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"That would be Xtasia then as Chameleons is dress down. Chams was our first club experience and remains our favourite...it is such an inclusive club with all beautiful shapes and sizes on display and absolutely no judgent, but we do realise how daunting that dress down can seem. Honestly we all have our hangups about the way we look, but genuinely no one cares...bring a sexy attitude and get to know your fellow swingers and most importantly you are in control of what (if anything) happens. Hope this helps, FFx " As above poster says. Chams is very dress down where as Xtasia is more of a casual dress code. Go have fun, regardless of your shape and size. | |||
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"Just a bit puzzled here with terminology - what do we mean by the term 'dress down'? Does it mean a) not make an effort eg jeans and trainers or b) wear hot and exotic lingerie or c) wear nothing at all, i.e get naked as soon as possible? " You come in dressed however you choose to, and then it's straight into the changing room. Towels are provided, and you can wear a towel or underwear/lingerie. I tend to go for lingerie, usually some sort of babydoll outfit. If you wish, you can walk around naked, and Thursdays after 6pm are Naked Thursdays at Chams. | |||
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"Just a bit puzzled here with terminology - what do we mean by the term 'dress down'? Does it mean a) not make an effort eg jeans and trainers or b) wear hot and exotic lingerie or c) wear nothing at all, i.e get naked as soon as possible? You come in dressed however you choose to, and then it's straight into the changing room. Towels are provided, and you can wear a towel or underwear/lingerie. I tend to go for lingerie, usually some sort of babydoll outfit. If you wish, you can walk around naked, and Thursdays after 6pm are Naked Thursdays at Chams. " This. Leaves guys with the option of towel, boxers or naked. Xtasia is the opposite. Smart casual/dress to impress and you can strip as and when you want, from lingerie to towels to naked. 🤷♂️ Gives you the freedom to only undress when you want to and are comfortable. Some like it, some don't. Some moan that they're walking around in lingerie whilst others are fully clothed. But I like it as it gives choice, rather than everyone being forced to strip from the off. I've always found on mixed nights that if there's going to be any negative behaviour it happens more when everyone is stripped rather than clothed. As for all the comments about being followed and guys randomly wanking? I've found that stopping dead and saying loudly so anyone around can hear 'can you stop following us please/do you mind not tossing off around us' works wonders. Causes a fair bit of embarrassment and usually a rapid exit from those involved. | |||
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