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"Did you go mate? "I didn't Mr Fun. I wasn't confident that it was going to be a good night. Are you going to any events? You know my issue, you've seen my thread. You know what I'm looking for. Do you want to share info about clubs from our perspectives? We're looking for the same thing. | |||
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"Did you go mate?
I didn't Mr Fun. I wasn't confident that it was going to be a good night. Are you going to any events? You know my issue, you've seen my thread. You know what I'm looking for.
Do you want to share info about clubs from our perspectives? We're looking for the same thing.
"I’m very happy to share my genuine experiences of being a single guy in the clubs I have been to, honestly and without bias, unlike most who wax lyrical about certain clubs in the NW…….  | |||
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"If I go to one, we can share feedback. If you go to one, you can share the feedback. So far, Sauna Sauna is the best, however the woman numbers are extremely low. I'm thinking of going to that venue on a woman-centric night, providing that the cost is reasonable." I have an entry fee ceiling limit of £50. I’m not tight, the cost isn’t that much of an issue, as money can be replaced, whereas an evening wasted is time out of your life you’ll never get back, so is far more precious… “Woman centric” is a great term! It certainly would make a refreshing change to visit a club one time, and see more single ladies milling around inside, than there were in the Wetherspoons down the road, where you had your supper beforehand…. | |||
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"I do hope to go to GGs at some point. I'll try them all out! Let's see what happens! It seems good." I wish other guys networked more! All I’ve had to go on so far, are the club reviews section in here, which mostly contains reviews from guys looking for veris, rather than an unbiased review of their club’s experience….  | |||
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"I do hope to go to GGs at some point. I'll try them all out! Let's see what happens! It seems good. I wish other guys networked more! All I’ve had to go on so far, are the club reviews section in here, which mostly contains reviews from guys looking for veris, rather than an unbiased review of their club’s experience…. "I know it sounds rude, but "networking" doesn't strike me as something that a lot of fab guys would be interested in. If I look at my local area, most guys are seeking their first verification, most have dick pics as profile picture. I've checked a few profiles out to see what the score is. Majority of them haven't even attempted to communicate anything other than two facts; 1. They have a penis and 2. They'd like it serviced. At clubs, most guys I've seen don't make any attempt to talk (not that I'm saying it's easy to break into social circles). For most guys I see on here, the social side of it is almost void. Regarding the club reviews, I've noticed that men won't be honest when reviewing clubs for fear of upsetting a woman. In reality though, yes, I've been a loner in a club, yes I've had my fair share of knock-backs, and yes I've had successes - it's not all roses. Regarding the clubs, they're ofcourse businesses. The goal is not to give men the best fucks of their lives - the goal is to make money. Let's face it, are the women paying enough in fees to cover rent? Absolutely not. There are not enough, and those that attend are subsided. Men want sexual activity and they're prepared to pay hefty sums for the chance of it happening. These guys are financing clubs in my opinion - couples after that. The facts are there. People can argue all they want, but the industry needs more women. | |||
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"Searched GGs and your post came at top - I am going to try GGs soon, had been to Townhouse in wirral, Attic and Atalantis in Stoke on Trent - best was Townhouse, especially dark room play ans Clusterfuck - they stopped doing it. Attic has best greedy girls night. Townhouse is not more for kink and BDSM which is good too as you will see many sex positive people rather than pure swingers that are only interested in big cocks and skin fetish. " The owners of GGs are very friendly. I've messaged them on here. I'm going to go very soon to check them out. | |||
