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VA bi night May 2nd

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By *hisky and Wine OP   Couple
14 weeks ago

the vicinity of Betelgeuse

Roll call for those attending VA’s bi night next Friday, May 2nd

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By *edsguyMan
14 weeks ago

south of Bedford

I'd love to go

I'll look at their website today

Rob

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By *angOnBunnyCouple
14 weeks ago

Ipswich

We'll be there

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By *hisky and Wine OP   Couple
14 weeks ago

the vicinity of Betelgeuse


"We'll be there"

Been waiting to meet you guys for ages

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By *ez1982Man
13 weeks ago

march

I’ll be there hopefully

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By *litterbabeWoman
13 weeks ago

hiding from cock pics

I'm intending to be there....

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By *angOnBunnyCouple
13 weeks ago

Ipswich


"We'll be there

Been waiting to meet you guys for ages "

Something came up at the weekend, we might have to miss, but will call it in the next day or 2.

Been wanting to meet you both too

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By *hisky and Wine OP   Couple
13 weeks ago

the vicinity of Betelgeuse


"We'll be there

Been waiting to meet you guys for ages

Something came up at the weekend, we might have to miss, but will call it in the next day or 2.

Been wanting to meet you both too"

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By *its and ArseCouple
13 weeks ago

Norfolk

We are hoping to attend Friday once our membership is approved x

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By *tanarrowsMan
13 weeks ago

peterborough

I am booked

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By *teed99Man
13 weeks ago

Kettering


"I am booked "

Always a pleasure to see you.

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By *einvented_guyMan
13 weeks ago

Peterborough (ish)

I’ll be attending on Friday, staying over as well

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By *ememberMan
13 weeks ago

St Neots

I'll be there

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By *nytime2023Couple
13 weeks ago

Gloucestershire

We are currently trying to get a sitter so we can attend, last month was awesome!

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By *ngelina042025Woman
13 weeks ago

London

We are looking forward to this bi night as we missed last month. Bi night is always a fun event xxx

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By *angOnBunnyCouple
13 weeks ago

Ipswich


"We'll be there

Been waiting to meet you guys for ages

Something came up at the weekend, we might have to miss, but will call it in the next day or 2.

Been wanting to meet you both too "

Right, all sorted and ticket booked. See you both there

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By *exywifeandtradesmanCouple
13 weeks ago

Camberley

We should be there hopefully!

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By *srsozeMan
13 weeks ago

Romford

In my best Michael Jackson voice … “Annie are you ok?”

I mean, “I’ll be thereeee!”

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By *endulum coupleCouple
13 weeks ago

bedfordshire

We will be attending x it’s always an amazing night with fantastic friendly playful people and electric atmosphere

Feel free to message us if you are going x

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By *aughtynoviceCouple
13 weeks ago

lincoln

We are going, getting excited already lol x

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By *hisky and Wine OP   Couple
13 weeks ago

the vicinity of Betelgeuse


"We are going, getting excited already lol x"

A mix of excitement and nervousness

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By *ememberMan
13 weeks ago

St Neots

We have 3 djs booked in providing the dance floor with sounds...

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By *eelee1234Man
13 weeks ago

Cambridge

I can’t believe it sold out again, missed last month, sold out and miss this month as well sold out

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By (user no longer on site)
13 weeks ago

We have tickets, club and hotel but due to reasons, can't use them. Been trying to contact them since Monday so they can resell or whatever, absolutely nothing from them. Was to be our 1st visit, gutted we aren't going but not over the moon at how impossible it is to get in touch.

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By *ememberMan
13 weeks ago

St Neots

Hi... can you DM me please and I'll get hold of the club for you.

The club policy does not usually allow refunds but let's get you in contact with them.

James x

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By (user no longer on site)
13 weeks ago


"Hi... can you DM me please and I'll get hold of the club for you.

The club policy does not usually allow refunds but let's get you in contact with them.

James x"

will do, understand there's no refunds, seems a waste of a hotel room when it's sold out. Honestly, I've emailed twice, called, and sent a text to the number the answer machine gives you.

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By *ememberMan
13 weeks ago

St Neots

The event is only sold out for single men....

We keep the ratio to circa 30% single men..to ensure the atmosphere that this event has remains.

Couples ,single women and trans can still book if they are members.

See you all tonight .

James x

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By *c73Man
13 weeks ago

LONDON

This is a BI even and i find really annoyed that Men can no take part and have limit number

I was agreed to meet up with mix of people male and female but my attend is been refuse

I no call this even a BI night but a Cpl and Female party with limited for men

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By *ememberMan
13 weeks ago

St Neots


"This is a BI even and i find really annoyed that Men can no take part and have limit number

I was agreed to meet up with mix of people male and female but my attend is been refuse

I no call this even a BI night but a Cpl and Female party with limited for men

"

Hi..

Thank you for your message — I do understand your frustration. Traditional bi events have often been more male-heavy, and those still exist for those who prefer that dynamic. However, we’ve seen a real shift with younger generations embracing a more fluid and inclusive approach. Our aim is to reflect that, creating a balanced space that welcomes couples, single women, trans individuals, and a limited number of single men — and recently, we’ve actually seen a growing number of single women attending, which is really encouraging.

The quota for single men is simply in place to maintain that balance and ensure a welcoming environment for everyone. That said, we truly value feedback like yours and always keep these conversations in mind as we evolve.

James x

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By *its and ArseCouple
13 weeks ago

Norfolk

We are all booked and ready to party. 🎉 booked into the premier inn if anyone wants to share a taxi.

Looking forward to fun and sexy bi frolics….

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By *angOnBunnyCouple
13 weeks ago

Ipswich


"This is a BI even and i find really annoyed that Men can no take part and have limit number

I was agreed to meet up with mix of people male and female but my attend is been refuse

I no call this even a BI night but a Cpl and Female party with limited for men

Hi..

Thank you for your message — I do understand your frustration. Traditional bi events have often been more male-heavy, and those still exist for those who prefer that dynamic. However, we’ve seen a real shift with younger generations embracing a more fluid and inclusive approach. Our aim is to reflect that, creating a balanced space that welcomes couples, single women, trans individuals, and a limited number of single men — and recently, we’ve actually seen a growing number of single women attending, which is really encouraging.

The quota for single men is simply in place to maintain that balance and ensure a welcoming environment for everyone. That said, we truly value feedback like yours and always keep these conversations in mind as we evolve.

James x "

Great post. We find the ratio balance just about right. Single males outweigh single females, but that is beginning to narrow. It's a tough balance to get as too many men and the vibe changes. For a bi night it's really good to get the mix right for everyone to have fun, embrace inclusivity, and MUCH more importantly have a big pile of bodies where everyone is comfortable playing with a mix of all genders.

On that note, better pack the bag for later tonight

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By *eelee1234Man
13 weeks ago

Cambridge

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By *eelee1234Man
13 weeks ago

Cambridge

Booked for tonight. Looking forward to it.

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By *ememberMan
13 weeks ago

St Neots


"This is a BI even and i find really annoyed that Men can no take part and have limit number

I was agreed to meet up with mix of people male and female but my attend is been refuse

I no call this even a BI night but a Cpl and Female party with limited for men

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A bit like what you are seeking in your profile women and couples only no men.....lol..

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By *its and ArseCouple
13 weeks ago

Norfolk

Well what a night that was!!!! Sorry if we didn’t get chance to chat will some of you , we will be back.

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By *ngelina042025Woman
13 weeks ago

London

What a great night xx

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By *eelee1234Man
13 weeks ago

Cambridge

What a great night

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