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"I can't stand it when a group of guys crowd round in the cinema. The other day was great as all guys sat respectfully on the sofas while a sexy lady went round and entertained everyone individually. " Some people like the crowding and go for it especially. Personally we don’t and ask people to give us space… most listen! | |||
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"I’m considering heading over tomorrow afternoon any thoughts on what to expect please?" its varied but we have always had a great time x | |||
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"just an excuse for alot of guys,too cheat on their mrs !!!!" or a place for people to have safe consensual fun and a good giggle. People can cheat without help. | |||
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"Anyone going 4th December a Wednesday?" we may pop in.... as its my birthday next week... and birthday bang is always a good thing  | |||
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"I can't stand it when a group of guys crowd round in the cinema. The other day was great as all guys sat respectfully on the sofas while a sexy lady went round and entertained everyone individually. " We've seen this and it's very off putting. The single guys seem to hunt in packs and you notice the same group following wherever you go. They can hardly be classed as single because they're in groups and don't seem to realise that it makes them very unaproachable. Most obviously turn up as a group, go in singularly and regroup again once inside. It's often very hard to find an actual single guy, meaning a guy on his own. We understand that single guys bring a lot of revenue to a club but the grouping mentality and the top heavyness of guys could do with being revued for everyones benifit, both guys and couples. | |||
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"I can't stand it when a group of guys crowd round in the cinema. The other day was great as all guys sat respectfully on the sofas while a sexy lady went round and entertained everyone individually. We've seen this and it's very off putting. The single guys seem to hunt in packs and you notice the same group following wherever you go. They can hardly be classed as single because they're in groups and don't seem to realise that it makes them very unaproachable. Most obviously turn up as a group, go in singularly and regroup again once inside. It's often very hard to find an actual single guy, meaning a guy on his own. We understand that single guys bring a lot of revenue to a club but the grouping mentality and the top heavyness of guys could do with being revued for everyones benifit, both guys and couples." Could you clarify what you mean by "top heaviness of guys could be reviewed for everyones benefit" means? | |||
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"I can't stand it when a group of guys crowd round in the cinema. The other day was great as all guys sat respectfully on the sofas while a sexy lady went round and entertained everyone individually. We've seen this and it's very off putting. The single guys seem to hunt in packs and you notice the same group following wherever you go. They can hardly be classed as single because they're in groups and don't seem to realise that it makes them very unaproachable. Most obviously turn up as a group, go in singularly and regroup again once inside. It's often very hard to find an actual single guy, meaning a guy on his own. We understand that single guys bring a lot of revenue to a club but the grouping mentality and the top heavyness of guys could do with being revued for everyones benifit, both guys and couples." Do you mean on the day time cinema... if so.. I'd kinda say groups of guys are mostly what people go for.. Also if you sit chatting, you can easily pick a single guy.. I know as I've done it. There are certainly not packs of guys at other nights.. except with the exception of greedy girls..and that's one night that there can never be enough guys... The guys are respectful on the whole and will just watch and wait. Now ladies... they tend to touch without asking at clubs everywhere Cali | |||
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"I can't stand it when a group of guys crowd round in the cinema. The other day was great as all guys sat respectfully on the sofas while a sexy lady went round and entertained everyone individually. We've seen this and it's very off putting. The single guys seem to hunt in packs and you notice the same group following wherever you go. They can hardly be classed as single because they're in groups and don't seem to realise that it makes them very unaproachable. Most obviously turn up as a group, go in singularly and regroup again once inside. It's often very hard to find an actual single guy, meaning a guy on his own. We understand that single guys bring a lot of revenue to a club but the grouping mentality and the top heavyness of guys could do with being revued for everyones benifit, both guys and couples. Could you clarify what you mean by "top heaviness of guys could be reviewed for everyones benefit" means?" By "top heavyness" we mean the ratio of single guys to couples/single women is too many. If there were less single guys maybe couples wouldn't feel so hassled and the guys that were there would probably have more chance of hooking up. | |||
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"I can't stand it when a group of guys crowd round in the cinema. The other day was great as all guys sat respectfully on the sofas while a sexy lady went round and entertained everyone individually. We've seen this and it's very off putting. The single guys seem to hunt in packs and you notice the same group following wherever you go. They can hardly be classed as single because they're in groups and don't seem to realise that it makes them very unaproachable. Most obviously turn up as a group, go in singularly and regroup again once inside. It's often very hard to find an actual single guy, meaning a guy on his own. We understand that single guys bring a lot of revenue to a club but the grouping mentality and the top heavyness of guys could do with being revued for everyones benifit, both guys and couples. Do you mean on the day time cinema... if so.. I'd kinda say groups of guys are mostly what people go for.. Also if you sit chatting, you can easily pick a single guy.. I know as I've done it. There are certainly not packs of guys at other nights.. except with the exception of greedy girls..and that's one night that there can never be enough guys... The guys are respectful on the whole and will just watch and wait. Now ladies... they tend to touch without asking at clubs everywhere Cali" We haven't been to daytime cinemas but understand that some couples/single women go to meet several guys during their visit. We've only visited on Saturday nights and there has been small groups of guys wandering around or following each time we've been. It seems a common occurence when you read clubs reviews. We met a great guy who was actualy sitting on his own, which turned into a great night. | |||
