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By *hornyx69 OP   Man
2 weeks ago

Nottingham

Hi all I’m going to visit a club for the first time on Thursday.I’m going with a open mind knowing that i might not get to play with anyone.But obviously I’m going to be hard and horny my question is as I’m going to be horny and if i don’t get to play can I watch couples fucking and wank while they are at it

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By *iss DevilWoman
2 weeks ago

Bedford

If people are playing in open areas, they want to be watched. But that actually does mean watched, with your eyes, not your hands, unless you get permission to join. Yes, you can wank, normally, but please be a bit further than 5mm away from the lady, particularly her face.

Try chatting to people and behave as if you were in a slightly more naughty pub. Choose one area of the club and stay there, rather than doing zoomies around the club so don't miss out on any slither of action. There are better places to put your steps in.

If you are talking to people, please put your cock away.

Just be a normal, friendly guy rather than a sex starved creature who has never seen a woman before.

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By *ingerie DreamerMan
2 weeks ago

telford


"If people are playing in open areas, they want to be watched. But that actually does mean watched, with your eyes, not your hands, unless you get permission to join. Yes, you can wank, normally, but please be a bit further than 5mm away from the lady, particularly her face.

Try chatting to people and behave as if you were in a slightly more naughty pub. Choose one area of the club and stay there, rather than doing zoomies around the club so don't miss out on any slither of action. There are better places to put your steps in.

If you are talking to people, please put your cock away.

Just be a normal, friendly guy rather than a sex starved creature who has never seen a woman before. "

What great advice. Thanks for posting xxx

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By *hornyx69 OP   Man
2 weeks ago

Nottingham


"If people are playing in open areas, they want to be watched. But that actually does mean watched, with your eyes, not your hands, unless you get permission to join. Yes, you can wank, normally, but please be a bit further than 5mm away from the lady, particularly her face.

Try chatting to people and behave as if you were in a slightly more naughty pub. Choose one area of the club and stay there, rather than doing zoomies around the club so don't miss out on any slither of action. There are better places to put your steps in.

If you are talking to people, please put your cock away.

Just be a normal, friendly guy rather than a sex starved creature who has never seen a woman before. "

Thanks for the advice I wasn’t planning on just walking around playing with my cock

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Central

You don't have to wank publicly, just because you are turned on. Sometimes it can get oppressive, as often large volumes of men assemble

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By *JohnMan
2 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne


"Yes, you can wank, normally, but please be a bit further than 5mm away from the lady, particularly her face."

One extra point I've heard from a number of women: as well as keeping a respectful distance, stay where she can see you. It can be offputting to know that someone's in the room, but not know where they are or what they're doing. Help people feel feel safe

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By (user no longer on site)
2 weeks ago

Ask first if it’s okay to watch.

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By *etWetWet453Couple
2 weeks ago

CAMBERLEY

"Yes, you can wank, normally, but please be a bit further than 5mm away from the lady, particularly her face."

AND the bloke`s.

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By *iss DevilWoman
2 weeks ago

Bedford


""Yes, you can wank, normally, but please be a bit further than 5mm away from the lady, particularly her face."

AND the bloke`s."

Lol, almost as if my partner wrote it! Lol. But yes, respectable distance is needed.

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By *iss DevilWoman
2 weeks ago

Bedford


"If people are playing in open areas, they want to be watched. But that actually does mean watched, with your eyes, not your hands, unless you get permission to join. Yes, you can wank, normally, but please be a bit further than 5mm away from the lady, particularly her face.

Try chatting to people and behave as if you were in a slightly more naughty pub. Choose one area of the club and stay there, rather than doing zoomies around the club so don't miss out on any slither of action. There are better places to put your steps in.

If you are talking to people, please put your cock away.

Just be a normal, friendly guy rather than a sex starved creature who has never seen a woman before.

Thanks for the advice I wasn’t planning on just walking around playing with my cock "

You'd be surprised how many men seem to think that's how you get noticed in a club...

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By *etWetWet453Couple
2 weeks ago

CAMBERLEY

You'd be surprised how many men seem to think that's how you get noticed in a club...

Oh no, they get noticed all right, but for all the wrong reasons.

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By *octor ProdMan
2 weeks ago

working Overseas

Talk to people as you would do in a pub, make new friends and that MAY lead to you being invited to play.

If you don't get asked to join someone, then you will have had a good evening and mades some friends.

Save the wanking for home

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By *tter-quattroCouple
2 weeks ago

Taunton


""Yes, you can wank, normally, but please be a bit further than 5mm away from the lady, particularly her face."

AND the bloke`s."

We were playing upstairs in one of the rooms at Liberty Elite once and some bloke who had been following us around that evening appeared next to us with cock in hand and started zombie wanking.

He was so close I could smell his cock.

The stink was somewhat off putting!

Politely asked him to back off but he didn’t.

In the end we had to stop playing and I had to aggressively tell him to f@ck off or else which thankfully he did and he left the room.

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
2 weeks ago

Coventry


""Yes, you can wank, normally, but please be a bit further than 5mm away from the lady, particularly her face."

AND the bloke`s."

Yes one of our first times in a club and Mrs Misfit was giving me a blow job in a public area. I was sat on a bench and Mrs Misfit was on her knees. Within less than a minute we had a three guys surround her with their cocks out wanking. Which was totally not a problem. However I was a aware of something in very close proximity to my face out the corner of my eye. Naturally I turned my head to see and some guy nearly had my eye out with his cock. I exchanged some firm words with him to give me some space ffs

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