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), very much looking forward to the delightful mixture of relaxing spa time, and showing off to an audience, that Chams offers | |||
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"I am looking to go for the first time this Thursday. Will I be allowed to join and enter with sufficient identification or is there a waiting list for single males?" Probably best to give the club a ring just to check before you travel there. They are closed today, Tuesday, but open from 2pm tomorrow | |||
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"I tried it out as a single guy last week. You can go as a guest for the admission fee plus an extra £20. This is a great idea as it lets you see the place before deciding whether to join as a full member. I would strongly advise this because even though the staff were very friendly I found the place not particularly welcoming for single guys. Couples sitting drinking and chatting and if they did play it was behind locked doors and then there is the extortionate membership fee for men but free for everyone else. I am sure it is a great place for couples but not somewhere I will be going back to as a single guy." Just to point out that it isn't free membership for couples We haven't been on a Thursday yet but we would like to try it at some point | |||
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"I tried it out as a single guy last week. You can go as a guest for the admission fee plus an extra £20. This is a great idea as it lets you see the place before deciding whether to join as a full member. I would strongly advise this because even though the staff were very friendly I found the place not particularly welcoming for single guys. Couples sitting drinking and chatting and if they did play it was behind locked doors and then there is the extortionate membership fee for men but free for everyone else. I am sure it is a great place for couples but not somewhere I will be going back to as a single guy." Don't take it as a single guy thing. We go to lots of clubs as a couple and that doesn't mean it's always a great night for swapping or playing. Even as a couple finding a compatible couple isn't always straight forward. We find that in most clubs people play behind closed doors. We do like to be watched so we tend to find areas where we can do this. So at Chams, for example, we go the rooms with the glass ceilings, the cinema etc. But people will do whatever they feel comfortable with. Our advice would be to never go with any expectations. We've been to a naked night before and will definitely try to go back when we can. | |||
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"Sorry so it it still with a towel? Or completely nothing? " You can carry your towel around with you, but you can't keep it wrapped around yourself. I always have mine with me as I like to use it if I'm going to sit or lie down anywhere, but I either hold it or drape it over my arm when I'm walking about. | |||
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"Sorry so it it still with a towel? Or completely nothing? " Someone correct me if I'm wrong but I believe ladies can wear stockings, high heels, waist chains... | |||
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"Sorry so it it still with a towel? Or completely nothing? Someone correct me if I'm wrong but I believe ladies can wear stockings, high heels, waist chains..." So shoes I suppose, ok, not everyone is happy barefoot, I understand that logic. But if someone wants to wear stockings and waist chains, etc, why would they go on naked night? It always baffles me on the (thankfully rare) occasion I see people arguing with staff about such-and-such not counting etc. It's NAKED NIGHT. The clue is in the name. Staff are very clear on arrival (before you pay!) that it's naked night from 6pm. 🤷🏻♀️ | |||
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"Sorry so it it still with a towel? Or completely nothing? Someone correct me if I'm wrong but I believe ladies can wear stockings, high heels, waist chains... So shoes I suppose, ok, not everyone is happy barefoot, I understand that logic. But if someone wants to wear stockings and waist chains, etc, why would they go on naked night? It always baffles me on the (thankfully rare) occasion I see people arguing with staff about such-and-such not counting etc. It's NAKED NIGHT. The clue is in the name. Staff are very clear on arrival (before you pay!) that it's naked night from 6pm. 🤷🏻♀️" We'll have to ask Mark (head of Chams Naked Night police squad) to adjudicate on the matter | |||
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"Thursday 27th Who’s going to naked night?" I'll be going | |||
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"Thursday 27th Who’s going to naked night?" I'm going this week, as are a few friends | |||
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"Oho, Thursday is here, very much looking forward to floating about in the nude later this evening, relaxing and generally having a good time "That's such a great thought! Have fun hope to see you there when we next manage to go (working on it!) | |||
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"We've never been midweek/naked night, is it worth the trip up?" I suppose it depends what is "worth it" to you? For me, the facilities and the staff (and the other customers tbh) make this an appealing place for me to go. Whether it's quiet or busy, or in between, doesn't matter, I always have a good time there 🤷🏻♀️ | |||