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"Searched GGs and your post came at top - I am going to try GGs soon, had been to Townhouse in wirral, Attic and Atalantis in Stoke on Trent - best was Townhouse, especially dark room play ans Clusterfuck - they stopped doing it. Attic has best greedy girls night. Townhouse is not more for kink and BDSM which is good too as you will see many sex positive people rather than pure swingers that are only interested in big cocks and skin fetish. " I went to Townhouse 4 times (only ever as a single guy btw), and while I rate it as the best club out of the 9 I’ve been to, I did find it very clicky. The last two times I went, I found it far easier to chat with strangers in the bar of the Village Inn as a bloke on his own, than being a single guy in TH afterwards….. I did go to Atlantis one time too! But I apparently chose the quietest night in the club’s history….. It’s a small venue, and it was far from overrun with single ladies that night…. | |||
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"Searched GGs and your post came at top - I am going to try GGs soon, had been to Townhouse in wirral, Attic and Atalantis in Stoke on Trent - best was Townhouse, especially dark room play ans Clusterfuck - they stopped doing it. Attic has best greedy girls night. Townhouse is not more for kink and BDSM which is good too as you will see many sex positive people rather than pure swingers that are only interested in big cocks and skin fetish. I went to Townhouse 4 times (only ever as a single guy btw), and while I rate it as the best club out of the 9 I’ve been to, I did find it very clicky. The last two times I went, I found it far easier to chat with strangers in the bar of the Village Inn as a bloke on his own, than being a single guy in TH afterwards….. I did go to Atlantis one time too! But I apparently chose the quietest night in the club’s history….. It’s a small venue, and it was far from overrun with single ladies that night…. "Atlantis to me seemed overpriced for such a small venue - but the best part was meeting with few single ladies who were super chatty - Infact their husbands were open to chat, so one thing led to another, played a few of them. Attic has gang bang type setup on GG nights - so works for most of the single men. Plus they get some nice looking couples over GG nights. | |||
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"I agree with the economic side of it - my business mind says it’s not worth as a single guy to attend a club every week, 40/50 quid, as cost would spiral up pretty quick, although I am not tight, but ROI is not great, so once a month type is ok. If you want to be a regular than ready to spend good chunk without seeing any return - possibly over the period your ROI curve will go up. " It's not the cost which puts me off clubs, although I wouldn't pay more than £50 for a single entry fee. It's more the loss of an evening out of my life, that I'll never get back, which could have been spent better elsewhere, than rattling around a swingers' club feeling unwelcome and unwanted... | |||
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"Some clubs are good in creating inclusive environments - I used to go on Dance theme nights, you can crack some convo while you shaking shaking…that’s a solid ice breaker…at least people will start knowing you and open to talk to you - still ROI is not great as there is no guarantee right…so try a few club nights where they running theme based events - you might find someone to at least talk to. Many people reading this post might think we are open to talk to anyone - but they don’t understand how hard it is for singles, make or female both to crack an inviting convo. I am not shy but at times I find people generally prefer talking to those they know for long time…clubs regular basically…for me going to Disco or Dance nights definitely worked…." For me, 'ROI' equates to; I really enjoyed my time tonight, and I can't wait to return. And that doesn't mean I got my cock wet, it means I escaped my 'normal' routine, and shared a fun, friendly evening with likeminded people in a comfortable, relaxed environment. I don't want to feel like someone threw Harry Potter's invisibility cloak over me when I wasn't looking....  | |||
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"I just literally want the opportunity to chat and flirt with fun women. I'm fed up of women with low libidos and/or obsessions with relationships. I just want to go to a place where there are fun women! That's all I want! I don't even necessarily want to have sex with them! I just want to chat. I like the build-up, I like the chase, I like to choose who I want. I love sex, yes, but I just want to talk. I literally just want an environment where I can talk to women. I'll have to pay for 10 random pros-boob-utes and tell them to go to a pub, and just sit there looking innocent. I'll go around talking to them, etc. They have to just talk to me, swish their hair and do all that woman stuff - tease me a bit. Eventually, I'll choose two that I like most, and they both have to be difficult, make it hard for me, then eventually one let's me score. 😂😂😂 Lol, I'll have to arrange this sort of night. It's going to be expensive though. 😂😂😂😂😂😬😬" Lmfao! | |||
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