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" By "top heavyness" we mean the ratio of single guys to couples/single women is too many. If there were less single guys maybe couples wouldn't feel so hassled and the guys that were there would probably have more chance of hooking up. " Saturday 30th November there were 2 couples/single ladies to every single guy in attendance, and that ratio has been pretty much the standard since reopening. But once you introduce a couple only area as requested by many and this becomes used by x couples and couples group up in rooms and the dance floor swallows x couples dancing, what you have left is single guys becoming more noticeable. There are also couples whom do their own thing away from their partner and therefore the perception of who is a single guy is an effect. Couples can have a tendency to leave earlier in the night than the single guys which again by the end of the night may seem like the ratio is off. | |||
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" By "top heavyness" we mean the ratio of single guys to couples/single women is too many. If there were less single guys maybe couples wouldn't feel so hassled and the guys that were there would probably have more chance of hooking up. Saturday 30th November there were 2 couples/single ladies to every single guy in attendance, and that ratio has been pretty much the standard since reopening. But once you introduce a couple only area as requested by many and this becomes used by x couples and couples group up in rooms and the dance floor swallows x couples dancing, what you have left is single guys becoming more noticeable. There are also couples whom do their own thing away from their partner and therefore the perception of who is a single guy is an effect. Couples can have a tendency to leave earlier in the night than the single guys which again by the end of the night may seem like the ratio is off." That is a great explanation and very true plus, for example, if you have 120 couples and 60 single guys (2:1 ratio) then 50% of the couples are men (typically) so will have 120 men and 60 women so will look male heavy. | |||
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"Anyone going tomorrow daytime? " we are going tomorrow | |||
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"Looking forward to tomorrow. " us too | |||
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"Anyone going tomorrow daytime? we are going tomorrow " Have a sticky time! | |||
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"Anyone going tomorrow daytime? we are going tomorrow Have a sticky time!" that's the plan xx | |||
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"Is it a good place for beginners " It's a great place for beginners, Friday evenings tend to be a tad quieter, and ideal for newbies to get a feel for the club rather than on a Saturday evening where it can get quiet packed out. | |||
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"Is it a good place for beginners It's a great place for beginners, Friday evenings tend to be a tad quieter, and ideal for newbies to get a feel for the club rather than on a Saturday evening where it can get quiet packed out. " Thanks for letting us know | |||
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"We tend to go Wednesdays and have never been disappointed In our view getting better and better " it was a very good day on Wednesday | |||
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"Is it a good place for beginners It's a great place for beginners, Friday evenings tend to be a tad quieter, and ideal for newbies to get a feel for the club rather than on a Saturday evening where it can get quiet packed out. Thanks for letting us know " Happy to help  | |||
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"I've been to the old and new attic a number of times and have had some great fun there. However.. the amount of times I have seen guys group together and I immediately think "great, here we go again!" And pretty soon that puts off MF couples and females that are being accompanied by a gent. Message to the groupie males.. Stop it! You will NEVER get anywhere with the caveman approach. And by the way, it makes you look desperate. To the respectful gents that attend, keep doing your thing! " I've got to honestly say I've never seen this. Cali | |||
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"I've been to the old and new attic a number of times and have had some great fun there. However.. the amount of times I have seen guys group together and I immediately think "great, here we go again!" And pretty soon that puts off MF couples and females that are being accompanied by a gent. Message to the groupie males.. Stop it! You will NEVER get anywhere with the caveman approach. And by the way, it makes you look desperate. To the respectful gents that attend, keep doing your thing! I've got to honestly say I've never seen this. Cali" Hi Cali - That's actually really reassuring to hear, hopefully the behavior that I mentioned is now becoming a thing of the past! Best wishes and Merry Christmas to you | |||
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"We tend to go Wednesdays and have never been disappointed In our view getting better and better it was a very good day on Wednesday "Very good, can't wait for the next | |||
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"Nothing worse than a couple come in and before she taken here coat off some guy is there trying to stick his cock in her face before she has even sat down. Stop it guys you look really sad" I have to say I have never seen anything like this in the cinema. Couples are left alone to enjoy the film. If they start playing with each other, yes, some guys might shift a bit closer, but still respecting space. A crowd only gathers once the couple make it clear they are happy with touching & open play. Even then, if they ask for space, any request is always respected. | |||
