bedfont Feltham

"TBH clubs are overpriced overrated boring, and an exercise in utter pointlessness.

And was reminded of that today.

Full of people who are mediocre who think that being a couple or single female makes them special.

Do because two women sneered at you your opinion is that clubs are boring, pointless etc etc. not sure you’d be saying that if you got lucky!

You seem a bit triggered by my opinion which is only a point of view as valid as any other.

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By *host63Man
19 hours ago

Bedfont Feltham

"I visit a few clubs, Ignite being one. I go with absolutely no expectations, sometimes I get lucky. "

I also go with no expectations I have fund that compared to yeas ago the club scene and the lifestyle in general has become unfortunately changed and not for the better

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By *host63Man
19 hours ago

Bedfont Feltham

"TBH clubs are overpriced overrated boring, and an exercise in utter pointlessness.

And was reminded of that today.

Full of people who are mediocre who think that being a couple or single female makes them special.

Maybe its your attitude that is stopping you from enjoying peoples company and making new friends"

I went with no expectations and to socialise I found it very closed and not particularly friendly towards newcomers

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By *aciamiCouple
19 hours ago

Hertfordshire

"TBH clubs are overpriced overrated boring, and an exercise in utter pointlessness.

And was reminded of that today.

Full of people who are mediocre who think that being a couple or single female makes them special.

Do because two women sneered at you your opinion is that clubs are boring, pointless etc etc. not sure you’d be saying that if you got lucky!

You seem a bit triggered by my opinion which is only a point of view as valid as any other.

Triggered?

You sound very patronising, perhaps it was your ego that let you down.

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By *host63Man
14 hours ago

Bedfont Feltham

"Went there on Saturday, had a nice night, spent a lot at the bar, ended up in the couples room, having fun together, supposed to close at 2am, staff came in at 1.45 and told us to get out, no warning, just get out ,stood there and wouldn't give us any privacy, we had to disengage and try to find our clothes while they watched. Walking around the room, cock still hard and wet looking for my socks, never found them.

We made friends with another couple in there and while we were swapping names they told us now is not the time for making friends.

They are very thinnes skinned and have probably revoked your membership making up a load of stories as to why.

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By *p4fun60Couple
7 hours ago

Hampshire

"TBH clubs are overpriced overrated boring, and an exercise in utter pointlessness.

And was reminded of that today.

Full of people who are mediocre who think that being a couple or single female makes them special.

"TBH clubs are overpriced overrated boring, and an exercise in utter pointlessness.

And was reminded of that today.

Full of people who are mediocre who think that being a couple or single female makes them special.

Tbh with only 9 meets in 6 years according to your profile,I'd say it's you that's doing something wrong & not the club! I also take offence at you calling couples mediocre & entitled, whilst it's you that are showing an entitled attitude,not everyone is there to chat to or play with single guys - we often enjoy both group play & single guys as much as other couples, & I wouldn't consider ourselves either of your labels, you have to read the room, & not everyone is there just to endorse your fantasy but their own, just because people don't want to engage with you could be a number of reasons & their dynamics may just does not include or want the attentions of single men, we have been members of Ignite(formally Kestrels/Abfabs) for 3 years now & in that time we have visited circa 15 clubs at various locations & always rate Ignite as one of the best for both value for money & how friendly everyone is,I also noticed you'd been to a previous social where you were described as charming, such a shame that because you didn't meet any playmates that you have to reduce yourself to vicious comments that show you're anything but, someone else said that perhaps clubs arnt for you, perhaps they're right!

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By *andKfun OP Couple
7 hours ago

London

I think we've started something off here, I only started the thread to say the staff were rude.

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By *ain and sortedMan
6 hours ago

Old Harlow Essex

In the context of the op , I get that ! It’s odd as it’s seems we like fun more when we are not allowed to

Makes it’s more naughty

I’ve been to this club for many years

They have strict licensing regulations which at the end of a night don’t accommodate our own excitement

I agree knocking on a door , lights turned off , even worse putting on odd socks shocking haha joking !

Just knowing what to expect is key !

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