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"Is Vanilla Alternative a dress down venue? " No. x. | |||
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"Is Vanilla Alternative a dress down venue? No. x." Thank you x | |||
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"Is Vanilla Alternative a dress down venue? " I've been going there for years, most ladies arrive (or change into) in sexy dresses and as the night goes on they go change into lingerie, but there are no events there where you have to be fully dressed down. Quite a people use the hot tub and end up stating in their towels but it's their choice, rather than a club rule. I feel more attractive in clothes or lingerie and I'm not really as much into the fully dressed down clubs. | |||
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"Is Vanilla Alternative a dress down venue? I've been going there for years, most ladies arrive (or change into) in sexy dresses and as the night goes on they go change into lingerie, but there are no events there where you have to be fully dressed down. Quite a people use the hot tub and end up stating in their towels but it's their choice, rather than a club rule. I feel more attractive in clothes or lingerie and I'm not really as much into the fully dressed down clubs." Thank you it’s more for my hubby as he doesn’t play he just likes to watch me have fun and he says he’d feel uncomfortable being dressed down x | |||
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"Is Vanilla Alternative a dress down venue? I've been going there for years, most ladies arrive (or change into) in sexy dresses and as the night goes on they go change into lingerie, but there are no events there where you have to be fully dressed down. Quite a people use the hot tub and end up stating in their towels but it's their choice, rather than a club rule. I feel more attractive in clothes or lingerie and I'm not really as much into the fully dressed down clubs. Thank you it’s more for my hubby as he doesn’t play he just likes to watch me have fun and he says he’d feel uncomfortable being dressed down x" If he were to go into the playrooms he would need to be dressed down x | |||
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"Is Vanilla Alternative a dress down venue? I've been going there for years, most ladies arrive (or change into) in sexy dresses and as the night goes on they go change into lingerie, but there are no events there where you have to be fully dressed down. Quite a people use the hot tub and end up stating in their towels but it's their choice, rather than a club rule. I feel more attractive in clothes or lingerie and I'm not really as much into the fully dressed down clubs. Thank you it’s more for my hubby as he doesn’t play he just likes to watch me have fun and he says he’d feel uncomfortable being dressed down x If he were to go into the playrooms he would need to be dressed down x" Oh really? That’s disappointing I thought we’d found another club we could attend | |||
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"Is Vanilla Alternative a dress down venue? I've been going there for years, most ladies arrive (or change into) in sexy dresses and as the night goes on they go change into lingerie, but there are no events there where you have to be fully dressed down. Quite a people use the hot tub and end up stating in their towels but it's their choice, rather than a club rule. I feel more attractive in clothes or lingerie and I'm not really as much into the fully dressed down clubs. Thank you it’s more for my hubby as he doesn’t play he just likes to watch me have fun and he says he’d feel uncomfortable being dressed down x If he were to go into the playrooms he would need to be dressed down x Oh really? That’s disappointing I thought we’d found another club we could attend " Guys need to be in underwear or a towel in the 2 big playrooms, There are play areas in the dungeon that you do not need to dress down in. There is a video tour (I think) on the website. | |||
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"Is Vanilla Alternative a dress down venue? I've been going there for years, most ladies arrive (or change into) in sexy dresses and as the night goes on they go change into lingerie, but there are no events there where you have to be fully dressed down. Quite a people use the hot tub and end up stating in their towels but it's their choice, rather than a club rule. I feel more attractive in clothes or lingerie and I'm not really as much into the fully dressed down clubs. Thank you it’s more for my hubby as he doesn’t play he just likes to watch me have fun and he says he’d feel uncomfortable being dressed down x If he were to go into the playrooms he would need to be dressed down x Oh really? That’s disappointing I thought we’d found another club we could attend Guys need to be in underwear or a towel in the 2 big playrooms, There are play areas in the dungeon that you do not need to dress down in. There is a video tour (I think) on the website. " Ok good to know thank you xx | |||
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"Is Vanilla Alternative a dress down venue? I've been going there for years, most ladies arrive (or change into) in sexy dresses and as the night goes on they go change into lingerie, but there are no events there where you have to be fully dressed down. Quite a people use the hot tub and end up stating in their towels but it's their choice, rather than a club rule. I feel more attractive in clothes or lingerie and I'm not really as much into the fully dressed down clubs. Thank you it’s more for my hubby as he doesn’t play he just likes to watch me have fun and he says he’d feel uncomfortable being dressed down x If he were to go into the playrooms he would need to be dressed down x Oh really? That’s disappointing I thought we’d found another club we could attend " He would be fine in the bar its just the 2 large playrooms. | |||
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"Is Vanilla Alternative a dress down venue? I've been going there for years, most ladies arrive (or change into) in sexy dresses and as the night goes on they go change into lingerie, but there are no events there where you have to be fully dressed down. Quite a people use the hot tub and end up stating in their towels but it's their choice, rather than a club rule. I feel more attractive in clothes or lingerie and I'm not really as much into the fully dressed down clubs. Thank you it’s more for my hubby as he doesn’t play he just likes to watch me have fun and he says he’d feel uncomfortable being dressed down x If he were to go into the playrooms he would need to be dressed down x Oh really? That’s disappointing I thought we’d found another club we could attend He would be fine in the bar its just the 2 large playrooms. " Thank you I’ve never played without him there so we would have to have a conversation obviously to see what we are both comfortable with ![]() | |||
