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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

If you saw someone at a swinging club and you had seen them before with a different person surely you wouldn't say anything right? Even if you had spoken to that person.

I used to swing with an ex, broke up, met a girl who seemed really straight and when asked if I had done anything kinky I held back on swinging.

Now she wants to go to a club (in the North East) and yes I know, honesty is the best policy and all that but it's not like I was going to clubs behind her back. It's about 18 months since I last went to a swinging club and I've been seeing this girl three months.

Party night and a mask seems like a good idea!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If she brought up about wanting to go to a club. Wouldn't of that been a good time to say well I have been to clubs previously?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Sage advice Hopey but I didn't owing to the fact that when we first talked about it she was all butter wouldn't melt etc and now it turns out she is rather game, to say the least.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

why not just tell her you have been before, explain you didn't mention it because you didn't think it was her thing, though I'm sure if you were recognised nobody would say necessarily you were there previously with ex, but lady might be concerned if people know your name.

Honesty is always the best policy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Butter wouldn't melt? Lol, people say that about me.

But I wouldn't tell all to someone I had known a few weeks outside off here.

Wouldn't want him to go running.

Guess it's up to you, you ain't lied, but if someone does recognise you and it all comes out in front of her? Then what?

Though highly doubt anyone would say anything.

Hard one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"why not just tell her you have been before, explain you didn't mention it because you didn't think it was her thing, though I'm sure if you were recognised nobody would say necessarily you were there previously with ex, but lady might be concerned if people know your name.

Honesty is always the best policy"

That's sound advice.

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By *aughtywifeandhimCouple
over a year ago

bedford

Agree with above ,honesty best policy ,she may be glad you've been before ,me and wife tell each other everything ,if we play together or solo,lies always come out to bite you on arse lol

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