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By *ancelot1633 OP   Man
15 weeks ago

lichfield

Lucky enough to be attending both clubs this weekend. Haven’t been for a while and have read the websites and they seem to suggest minimum of smart trousers (chinos, and shirt) but love to get feedback on what I should wear if I want to:

Blend in

Standout in a good way

Standout in a bad way

Not going to take my camo combats or my invisability cloak for the first of these but love to leverage the combined wisdom and dress sense of FS.

Thank you kindly

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By *urreyVixenStagCouple
15 weeks ago

Surrey


"Lucky enough to be attending both clubs this weekend. Haven’t been for a while and have read the websites and they seem to suggest minimum of smart trousers (chinos, and shirt) but love to get feedback on what I should wear if I want to:

Blend in

Standout in a good way

Standout in a bad way

Not going to take my camo combats or my invisability cloak for the first of these but love to leverage the combined wisdom and dress sense of FS.

Thank you kindly"

Blend in - plain button down shirt or polo shirt.

Stand out - loud button down shirt (print/colour etc). That can go either way depending on the print

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By *ancelot1633 OP   Man
15 weeks ago

lichfield


"Lucky enough to be attending both clubs this weekend. Haven’t been for a while and have read the websites and they seem to suggest minimum of smart trousers (chinos, and shirt) but love to get feedback on what I should wear if I want to:

Blend in

Standout in a good way

Standout in a bad way

Not going to take my camo combats or my invisability cloak for the first of these but love to leverage the combined wisdom and dress sense of FS.

Thank you kindly

Blend in - plain button down shirt or polo shirt.

Stand out - loud button down shirt (print/colour etc). That can go either way depending on the print "

Many thanks, my loud shirts could even get me ejected, I will have to choose carefully , chinos ok?

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By *urreyVixenStagCouple
15 weeks ago

Surrey


"Lucky enough to be attending both clubs this weekend. Haven’t been for a while and have read the websites and they seem to suggest minimum of smart trousers (chinos, and shirt) but love to get feedback on what I should wear if I want to:

Blend in

Standout in a good way

Standout in a bad way

Not going to take my camo combats or my invisability cloak for the first of these but love to leverage the combined wisdom and dress sense of FS.

Thank you kindly

Blend in - plain button down shirt or polo shirt.

Stand out - loud button down shirt (print/colour etc). That can go either way depending on the print

Many thanks, my loud shirts could even get me ejected, I will have to choose carefully , chinos ok?

"

Never known anyone to be ejected for a loud shirt lol. As long as it has a collar, you’ll be fine. Chinos are perfect.

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By *heTattooedDomMan
15 weeks ago

Winnersh

The main thing is that it is smart. Shirts should have a collar, trousers should be the kind that you would wear to the office / a posh night club, that said I normally wear a kilt.

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By *aciamiCouple
15 weeks ago

Hertfordshire

As the saying goes...You have to be emaculate to ejaculate.

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By *ancelot1633 OP   Man
15 weeks ago

lichfield


"As the saying goes...You have to be emaculate to ejaculate."

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By *ancelot1633 OP   Man
15 weeks ago

lichfield

The dark room may be my friend.

Many thanks for all the advice

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By *aughty-oneMan
15 weeks ago

Nazeing

Chinos, shirt and shoes?

Is this a golf club or something?

Why do these clubs have such dated dress codes…. Of course you don’t turn up in your best track suit or like you’ve just knocked off work from a construction site but what’s wrong with some Levi’s, box fresh trainers and a smart t shirt or plaid shirt?

Surely if you are feel comfortable with your dress you’ll be relaxed?

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By *aciamiCouple
15 weeks ago

Hertfordshire

The dress code allows smart jeans and any shirt with a collar, so it's not all chinos and boat shoes...

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By *aughty-oneMan
15 weeks ago

Nazeing


"The dress code allows smart jeans and any shirt with a collar, so it's not all chinos and boat shoes..."

