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By *lbethere OP   Man
4 weeks ago

Manchester

I’m looking or a couple or a single fem so I can break my club virginity. I’m Al a clean, easy going and respectful WE male (8”). I’m nervous about going and ‘nearly’ went a lot. I from Manchester so probably best on the far outskirts. I wouldn’t know where to start how to dress/not dress which club on and on, help!!!

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By *iss DevilWoman
4 weeks ago

Bedford

There is loads of posts on forum about clubs for first timers. The consensus is, grow a pair and go on your own. Some clubs have chat pages on their app of choice where you can get to know people who are going to a particular event so that could be helpful.

How to choose a club? Have a look at "club reviews" section of the forum, choose the area you're interested in and look at the clubs in that area. Check each club's website for their events, prices (membership plus entry on the day) and requirements for single men. Each club will also have a section on their website dedicated to dress code and etiquette.

I'd suggest contacting your chosen club beforehand rather than just turning up on the day without having your membership sorted as you might be turned away if they already have enough men in or if it's the "couples and single ladies only" event.

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By *lbethere OP   Man
4 weeks ago

Manchester


"There is loads of posts on forum about clubs for first timers. The consensus is, grow a pair and go on your own. Some clubs have chat pages on their app of choice where you can get to know people who are going to a particular event so that could be helpful.

How to choose a club? Have a look at "club reviews" section of the forum, choose the area you're interested in and look at the clubs in that area. Check each club's website for their events, prices (membership plus entry on the day) and requirements for single men. Each club will also have a section on their website dedicated to dress code and etiquette.

I'd suggest contacting your chosen club beforehand rather than just turning up on the day without having your membership sorted as you might be turned away if they already have enough men in or if it's the "couples and single ladies only" event. "

Thanks for the advice, the chat pages look a good idea

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By *oiluvfunMan
4 weeks ago

Penrith


"I’m looking or a couple or a single fem so I can break my club virginity. I’m Al a clean, easy going and respectful WE male (8”). I’m nervous about going and ‘nearly’ went a lot. I from Manchester so probably best on the far outskirts. I wouldn’t know where to start how to dress/not dress which club on and on, help!!!"

Get yourself over to No.3 club in Chorley. It is by far, the most friendly club in the NW I visited as a solo male, and easily the best for a total newbie. Mary, Sian and Ged will make you feel welcome and ease any first time nerves.

As for what to wear; smart casual as if you were going to a ‘nice’ pub or bar, with a new pair of boxers for dress down.

Honestly mate, clubs aren’t ‘all that’……you’re more likely to wonder what the fuss is all about once you’ve been to one, and ffs, don’t imagine it will be full of single women……

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By *lbethere OP   Man
4 weeks ago

Manchester


"I’m looking or a couple or a single fem so I can break my club virginity. I’m Al a clean, easy going and respectful WE male (8”). I’m nervous about going and ‘nearly’ went a lot. I from Manchester so probably best on the far outskirts. I wouldn’t know where to start how to dress/not dress which club on and on, help!!!

Get yourself over to No.3 club in Chorley. It is by far, the most friendly club in the NW I visited as a solo male, and easily the best for a total newbie. Mary, Sian and Ged will make you feel welcome and ease any first time nerves.

As for what to wear; smart casual as if you were going to a ‘nice’ pub or bar, with a new pair of boxers for dress down.

Honestly mate, clubs aren’t ‘all that’……you’re more likely to wonder what the fuss is all about once you’ve been to one, and ffs, don’t imagine it will be full of single women…… "

Great info cheers, I know they’re not full of single women, but like on here most of them aren’t what they say they are on here 🤥, not really what I’m looking any way unless they’re freaky 😂 I could just go town 😂

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By *oiluvfunMan
4 weeks ago

Penrith


"I’m looking or a couple or a single fem so I can break my club virginity. I’m Al a clean, easy going and respectful WE male (8”). I’m nervous about going and ‘nearly’ went a lot. I from Manchester so probably best on the far outskirts. I wouldn’t know where to start how to dress/not dress which club on and on, help!!!

Get yourself over to No.3 club in Chorley. It is by far, the most friendly club in the NW I visited as a solo male, and easily the best for a total newbie. Mary, Sian and Ged will make you feel welcome and ease any first time nerves.

As for what to wear; smart casual as if you were going to a ‘nice’ pub or bar, with a new pair of boxers for dress down.

Honestly mate, clubs aren’t ‘all that’……you’re more likely to wonder what the fuss is all about once you’ve been to one, and ffs, don’t imagine it will be full of single women……

Great info cheers, I know they’re not full of single women, but like on here most of them aren’t what they say they are on here 🤥, not really what I’m looking any way unless they’re freaky 😂 I could just go town 😂"

The swinger clubs CAN be fun, don’t get me wrong, but if you’re looking to meet women, your local Wetherspoons will always be a better bet, and free entry for all!

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By *randMrsLPCouple
4 weeks ago

london

I've never been to club on my own but always with mrs but this was years ago. We visited Eurkeas over 27 years ago and once in east london - we went weekdays mornings Mondays IIRC as quiet kids at school - men were intesrested 24/7

We first tried nudist beach several times and guys joing us talking and a bit more

So go on a quiet day but when we went during the week, the majority were men and various ages

Mark the owner I think was a true gent, sadly passed on years ago and i only found out as we were thinking of going again and rang and asked for him

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