FabSwingers.com forum: First time to swingers club

By *igrobbo OP Man
7 days ago

Sunderland

Q:- dose anyone actually go to any swingers club by them selfs ?

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By *mmaleiaWoman
7 days ago

East Northamptonshire

Yep, I’ve been to 2 by myself, 1 was friendly, the other not so much. The night is what you make of it, just chat to as many people as you can, rarely do they approach you 1st.

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By *exy4youxxWoman
7 days ago

Pontefract

Yes i go alone too nothing to worry about safest place for a single lady alone it's just like going to the pub but it's friendly

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By *igrobbo OP Man
7 days ago

Sunderland

My problem is that I am very nervous and believe it or not I am actually quite shy at first and very self conscious over my appearance.

I just think if I did go alone that everyone would be staring and judging me and stuff. Specially with it been my first time to a club

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By *lan157Man
7 days ago

a village near Haywards Heath in East Sussex

"My problem is that I am very nervous and believe it or not I am actually quite shy at first and very self conscious over my appearance.

I just think if I did go alone that everyone would be staring and judging me and stuff. Specially with it been my first time to a club "

My advice given what you have said about yourself is to go to organised swinger socials in your area first and meet women and couples socially. Once you get to meet someone in time you can ask to go along to clubs with them as a couple or as a group.

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By *atinaChica54Woman
7 days ago

Marlborough

Yes. Always go on my own & only ever had positive experiences. Just find everyone is so much friendlier, likely to chat etc than in other social settings

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By *cottish guy 555Man
7 days ago

London

Don't overthink it. Just go.

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By *idcot58Man
7 days ago

Chepstow

I have been to chameleons in darlaston had sum fun there

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By *i_guy37Man
7 days ago

Oxford

"My problem is that I am very nervous and believe it or not I am actually quite shy at first and very self conscious over my appearance.

I just think if I did go alone that everyone would be staring and judging me and stuff. Specially with it been my first time to a club "

Going to a club on your own is always a bit nerve racking but you just need to put your big boy pants on and take the plunge. There'll be people of all ages and body types so there's no need to feel self conscious. Just be polite, respectful and open to conversation, and you should enjoy it. Some clubs will help you out and introduce you to people if you say it's your first time.

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By *eavenscentitCouple
7 days ago

barnstaple

Yes, I started going alone about 5 weeks ago, it felt safe and friendly.

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By *ymbunny79Woman
7 days ago

sheerness

I arguably prefer going to clubs alone that with a partner so would definitely recommend it

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By *oiluvfunMan
5 days ago

Penrith

"Q:- dose anyone actually go to any swingers club by them selfs ?

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Get yourself over to Shhh in Newcastle. I found them to be the most friendly of the two clubs in the NE, as far as visiting as a solo guy.

All clubs as a single guy are hard work, but you only need to get chatting with one person to enjoy your visit, so smile at anyone who looks in your direction, and read body language as to whether they would welcome an approach from you

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