FabSwingers.com forum: CJs newbies

By (user no longer on site) OP
21 weeks ago

Looking to possibly meet people who have/haven't been to Cjs. I've always wanted to go but don't think id be comfortable going myself 😂 anyone fancies a chat pop me a message xx

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By *he Boy of WonderMan
21 weeks ago

Glasgow

Book in, check the forums for the pre-drinks then go along and youl make new pals.

It’s worth taking the plunge buddy

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By (user no longer on site) OP
21 weeks ago

That what you did your first time ? 😂

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By *he Boy of WonderMan
21 weeks ago

Glasgow

"That what you did your first time ? 😂"

Almost, what I did not do was be snide to people that were being nice to me though.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
21 weeks ago

The 😂 was me showing how nervous I am not at u mate thanks for the advice tho top man

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By *r Costa xxMan
21 weeks ago

stirling

Once you get through the door it’s no different to walking in to a bar, make the effort to approach others and you’ll be fine, people only bite upstairs

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By *okesandsmilesCouple
21 weeks ago

durnham

If you do plan a Cjs event keep in mind to book in advance as singles guys can be booked up quick,

But yeah if you go along introduce yourself as the new guy it can be hard the intial push going but it’s so worth it once start making connections also keep an eye out for social events and pop along to them it’s way to also meet some people before you go to a club

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By *inky-girl-for-useWoman
21 weeks ago

Ayrshire/glasgow

I’d also add that going to an organised social is a great way to meet people before a visit to a club! Look into any local ones and go along! These are always advertised on the forum and means you’re likely to know a few people by the time you get to a club

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By (user no longer on site)
21 weeks ago

"Looking to possibly meet people who have/haven't been to Cjs. I've always wanted to go but don't think id be comfortable going myself 😂 anyone fancies a chat pop me a message xx "

First thing to remember, it's nothing like in the porn films. Can be hit n miss. Easier for couples but it's not for everyone. I've been twice with an ex years ago, it's not my bag.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
20 weeks ago

Thank you all for the feed back it's really helped me xx I'll try a social event first but if there's a f or mf couple that messages me I'd probs be more comfortable if that makes sense 😅

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By *he Boy of WonderMan
20 weeks ago

Glasgow

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By *art-timers24Couple
20 weeks ago

Ayrshire

Can i just jump on and ask which hotels are near to cjs? Booked on to go there on the 8th info welcome as 1st timers x

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By *itkat_and_cutCouple
20 weeks ago

Edinburgh

"Can i just jump on and ask which hotels are near to cjs? Booked on to go there on the 8th info welcome as 1st timers x"

We just stayed in the city centre when we went - it's just a five minute taxi away from CJs so anywhere central you should be fine.

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By *askedcouple37Couple
20 weeks ago

Inverclyde

"Can i just jump on and ask which hotels are near to cjs? Booked on to go there on the 8th info welcome as 1st timers x"

Most people will stay in any of the hotels around the area the double tree by Hinton is. Plenty too choose from around there and a quick taxi back or a 10/15 min walk.

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By *art-timers24Couple
20 weeks ago

Ayrshire

Thankyou both, with it being our 1st time attending we dont know where it is 😂 appreciate all feedback x

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By *achelSmith_7TV/TS
20 weeks ago

Ayrshire

Definitely go for it, very welcoming place and once you’re through the door it’s just like any normal bar downstairs

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By *art-timers24Couple
20 weeks ago

Ayrshire

Thankyou, extremely nervous but excited

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By *iharikaZenaTV/TS
14 weeks ago

Glasgow

Lucky to be in Cjs yesterday. They have the options to dressup and makeup there itself. Welcoming people...

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