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By *ickandlucy OP   Couple
6 weeks ago

Gloucester

My wife and I have been to a couple of Friday nights at Xtasia which have been great. The single men make our dynamic of me showing her off and her getting attention from random men work perfectly.

We are soon to attend a couples evening and I’m wondering if the attention levels will be similar or less due to the fact that I don’t swap.

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By *kinkycpleCouple
6 weeks ago

Birmingham

It can be tricky. If we get chatting to a couple we will always drop in our dynamic early on just so there is no misunderstanding or confusion.

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By *ickandlucy OP   Couple
6 weeks ago

Gloucester


"It can be tricky. If we get chatting to a couple we will always drop in our dynamic early on just so there is no misunderstanding or confusion. "

Greta advice. Thank you. Do you find a drop off in interactions at a couples event compared to single men

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By *harAndBryCouple
6 weeks ago

Peterborough / Stamford

We're a cuckold/HotWife couple and we now don't go to couples/single female only events and we simply don't have any luck. We have to have a good number of single guys.

Same as Fab really....soon as most couples find that Bry doesn't do one-to-one play with women, they don't want to know.

(Char)

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By *ink and inkedCouple
6 weeks ago

Essex

Same as us

Hot wife couple here where me (Mr) doesn’t want to full swap with another female but likes to see Mrs with guys and girls

Mrs will tell you that she wants the ladies more but it’s incredibly hard to find one with in a couple or a single that’s happy with that dynamic

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By *ickandlucy OP   Couple
5 weeks ago

Gloucester

Thanks for the feedback guys. I have the feeling that the upcoming couples night won’t be as much fun as previous nights but I’m sure we’ll have some fun anyway as I still enjoy wandering round with her looking sexy and her outfit for this one is amazing. I think we all share a similar dynamic which is good to know I’m not the only man who feels like I do. Thanks for the comfort.

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By *ink vixenCouple
5 weeks ago

Medway

We’ve never enjoyed couples only nights and the few we have attended felt very cliquey.

Maybe it was just us but in our vanilla life we have a wide range of friends and social engagements so I don’t think so.

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By *ickandlucy OP   Couple
5 weeks ago

Gloucester


"We’ve never enjoyed couples only nights and the few we have attended felt very cliquey.

Maybe it was just us but in our vanilla life we have a wide range of friends and social engagements so I don’t think so. "

We found couples nights very similar at the first club we went to. This club we’ve only been to nights open to single men too and have had a great time. Fingers crossed for Saturday

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By *riendlyFunSeekersCouple
5 weeks ago

Gloucester

I find this thread fascinating. If the wife and I liked the look of the lady in question we would so be up for enjoying her whilst her hubby showed her off

Am I missing something on the dynamics?

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By *ickandlucy OP   Couple
5 weeks ago

Gloucester


"I find this thread fascinating. If the wife and I liked the look of the lady in question we would so be up for enjoying her whilst her hubby showed her off

Am I missing something on the dynamics?"

I think the usual dynamic of couples swapping involves all four participating but our particular dynamic is me the male staying passive and watching her be admired and hit on. We are new and therefor wife isn’t sure if she would want to play with the man let alone the woman. We’re taking Tiny steps and testing the waters and getting advice as we go

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By *riendlyFunSeekersCouple
5 weeks ago

Gloucester

Well for us we would love that dynamic. Would be fun even with small steps.

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By *ee And MikeCouple
5 weeks ago

Cannock

When we have visited clubs in the past I’m normally wearing my cock cage, which to be honest is a good conversation starter. Couples will either chat to us if they want to play or they won’t.

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By *ovelyLady21Couple
5 weeks ago

Bury St Edmunds

We have a very similar dynamic to others here, with MrsLL being happy to full swap with boys and girls whilst Mr is soft play only.

This does make it difficult when speaking with couples and we've never had all that much success arranging anything outside of a club. We usually attend mixed club nights as single guys are much easier to match up with.

The few successful sessions we've had with couples have always evolved organically, usually by just the two of us playing together on an open bed. If other couples are doing the same then hands will wander (after a nod or tip of the head to ensure that all are happy) and play progresses. We've never full swapped in this scenario,just some mutually enjoyable soft play between the 4, or more, participants.

It's great when it happens, but is pretty rare in our experience.

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By *ickandlucy OP   Couple
5 weeks ago

Gloucester


"When we have visited clubs in the past I’m normally wearing my cock cage, which to be honest is a good conversation starter. Couples will either chat to us if they want to play or they won’t.

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I like this idea. I had considered it as it should convey the situation to the other couple.

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By *ickandlucy OP   Couple
5 weeks ago

Gloucester


"We have a very similar dynamic to others here, with MrsLL being happy to full swap with boys and girls whilst Mr is soft play only.

This does make it difficult when speaking with couples and we've never had all that much success arranging anything outside of a club. We usually attend mixed club nights as single guys are much easier to match up with.

The few successful sessions we've had with couples have always evolved organically, usually by just the two of us playing together on an open bed. If other couples are doing the same then hands will wander (after a nod or tip of the head to ensure that all are happy) and play progresses. We've never full swapped in this scenario,just some mutually enjoyable soft play between the 4, or more, participants.

It's great when it happens, but is pretty rare in our experience."

I think nights with single men are gonna be the way to go for us.

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By *ickandlucy OP   Couple
5 weeks ago

Gloucester


"Well for us we would love that dynamic. Would be fun even with small steps."

We’ll have to see how we go at the Christmas party but I think we’ll be sticking to Fridays in the future 😂

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