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"I spoke to Mark (head of the nude night police) about this a couple of weeks ago and his view was that ladies can indeed wear stockings and heels...I for one wouldn't complain but I can understand some of the concerns raised above..." I think that is reasonable. I wouldn’t have a problem if a lady wanted to wear stockings and heels. | |||
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"Are there a number of couples and ladies that go to this? We wouldn't want to be the only ones..." I'm a semi-regular attendee, and always see multiple couples there. Single women less so, but I go solo, others do too, just not in the same numbers as men 🤷🏻♀️ | |||
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"Who can I tempt to go this week? I'm heading down on Thursday (10th) after work, the weather is looking nice, wish I could go earlier! I will definitely have to have some time later this year where I book an afternoon off work and get out on that sundeck for some serious relaxation time. " We were on the sundeck on Friday, was just about ok. But looking to get there for a nude day. May be one day in May should be a lot warmer. Got a few Thursdays off work. So may see you there. | |||
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"Thinking of suggesting nude night to my partner so I can get naked. But she needs to wear the bottom half of a bikini on account of her disability (she has done this at a nudist resort) - would this be acceptable?" Suggest you call the club - always best to call - in my experience the staff and the guests try equally to be inclusive | |||
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"Who can I tempt to go this week? I'm heading down on Thursday (10th) after work, the weather is looking nice, wish I could go earlier! I will definitely have to have some time later this year where I book an afternoon off work and get out on that sundeck for some serious relaxation time. " Last visit there were some brave souls - the sun drops and so do temperatures | |||
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"Who can I tempt to go this week? I'm heading down on Thursday (10th) after work, the weather is looking nice, wish I could go earlier! I will definitely have to have some time later this year where I book an afternoon off work and get out on that sundeck for some serious relaxation time. " i’m going on 17th | |||
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"I'm heading there tomorrow to celebrate Easter in the buff. This has been very quiet so will I be on my own?" May give it a punt | |||
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"I'm heading there tomorrow to celebrate Easter in the buff. This has been very quiet so will I be on my own?" Don’t think you will be on your own it’s been busy the last few times we have been. | |||
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"I should be there this week (24th), hoping to see it a little busier than it has been the last few times "Whoops spoke too soon! Unfortunately I can't make it now, will have to try again in a fortnight | |||
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"Naked Scrabble tournament Amy? "There shall be a game occurring! | |||
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"This thread is a place for all things naked night at Chameleons. (following on from the previous thread: https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/clubs/1612345 ) Naked night is every Thursday at Chams in Darlaston. You need to be a member to attend the club. Open to couples and singles. Club open 11am - midnight on Thursdays. Nudity allowed at any time, but is compulsory from 6pm." Aww damnit, we are going Wednesday…… | |||
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"Who won the scrabble? There next Thursday? Will it be a busy one?" Burning-Bright won last night! I won't be there next week but I'm sure others will be. Thursday is sometimes quite quiet (hence me running this thread to encourage people to try it) but the atmosphere is always good regardless of number of people. | |||
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"We tend to go on a monday (or a saturday), and we're keen to try a thursday now. But we're wondering what the etiquette is regarding wandering hands and petting/stroking in the main areas of the club, before any play is invited ? Since everyone is naked, is such a thing 'allowed' more, than, say, a 'regular' evening where people are wearing towels and lingerie ? Thanks !" Play is allowed everywhere at Chams, I've seen people fuck on top of the actual bar. So touch each other however and wherever you like! I'm not sure if that answers your question, I can interpret it a couple of different ways. Please ask clarifying questions if I've misunderstood. 😊 | |||
