FabSwingers.com forum: Club F as a single guy

Chester-le-Street

Hey, I'm considering visiting Club F in the North East (specifically for it's Tease Tuesday daytime event to get a taster) and wondered if anyone has any advice or experiences to share as to what it is like for single, straight males who are looking to play with couples? I don't have any mates who are in a position to join me so the prospect of attending alone is pretty daunting, so anything to ease the mind would be appreciated. This can also go for clubs in general and not just Club F. Cheers

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By *uriousExplorer40 OP Man
7 days ago

Chester-le-Street

Anyone?

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By *igpacketMan
7 days ago

east midlands

Visited a club for the first time a few months back. Went on a Friday day time event at the annex in kings Lynn.

I woke up got ready and just went without trying to over think whats going to happen.

Everyone was friendly and got chatting to a few of the couples. Followed everyone upstairs from the bar and got invited to join in with a couple of women.

Was a great afternoon. Advice is just go for it. Ticked a lot of bucket list items off that day

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By *arla SwingerWoman
6 days ago

Somewhere

Just pop along and see what you think OP. Chances are the tease Tues will probably be more solo blokes, and a few single women. But you don't have to be a member, and it'll give you a feel for the club, and if it interests you or not.

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By *ocialWatchingMan
6 days ago

Alnwick / Newcastle

Not yet ventured to Club F yet, but going as a solo male there's nothing wrong with that, it's nice to make friends to meet when you visit next time.

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By *neeyedwillieMan
6 days ago

Darlington

I'm a club f regular.

Friday nights will be what you're looking for. That's singles night (though couples attend).

Saturdays is couples night and it's limited on the amount of guys who can attend (sometimes a guest list). To be honest I usually do Saturdays with my wife as it's more couples seeking couples on a Saturday. If I do go on my own but I do it socially on a Saturday (unless I have a meet planned). One of the main playrooms is also off limits to singles on Saturdays.

You're gonna have nights where there are way more single guys than anything else so don't go with expectations.

But if your social, strike up conversations, chat with people etc it's a good laugh and can be a lot of fun. If you're more the type who sits and waits for people to come to you... you may not get very far.

Couldnt tell you about tease Tuesdays but it's as good a way to start as any and won't be as busy as a Friday night.

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By *oiluvfunMan
6 days ago

Penrith

"Hey, I'm considering visiting Club F in the North East (specifically for it's Tease Tuesday daytime event to get a taster) and wondered if anyone has any advice or experiences to share as to what it is like for single, straight males who are looking to play with couples? I don't have any mates who are in a position to join me so the prospect of attending alone is pretty daunting, so anything to ease the mind would be appreciated. This can also go for clubs in general and not just Club F. Cheers"

Visiting any swinger club as a single guy is a daunting prospect; you pay the most money to be the least wanted demographic in there….

I’ve been to Club f 6 times as a single guy over the years, and found it to be pretty much the same as the other clubs I’ve visited (8 in total btw); if you can find someone who wants to chat with a single guy, you’ll enjoy the clubs experience.

I’ve not been to a Tease Tuesday daytime event, but as was mentioned earlier, it is likely to be less busy than a nighttime event, but not having to fork out for a membership fee means you can have a good look around the place, get a feel for the scene etc, without being punished financially. The downside is though; I did similar in a well known NW club, and because it wasn’t busy, it gave me time to look more closely than I would have if it had been a busy night, and put me off returning to the place! Think walking around Blackpool sober, in the daylight, and you’ll get an idea of what I mean lol….

Based on my own experiences of the two NE clubs, I found Club Shhh in Newcastle far more friendly and welcoming as a newbie single guy. They do a similar daytime event ‘Walk in Wednesday’, so try each club. Good luck

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By *elkieWoman
6 days ago

Durham

I’m a regular at both north east clubs. Tease Tuesday tends to have a lot more play going on than walk in Wednesdays and in particular, has a lot of greedy girls play. We find there’s a lot more social on Wednesdays - but as DoILuvFun points out, it’s worth going to both to get a feel for them, especially if you’re free during daytimes or looking to get comfortable for evenings.

I’m at the next TT with two of my partners, one of whom is also new to clubs, so you’ll not be the only newbie.

One thing I would point out:

Do not assume that any woman is uninterested in getting to know you better because she appears to be accompanied by a man, especially at a daytime event. For every couple who only play together, there is both a couple who play separately AND a single woman visiting a club with a friend, and until you talk to them; you don’t know.

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By *uriousExplorer40 OP Man
6 days ago

Chester-le-Street

Some good advice here thanks folks. I was hoping to go along in Dec but looks like work as conspired against me and I don't think I'll be able to now. Will try in the new year.

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