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By *pswich97 OP   Man
1 week ago

Ipswich

Can anyone help me or advise me on how to get into clubs or parties? All very confusing and overwhelming. Happy to travel

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By *iss KinkWoman
1 week ago

North West

Have a look at the clubs review page see which club takes your fancy then which events. You can find a list of events in the event thread also

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By *pswich97 OP   Man
1 week ago

Ipswich

I’ve looked through them, I was meaning more someone to come along so I’m not just there alone

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By *iss KinkWoman
1 week ago

North West

That’s the difficult part most won’t go to a club with someone they don’t know well

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By *allySlinkyWoman
1 week ago

Leeds

Even with a partner or someone you know very well, there needs to be a discussion of mutually agreed "rules of play" before going to a club together

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By *eavenscentitCouple
1 week ago

barnstaple

I went alone and met a lovely sexy new man a couple of months ago. Ms

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By *ccasionallyNaughtyWoman
1 week ago

Sussex


"I’ve looked through them, I was meaning more someone to come along so I’m not just there alone "

As a club-going single woman, I get asked this at least 10x a week - why would I want to spend my evening out babysitting someone I don't know and might not like, and acting like a tour guide? Why would I want to have a guy hanging around and potentially getting in the way of me enjoying the company of other men? And nine times out of ten, the guy will expect to play with his +1 (regardless of all the promises before hand that he won't!) and someone you don't like or fancy pestering for a shag is a guaranteed way to ensure the party isn't fun.

I'm quite happy to pay my own entry and get myself to a club, and certainly wouldn't take anyone asa+1 with me that I don't know and trust. After all, if my +1 acted like a dick in the club, it reflects badly on me and jeopardises my membership if we attended as a "couple".

OP, if you can't walk into what essentially is a bar/pub (all clubs have a social area), buy a drink, and chat to people.... then perhaps clubs aren't for you....

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By *hatsWhatCoupleCouple
1 week ago

Northampton

As above really.

Tip - always consider and state what you bring to the LS not what you can take out of it .

There’s a couple of options for clubs in your vicinity. Check out their websites, register your interest (most clubs will have a waiting list for single guys). When the time comes, pay your membership and get a date in the diary.

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By *iss DevilWoman
1 week ago

Bedford


"I’ve looked through them, I was meaning more someone to come along so I’m not just there alone

As a club-going single woman, I get asked this at least 10x a week - why would I want to spend my evening out babysitting someone I don't know and might not like, and acting like a tour guide? Why would I want to have a guy hanging around and potentially getting in the way of me enjoying the company of other men? And nine times out of ten, the guy will expect to play with his +1 (regardless of all the promises before hand that he won't!) and someone you don't like or fancy pestering for a shag is a guaranteed way to ensure the party isn't fun.

I'm quite happy to pay my own entry and get myself to a club, and certainly wouldn't take anyone asa+1 with me that I don't know and trust. After all, if my +1 acted like a dick in the club, it reflects badly on me and jeopardises my membership if we attended as a "couple".

OP, if you can't walk into what essentially is a bar/pub (all clubs have a social area), buy a drink, and chat to people.... then perhaps clubs aren't for you...."

Very much this! I learned my lesson, took a guy to a club (I thought I knew him quite well, and he assured me he did go to a club before), and he lost it there. So no more taking "newbies" with me.

Put your big boy's pants on, OP, and just go. What's the worst that can happen?

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