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" Play is allowed everywhere at Chams, I've seen people fuck on top of the actual bar. So touch each other however and wherever you like! I'm not sure if that answers your question, I can interpret it a couple of different ways. Please ask clarifying questions if I've misunderstood. 😊 " .... Thanks ! So we know that everyone is entitled to give a polite "No thankyou" at any time and on any night. We were just wondering if this is a little more 'relaxed' on a Naked Night simply because it's a Naked Night (!). If, in chatting to someone, a hand was stroked lightly over their body, has a line been crossed, or is that encouraged more, or is it, as always, down to the individual and their reaction ? On an 'average' thursday night, is there more 'touching' like this than there would be on the other nights ? We don't want to upset or offend anyone if touching is still left to the playrooms or once playing has started ! Does that make sense ?? LOL ! | |||
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" Play is allowed everywhere at Chams, I've seen people fuck on top of the actual bar. So touch each other however and wherever you like! I'm not sure if that answers your question, I can interpret it a couple of different ways. Please ask clarifying questions if I've misunderstood. 😊 .... Thanks ! So we know that everyone is entitled to give a polite "No thankyou" at any time and on any night. We were just wondering if this is a little more 'relaxed' on a Naked Night simply because it's a Naked Night (!). If, in chatting to someone, a hand was stroked lightly over their body, has a line been crossed, or is that encouraged more, or is it, as always, down to the individual and their reaction ? On an 'average' thursday night, is there more 'touching' like this than there would be on the other nights ? We don't want to upset or offend anyone if touching is still left to the playrooms or once playing has started ! Does that make sense ?? LOL !" Just because it’s naked night doesn’t mean things change and you can just sit next to people and just touch without asking first same has every other club or any other night. Yes it’s a swingers club but you still have to respect other members. Some people probably won’t mind other with take it the other way and say something or more your hand away. The rules in the club should be followed and it does saying ask before touching. Hope this helps. | |||
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" Play is allowed everywhere at Chams, I've seen people fuck on top of the actual bar. So touch each other however and wherever you like! I'm not sure if that answers your question, I can interpret it a couple of different ways. Please ask clarifying questions if I've misunderstood. 😊 .... Thanks ! So we know that everyone is entitled to give a polite "No thankyou" at any time and on any night. We were just wondering if this is a little more 'relaxed' on a Naked Night simply because it's a Naked Night (!). If, in chatting to someone, a hand was stroked lightly over their body, has a line been crossed, or is that encouraged more, or is it, as always, down to the individual and their reaction ? On an 'average' thursday night, is there more 'touching' like this than there would be on the other nights ? We don't want to upset or offend anyone if touching is still left to the playrooms or once playing has started ! Does that make sense ?? LOL !" Gosh, no. As mentioned by another poster, a requirement for consent still applies. Don't touch people without their consent, regardless of what they're wearing or what day of the week it is. If you go around stroking random people, expect to get kicked out by staff. 😬 | |||
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"We are heading back to Chams on August 21st/22nd. I noticed from the web site that the Thursday is "naked night", hence heading here to ask a question.... The Chams web site says "6pm – midnight, nude night, strictly no towels or clothing, starts 7th September" Does this mean as it says, that it won't be Naked night on our visit, given its obviously before 7th September ? What is the significance of 7th September ? " Thursdays are naked nights; so it will be on the date you attend (we may go to this one depending on the weather). I think the Sept 7 is misleading as it possibly relates to last year; when the new naked nights recommenced (but stand to be corrected). It's a great night and we wish we could attend them more often. Have fun! | |||
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"Thank you. I am not sure we have the body confidence to go to a naked night...we'll see nearer the time how we feel and maybe just go on one night (Friday) instead of both. Thanks again for the reply." There's all shapes and sizes that attend naked night. It's a really calm, chilled, accepting space. It's a very freeing experience! | |||
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"Sure, no problem. We're both 60+ grandma and dad bod types! It really is the most non judgmental event. But go with how you feel but we're sure you'd be just fine." I am 60+ with a well worn body but I am not bothered (nor is anyone else)on how I appear it is what it is and I will be going on thursday | |||
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" What is the significance of 7th September ? " ....Yes, 7th Sept was when they changed their weekly format a year or two ago. Naked Night used to be a tuesday. Then they opted to close on a tuesday for full maintenance, and 6-12 months later they then resumed Naked Night on thursdays. | |||
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"spoiled by 1 man, everyone knows who it is " That's very unfortunate. I'm not aware of this. Have you reported him to the management? | |||
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