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By *londemilfnextdoor OP   Couple
5 weeks ago

howden

So we’ve only been on here two months now but we are wanting to visit a club for the first time but we have no idea how it all works. What do we wear, do we need to be a member, what’s the etiquette whilst in there please can somebody give us a heads up on what to expect. I’d imagine it will either be Leeds or hull we visit. Thanks in advance for any help

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By *ichardHereMan
5 weeks ago

London


"So we’ve only been on here two months now but we are wanting to visit a club for the first time but we have no idea how it all works. What do we wear, do we need to be a member, what’s the etiquette whilst in there please can somebody give us a heads up on what to expect. I’d imagine it will either be Leeds or hull we visit. Thanks in advance for any help "

I've been to clubs a couple of times as a single guy. Most couples just sit around talking to each other and let the single guys approach them. I've never seen a couple approach a single guy before.

Usually the woman of the couple will wear a dress and the man will wear a dress shirt. Sex/play makes up only a very small portion of the night, and often people will go without it. You'll spend most of your time talking.

If you're looking only for other couples then you can attend couple only nights, otherwise you can regular nights. You can usually find tips/advice for newbies on the website for the club you are visiting.

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By *ememberMan
5 weeks ago

St Neots


"So we’ve only been on here two months now but we are wanting to visit a club for the first time but we have no idea how it all works. What do we wear, do we need to be a member, what’s the etiquette whilst in there please can somebody give us a heads up on what to expect. I’d imagine it will either be Leeds or hull we visit. Thanks in advance for any help "

Many people travel far to find the right club.

Club VA (vanilla alternative)near Bedford is probably the best club to go to for a first time.

Etiquette is no means no.

Come on a Saturday.

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By *otCouple3891Couple
5 weeks ago

Manchester

Hi. Liberty Elite is in the midlands and they have hotel rooms so if you want a couple of drinks you can stay over.

We’re going there tomorrow night.

Very clean and great staff.

You can dress for a night out (or a little daring if you like to tease) and the bar area is a no play safe zone. Just socialising.

On your first visit you will be given a tour and everything will be explained.

Choose an event that suits what you are looking for….. do you want couples to swap, or single men/women?

We go with the outlook that it’s a sexy date night for us.

If we meet people to play it’s a bonus.

Feel free to DM if you’d like to chat x

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By *ure_and_InnocentWoman
5 weeks ago

Knaresborough


"So we’ve only been on here two months now but we are wanting to visit a club for the first time but we have no idea how it all works. What do we wear, do we need to be a member, what’s the etiquette whilst in there please can somebody give us a heads up on what to expect. I’d imagine it will either be Leeds or hull we visit. Thanks in advance for any help "

I would try Quest in Leeds, it’s not too big and everyone is super friendly so not as overwhelming. Non members on Tues if you want to try before committing x

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By *ixieDKWoman
5 weeks ago

RYDE


"So we’ve only been on here two months now but we are wanting to visit a club for the first time but we have no idea how it all works. What do we wear, do we need to be a member, what’s the etiquette whilst in there please can somebody give us a heads up on what to expect. I’d imagine it will either be Leeds or hull we visit. Thanks in advance for any help "

Whichever club you decide to try, it's a good idea to contact them first and ask the same questions that you've asked us. Although most clubs follow roughly the same rules and guidelines, each one has its own, and are best placed to tell you what's what.

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