FabSwingers.com forum: Club shh

By (user no longer on site) OP
37 weeks ago

So I am new to all this stuff and wanting to explore more and wanting to visit some swinger clubs but I have no idea where to start and want to know how it works etc. really want to go but can be difficult as I don't drive. So any help would be appreciated a lot

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago

I’m far from “seasoned” but here’s a starter, research properly, make yourself stand out from the rest. I’ve listened to a few podcasts and they are invaluable, lots of info on single guys going for first time.

1- learn to drive

2- take a bag, condoms, lube, mouthwash, aftershave, wet wipes, small electric fan and pen/ paper

3- podcast vanilla to vixen episodes 77 & 95 for starters

4- find a decent club, loads of reviews on here

5- please don’t be “the wanking dead “

6- try socials first

7- don’t expect to have fun on first night

8- dress to impress

9-talk to others, don’t stand /sit in the corner

10- the list goes on.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
37 weeks ago

Okay thank you for that I appreciate I can do all of that but the driving unfortunately can't got medical conditions that prevents me from doing so

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By *orderboyblueMan
37 weeks ago

Scottish Borders

"I’m far from “seasoned” but here’s a starter, research properly, make yourself stand out from the rest. I’ve listened to a few podcasts and they are invaluable, lots of info on single guys going for first time.

1- learn to drive

2- take a bag, condoms, lube, mouthwash, aftershave, wet wipes, small electric fan and pen/ paper

3- podcast vanilla to vixen episodes 77 & 95 for starters

4- find a decent club, loads of reviews on here

5- please don’t be “the wanking dead “

6- try socials first

7- don’t expect to have fun on first night

8- dress to impress

9-talk to others, don’t stand /sit in the corner

10- the list goes on. "

Pen and paper??

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago

1- learn to drive

2- take a bag, condoms, lube, mouthwash, aftershave, wet wipes, small electric fan and pen/ paper

3- podcast vanilla to vixen episodes 77 & 95 for starters

4- find a decent club, loads of reviews on here

5- please don’t be “the wanking dead “

6- try socials first

7- don’t expect to have fun on first night

8- dress to impress

9-talk to others, don’t stand /sit in the corner

10- the list goes on.

Pen and paper??"

To write down user names, contact numbers. Some usernames I’ll never remember, especially at 03:00 in the morning

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By *oiluvfunMan
37 weeks ago

Penrith

Of the two North East clubs, I found Shhh to be the most friendly, and welcoming towards a single guy, so definitely give them a try.

I’m sure there are trains in to Newcastle you can use, and Shhh isn’t far from the train station at all.

Try one of their ‘Walk in Wednesday’ daytime events to get you started. There’s no guarantee of how busy it will be, but it will give you a feel for the club, and its layout etc. After that, you can look for a busier nighttime event (which allows solo guys in), and feel more comfortable/confident walking in on your own.

Don’t build a club visit up to be anything more than a night out in a pub. They’re really not ‘all that’, and you have more chances of meeting women in your local Wetherspoons! But, swinger clubs CAN be a great experience; it all depends WHO is in while you are.

Good luck

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