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By *annyandwalter OP   Couple
13 weeks ago

south London

We've just become members and think we want to go VA's bi night. The reviews are great, but for anyone who's been, what's the man/woman ratio? We've been to another bi night somewhere else, and it was a bit too guy heavy for us. Just want an honest assessment, as we're not local so we'll make a weekend of it. Otherwise I'm keen on the western night!!!

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By *hatsWhatCoupleCouple
13 weeks ago

Northampton

Borrowed text from the club chat :

“Bi Nights are a wonderful celebration of our diverse and inclusive community. We do not discriminate—everyone is welcome. I believe this is what sets us apart from other Bi events, which tend to be more male-heavy and often require attendees to identify as bisexual. While those events have their place, that is not the approach we take at VA.

Our event typically attracts around 150 to 250 people, with approximately 75% being couples (both straight and bi)”

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By *ara DosCouple
12 weeks ago

Here, There, Everywhere

This event has a great following and it’s smashing it every month

Might just attend the next one and see what we’re missing

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

They are usually very careful to get the ratio correct.

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

I have never noticed it to be guy heavy at all

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By *C79Man
12 weeks ago

Caterham

I'll be popping my VA cherry on March 7th's bi night. Excited to finally attend after far too much procrastination.

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

The bi nights are legendary. We are planning to go to April’s bi night and March’s milf clubs. We would thoroughly recommend you go. The staff are always friendly, professional and fun with all the guests not matter what gender, size or shape you are. All are welcome. Such a vast range of bi members that attend. Play is always happening and is sexy to watch and to join in xx

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago


"Borrowed text from the club chat :

“Bi Nights are a wonderful celebration of our diverse and inclusive community. We do not discriminate—everyone is welcome. I believe this is what sets us apart from other Bi events, which tend to be more male-heavy and often require attendees to identify as bisexual. While those events have their place, that is not the approach we take at VA.

Our event typically attracts around 150 to 250 people, with approximately 75% being couples (both straight and bi)”"

We can confirm this is true for sure xx

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By *teveanddebsCouple
12 weeks ago

Norwich


"Borrowed text from the club chat :

“Bi Nights are a wonderful celebration of our diverse and inclusive community. We do not discriminate—everyone is welcome. I believe this is what sets us apart from other Bi events, which tend to be more male-heavy and often require attendees to identify as bisexual. While those events have their place, that is not the approach we take at VA.

Our event typically attracts around 150 to 250 people, with approximately 75% being couples (both straight and bi)”

We can confirm this is true for sure xx"

What they said

We've been about 3 times now, maybe 4, and had a great night each time.

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By *ememberMan
12 weeks ago

St Neots


"Borrowed text from the club chat :

“Bi Nights are a wonderful celebration of our diverse and inclusive community. We do not discriminate—everyone is welcome. I believe this is what sets us apart from other Bi events, which tend to be more male-heavy and often require attendees to identify as bisexual. While those events have their place, that is not the approach we take at VA.

Our event typically attracts around 150 to 250 people, with approximately 75% being couples (both straight and bi)”"

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By *igG86Man
12 weeks ago

Buckden

It is usually a good mix of females, guys, and couples, I think slightly heavy on couples, but there is always a good friendly group attending. Is anyone getting a drink beforehand at the premier inn?

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By *BaileyxTV/TS
12 weeks ago

St Neots

See you there!

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By *igG86Man
12 weeks ago

Buckden


"See you there!"

Look forward to seeing you there

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By *annyandwalter OP   Couple
12 weeks ago

south London

Just booked for the early May bi night, hotel n'all. Bonk holiday weekend! Say hi if yr going

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By *sabellaMaxCouple
11 weeks ago

Between the Shires

Booked our tickets for Friday. Very excited for our first visit to VA. We’ve heard great things about this club and it’s been on our list for a very long time.

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By *lirty05Couple
11 weeks ago

Great yarmouth and surrounding

We will be there x can’t wait to party x

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By *ara DosCouple
11 weeks ago

Here, There, Everywhere

Not long now

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By *s.Scarlett-MWoman
11 weeks ago

East Anglia (She/Her)

Will be there , joining a wing man for the night xx

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By *etite_delightWoman
11 weeks ago

BunnyLand

I’ll be there as always

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By *achelnMarkCouple
11 weeks ago

Mid Wiltshire

Whats the current membership position at VA?