I should hope so, can’t think of anything worse than wearing a polo shirt, chinos and boat shoes…. I’d feel like I’d come dressed like Alan Partridge!

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By *urreyVixenStagCouple
15 weeks ago

Surrey


"Chinos, shirt and shoes?

Is this a golf club or something?

Why do these clubs have such dated dress codes…. Of course you don’t turn up in your best track suit or like you’ve just knocked off work from a construction site but what’s wrong with some Levi’s, box fresh trainers and a smart t shirt or plaid shirt?

Surely if you are feel comfortable with your dress you’ll be relaxed?"

You'd be surpised that those who think a tracksuit and trainers are acceptable.

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By *aughty-oneMan
15 weeks ago

Nazeing


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You'd be surpised that those who think a tracksuit and trainers are acceptable. "

They are most likely to be the same people who feel that lecherous behavior and unwanted attention is perfectly acceptable just because they have paid the entrance fee.

They probably don’t care about their appearance or cleanliness and will wander around aimlessly with their hands on their tiny dicks trying to hit on women that they objectify and disrespect.

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By *aciamiCouple
15 weeks ago

Hertfordshire


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You'd be surpised that those who think a tracksuit and trainers are acceptable.

They are most likely to be the same people who feel that lecherous behavior and unwanted attention is perfectly acceptable just because they have paid the entrance fee.

They probably don’t care about their appearance or cleanliness and will wander around aimlessly with their hands on their tiny dicks trying to hit on women that they objectify and disrespect."

Oh we've seen some very well-dressed men behave like that too in clubs all over the country. Attire isn't necessarily a measure of decency.

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By *aughty-oneMan
15 weeks ago

Nazeing

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By *aughty-oneMan
15 weeks ago

Nazeing

That is true, no matter how you may dress, some people from certain cultural backgrounds will never know how to behave appropriately around women.

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By *aciamiCouple
15 weeks ago

Hertfordshire


"That is true, no matter how you may dress, some people from certain cultural backgrounds will never know how to behave appropriately around women."

Oh we're talking all backgrounds. Entitled, white British men being some of the worst.

And I say that as a white British person.

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By *lossomTreeWoman
15 weeks ago

Ipswich

As a lady I love seeing guys in loud patterned shirts. If I'm interested, it's a great way for me to start the conversation

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By *aughty-oneMan
15 weeks ago

Nazeing


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Oh we're talking all backgrounds. Entitled, white British men being some of the worst.

And I say that as a white British person."

In my experience of clubs in the south east and London areas, the most annoying and sexually desperate demographic seems to middle aged men of Turkish and Arabic appearance that don’t understand how to dress appropriately or conduct their behavior.

Although on any night that allows single men, you’ll always have a certain percentage of socially inept men that are looking for something that they could never get the vanilla world other than paying a visit to a brothel.

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By *ancelot1633 OP   Man
15 weeks ago

lichfield


"As a lady I love seeing guys in loud patterned shirts. If I'm interested, it's a great way for me to start the conversation "

Now I’m in two minds

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By *ellfireClubMan
15 weeks ago

Sunbury-On-Thames

Hi

Regretably, a minority of single gents abuse a relaxed dress code and do look as if they have just come straight from work.

We do allow smart jeans and clean designer trainers at most parties, but T shirts are simply not right for a nightclub where many guests wear a suit, DJ, Fetish etc and ladies have spent hours (possibly days), preparing to look fantastic.

Also, many of our Single gents take the trouble to wear suits, or very smart casual designer wear; which impresses the ladies, helping to create a great atmosphere, for all to enjoy.

During Summer months, we allow Birkenstock style footwear, smart clean shorts and designer T shirts; even designer sportswear is acceptable at some events.

Everyone is everyones eye candy, and it is all about meeting the expectations of an eclectic group of guests and giving them a great night out!

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By *ancelot1633 OP   Man
15 weeks ago

lichfield

Thanks

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