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"Is Vanilla Alternative a dress down venue? I've been going there for years, most ladies arrive (or change into) in sexy dresses and as the night goes on they go change into lingerie, but there are no events there where you have to be fully dressed down. Quite a people use the hot tub and end up stating in their towels but it's their choice, rather than a club rule. I feel more attractive in clothes or lingerie and I'm not really as much into the fully dressed down clubs. Thank you it’s more for my hubby as he doesn’t play he just likes to watch me have fun and he says he’d feel uncomfortable being dressed down x If he were to go into the playrooms he would need to be dressed down x Oh really? That’s disappointing I thought we’d found another club we could attend He would be fine in the bar its just the 2 large playrooms. Thank you I’ve never played without him there so we would have to have a conversation obviously to see what we are both comfortable with ![]() My partner and I have the same dynamic, but have been to VA a number of times and we’ve been able to make it work. For the two main rooms it’s dress down only, but fully dressed people can stand in the doorway and watch, so it depends if your husband doesn’t mind watching from a little bit of a distance. | |||
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"Is Vanilla Alternative a dress down venue? I've been going there for years, most ladies arrive (or change into) in sexy dresses and as the night goes on they go change into lingerie, but there are no events there where you have to be fully dressed down. Quite a people use the hot tub and end up stating in their towels but it's their choice, rather than a club rule. I feel more attractive in clothes or lingerie and I'm not really as much into the fully dressed down clubs. Thank you it’s more for my hubby as he doesn’t play he just likes to watch me have fun and he says he’d feel uncomfortable being dressed down x If he were to go into the playrooms he would need to be dressed down x Oh really? That’s disappointing I thought we’d found another club we could attend He would be fine in the bar its just the 2 large playrooms. Thank you I’ve never played without him there so we would have to have a conversation obviously to see what we are both comfortable with ![]() oh really? That’s good to know thanks. Yeah he’s fine watching from a distance ![]() | |||
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"I have been invited to this event but it's likely to be the next one. Does anyome have the fab profile the host told me to message her at WWW @ VA yesterday " Was it the event one? https://m.fabswingers.com/profile/onyxva | |||
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"I have been invited to this event but it's likely to be the next one. Does anyome have the fab profile the host told me to message her at WWW @ VA yesterday Was it the event one? https://m.fabswingers.com/profile/onyxva" Thats the one thanks lovely ![]() | |||
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"I'd love to go but I've got nobody to go with" Mrs N here. Don't sweat it lovely. I'm going on my own too. A couple other ladies too. Honestly, you'll be fine. | |||
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"My partner and I are staying at the VA. Is the Premier Inn the hotel with the mini bus service to the VA? x" Yes , hoping so 🤞 xx | |||
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"I'd love to go but I've got nobody to go with" I'm going on my own, many people go on their own. It's very friendly. If you ask the staff when you arrive someone will show you around, it's a lovely venue | |||
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"Just curious but do you get many women of colour & white guys at those events ?" I've been to similar events before, like Team Players and BMFC. In my opinion you do get some ladies of colour and some white gentlemen. The white gents are mostly in couples, accompanying their ladies and enjoying the hot wife scene or cuckold and enjoy seeing their lady pleasured. | |||
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"We would like to go. We've applied through the VA web site (last Saturday) but not had a reply. Can anyone help?" I’ve just posted the event page for you to contact them | |||
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" I’ve just posted the event page for you to contact them " Thanks guys, think we are getting somewhere! | |||
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" Looking like it’s going to be a fun night " mm It sure will be 😉 | |||
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"Was thinking about coming to this event with my mate but we are a bit apprehensive it’s only going to be good if your a black guy can anybody confirm this for me btw im not being racist I was was just wondering." Hi, Whilst these sort of events are clearly geared primarily towards ladies/couples who want to meet and play with black guys we've always found them to be very inclusive. Been to a number where there are single white guys in attendance and they've always joined in the fun 😁. Having a sneaky look at your pics I think you'd do OK for yourself, we'd certainly be happy to chat 😉 | |||
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"Staying in colmworth who else is getting the shuttle bus ? " We are | |||
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"Its fridddaaaayyyyy! See you on the dance floor. Please say hi if you are going. " Most certainly I will! Nothing wrong withva little Bump n Grind! | |||
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"Was a really cool event. So well run. Is there a date set for next one? " As mentioned above, 16th May | |||
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"The next one is only a month away!" Will the event be posted in the forum? I haven't tried VA yet but have heard great things x | |||
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"The next one is only a month away! Will the event be posted in the forum? I haven't tried VA yet but have heard great things x" https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/clubs/1691699 That's a link to the next one. I believe the Onyx parties are open to VA members and nonmembers. | |||
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