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"We're thinking of popping along tomorrow to see it for the first time in the day, although play space sounds limited - there's chance of a cuppa at least lol x" Plenty of play space to be fair.. loads in fact.. | |||
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"We're thinking of popping along tomorrow to see it for the first time in the day, although play space sounds limited - there's chance of a cuppa at least lol x" The play spaces are bigger than at the old club...the cinema alone is loads bigger. Have fun x | |||
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"We're thinking of popping along tomorrow to see it for the first time in the day, although play space sounds limited - there's chance of a cuppa at least lol x The play spaces are bigger than at the old club...the cinema alone is loads bigger. Have fun x " We’re going with the knowledge that most won’t be accessible, so we’ll see what there is. Thank you, it’ll be a first for sure X | |||
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"Who is going to attic tomorrow day time 12/12 Thursday? Can I go with my work cloth on and get Chang in there ? X" Yes you can. | |||
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"Can I just ask where is Attic ? Just had a look at the ' club reviews' but can't seem to find it Very interesting in attending " Search the attic experience on any search engine it should pop up. Unfortunately people have had warnings and suspensions by putting addresses on the forum | |||
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"Can I just ask where is Attic ? Just had a look at the ' club reviews' but can't seem to find it Very interesting in attending Search the attic experience on any search engine it should pop up. Unfortunately people have had warnings and suspensions by putting addresses on the forum " Yeah mostly me 🤣 | |||
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"Can I just ask where is Attic ? Just had a look at the ' club reviews' but can't seem to find it Very interesting in attending " it is in the east midlands club reviews.. its derby way. About 5mins from pride park | |||
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"Anyone going Monday 6th? Never been but may have few hours midday that way x" I may be coming down that way Monday  | |||
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"We are looking to spend a few hours in the cinema tomorrow afternoon, is anyone else going or can advise the best time to go is? Thank you xx" It’s hard to say when it gets busy but if you put a meet request up with a time you will be there then I am sure people will come to meet you looking at your amazing photos x | |||
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"We are looking to spend a few hours in the cinema tomorrow afternoon, is anyone else going or can advise the best time to go is? Thank you xx" 11.00 - 2.00 will probably be the busiest, from our experience it tends to drop off after that but there’s still guys around normally | |||
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"We are looking to spend a few hours in the cinema tomorrow afternoon, is anyone else going or can advise the best time to go is? Thank you xx 11.00 - 2.00 will probably be the busiest, from our experience it tends to drop off after that but there’s still guys around normally " Thank you, will try and get there for midday then x | |||
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"We are looking to spend a few hours in the cinema tomorrow afternoon, is anyone else going or can advise the best time to go is? Thank you xx 11.00 - 2.00 will probably be the busiest, from our experience it tends to drop off after that but there’s still guys around normally Thank you, will try and get there for midday then x" Hope you have a great time x | |||
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"Go to any club with ZERO expectations, be prepared to socialise with anyone and be prepared to accept rejection, as not everyone is for everyone. " good advice | |||
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"Too many men I would think - it’s very off putting at times " Agreed.....you go with your partner and having a great time. Then get surrounded by cocks. | |||
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"Too many men I would think - it’s very off putting at times " Well that all depends on what you are looking for | |||
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"Well that all depends on what you are looking for " Absolutely  | |||
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"Too many men I would think - it’s very off putting at times " There is often not enough men... if you ask the gentlemen to stand back, then they will do. | |||
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"Too many men I would think - it’s very off putting at times There is often not enough men... if you ask the gentlemen to stand back, then they will do." They should wait to be invited before crowding round, not have to be asked to stand back | |||
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"Too many men I would think - it’s very off putting at times There is often not enough men... if you ask the gentlemen to stand back, then they will do. They should wait to be invited before crowding round, not have to be asked to stand back" Yes I always wait to be invited I thought that's a unwritten rule | |||
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"Too many men I would think - it’s very off putting at times There is often not enough men... if you ask the gentlemen to stand back, then they will do. They should wait to be invited before crowding round, not have to be asked to stand back" Fully agree. Groups crowding in without being invited put us off after our first visit last year. | |||
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"Too many men I would think - it’s very off putting at times There is often not enough men... if you ask the gentlemen to stand back, then they will do. They should wait to be invited before crowding round, not have to be asked to stand back" if people start to play they will come closer. They won't touch without asking | |||
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"I'll be there daytime tomorrow and love a good crowd around me "I hope I see you there | |||
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