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By (user no longer on site) OP
9 weeks ago

What is it like going to a club never been would it be better going with people

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By *ink vixenCouple
9 weeks ago

Medway

You’ll be very lucky to find any ladies that will just go along with you.

If you go with a male friend then couples and ladies may find it more intimidating to approach you both.

If you’re a confident chatty sort of guy then just put your big boy pants on and go along to a club on an evening when single guys are welcome.

Personally we are happy to chat and even approach single guys especially if they look a bit uncomfortable but I think we’re fairly unusual in that

Bear in mind though that couples and single ladies that go to clubs specifically on the nights that single guys are welcome aren’t usually there by accident.

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By *oiluvfunMan
8 weeks ago

Penrith

"What is it like going to a club never been would it be better going with people"

If you think you have hoops to jump through as a single guy in Fab, wait until you try the clubs experience…..

Definitely visit any club for the first time in the company of a female friend. I cannot stress enough, how more open, friendly and welcoming you will feel, as the male half of a couple. Get your face known, swap Fab names, then look at returning as a solo guy another time, now that you’ve made a contact or two inside.

It’s not impossible to do similar all by yourself, but when heads turn in your direction, would you prefer eyes rolling, or eyes lighting up…….?

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By *ichardHereMan
5 weeks ago

London

"What is it like going to a club never been would it be better going with people"

Depends on your age tbh. If you're young like me club is not good idea, but if older then you shouuld go. Much easier to get personnality across in person than via text. Also quicker to judge attractiveness.

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
5 weeks ago

Stockport

"What is it like going to a club never been would it be better going with people"

Whilst we understand that anyone new might be nervous at there 1st time club experience

Your only new once , so embrace that

And the more you worry about it , just think what's gonna happen if you get lucky

There won't be time for any nerves then

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By (user no longer on site)
5 weeks ago

I honestly don't get the negativity towards going to a club on your own as a single guy. You need to go with no expectations and don't be a knob and you will have a great time. Treat it the same as any other night out look the part smell good and be open to conversation.

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By *otCouple3891Couple
5 weeks ago

Manchester

As a couple obviously we find it easier going to clubs. Don’t get me wrong we’re still nervous, but we have each other.

Though if you go on a greedy girl event, then couples hotwives and women are there looking for men.

I’d say as long as you are polite, friendly and respectful you stand a good chance of fun once you start chatting with people.

Worst case scenario……

You get to chat and socialise with like minded people and potentially see some amazingly sexy sights.

Already better than a night at your local pub.

I say go for it

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