We've been going previously for years probably from when they opened; FoF a couple of times, and to many of Spicys bi nights - but not since she left there probably since covid time!

But never been given a membership card or details?

Quick look at website says £20 a year to join but I'm sure we had a life membership as we've never had to pay yearly before.

As its miles away we would only visit once maybe twice a year.

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By *ememberMan
11 weeks ago

St Neots


"Whats the current membership position at VA?

We've been going previously for years probably from when they opened; FoF a couple of times, and to many of Spicys bi nights - but not since she left there probably since covid time!

But never been given a membership card or details?

Quick look at website says £20 a year to join but I'm sure we had a life membership as we've never had to pay yearly before.

As its miles away we would only visit once maybe twice a year."

Hi yes...all memberships are annual now so previous memberships will have ended.

The Bi event is a members only party.

Hope that helps x

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By *achelnMarkCouple
11 weeks ago

Mid Wiltshire


"Whats the current membership position at VA?

We've been going previously for years probably from when they opened; FoF a couple of times, and to many of Spicys bi nights - but not since she left there probably since covid time!

But never been given a membership card or details?

Quick look at website says £20 a year to join but I'm sure we had a life membership as we've never had to pay yearly before.

As its miles away we would only visit once maybe twice a year.

Hi yes...all memberships are annual now so previous memberships will have ended.

The Bi event is a members only party.

Hope that helps x

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Shame - when did that change?

Bit of a pain and expense for irregular visitors

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By *ememberMan
11 weeks ago

St Neots

Think it was last year.

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By *ememberMan
11 weeks ago

St Neots


"Think it was last year.

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I believe the club does hold non-member events fairly regularly each month . However, the Bi event is strictly for members only.

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By *achelnMarkCouple
11 weeks ago

Mid Wiltshire


"Think it was last year.

I believe the club does hold non-member events fairly regularly each month . However, the Bi event is strictly for members only.

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We only go to bi nights

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By *c73Man
11 weeks ago

LONDON

Driving from London wembley to VA for the BI night on friday if anyone need a lift

See you there Lovely people x

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By *igD little sheCouple
11 weeks ago

Everywhere

We will be there and staying over too

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By *evilish-DiabloMan
11 weeks ago

Essex Land Of The White Stilettos

I’ll be there with a wingwoman and we’re looking forward to some serious sexy mingling Xx

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By *srsozeMan
11 weeks ago

Romford

Looking forward to another fun-filled night on Friday.

I’m glad I got over the nerves I had about heading there by myself. I’ve been a handful of times now and everyone I’ve met has always been really friendly.

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By *acky RacersCouple
11 weeks ago

Lincoln

Can't make this one as hosting on Saturday night....But will be back in April.

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By *ara DosCouple
11 weeks ago

Here, There, Everywhere

Not long now … you lovely lot

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By *illyBiBeardMan
11 weeks ago

Durham

My partner is a 23yr old bi female, and we both want to try VA Bi night next month.

Is she ok with her age, as we have found some places ask for 25 and over.

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By *teed99Man
11 weeks ago

Kettering


"My partner is a 23yr old bi female, and we both want to try VA Bi night next month.

Is she ok with her age, as we have found some places ask for 25 and over."

At The Vanilla Alternative, members have to be over 21 so she will be fine.

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By *s.Scarlett-MWoman
11 weeks ago

East Anglia (She/Her)

Looking forward to catching up with some old friends, and making some new ones.

See you all soon x

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago

We changed our minds. We are coming to bi night tonight xx

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By *ara DosCouple
11 weeks ago

Here, There, Everywhere

We had a great night ….. we’d forgotten how much fun they are at Bi-Night last

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By *illyBiBeardMan
11 weeks ago

Durham


"My partner is a 23yr old bi female, and we both want to try VA Bi night next month.

Is she ok with her age, as we have found some places ask for 25 and over.

At The Vanilla Alternative, members have to be over 21 so she will be fine."

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago

We are glad we changed our minds and showed up. What a great event last Friday was. Jules and Chris know how to run a club, very classy owners xx

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