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"Crystal I was referring to people not making the effort. Especially when the club dresscode says no jeans trainers. ..." To be honest it wasn't your post as it was clear that you meant make an effort rather than dress scruffy and my response was to the other posts - it makes me laugh that apparently making an effort equates to wear a suit. I don't get it. Do people really have that little imagination? | |||
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"I usually travel in a dress, then dress down to another dress, either shorter/lace/ highly suggestive and possibly have something with even less material for later
I dont think jeans should be permitted in any club at any time "personally I think this is quite an old fashioned view (generically talking), I am 38, well presented male, when going to a club I will wear smart jeans, very smart shoes and a crisp ironed shirt, perhaps with a suit jacket dependant on weather. Jeans dont make the person, its how you wear the jeans  | |||
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"Fet events aside my normal clubing atire is smart jeans, either DM's or brothel creepers and a shrt. Sometimes with a tie and/or braces, sometimes not. crystal normally wears a 50's style dress and heels. The colours of our outfits will always compliment the others choice. I never wear a suit and to be honest if someone at a club would choose not to play with us based on me not being in a suit and having not made an effort then frankly they are doing us a favour... " | |||
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"Fet events aside my normal clubing atire is smart jeans, either DM's or brothel creepers and a shrt. Sometimes with a tie and/or braces, sometimes not. crystal normally wears a 50's style dress and heels. The colours of our outfits will always compliment the others choice. I never wear a suit and to be honest if someone at a club would choose not to play with us based on me not being in a suit and having not made an effort then frankly they are doing us a favour... "You 2 looked great the other night! Crystal more so but you too 2wheels!   | |||
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"I usually travel in a dress, then dress down to another dress, either shorter/lace/ highly suggestive and possibly have something with even less material for later
I dont think jeans should be permitted in any club at any time
personally I think this is quite an old fashioned view (generically talking), I am 38, well presented male, when going to a club I will wear smart jeans, very smart shoes and a crisp ironed shirt, perhaps with a suit jacket dependant on weather. Jeans dont make the person, its how you wear the jeans " I wear them on my head when I'm on the dance floor, that's ok isn't it? | |||
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"I usually travel in a dress, then dress down to another dress, either shorter/lace/ highly suggestive and possibly have something with even less material for later
I dont think jeans should be permitted in any club at any time
personally I think this is quite an old fashioned view (generically talking), I am 38, well presented male, when going to a club I will wear smart jeans, very smart shoes and a crisp ironed shirt, perhaps with a suit jacket dependant on weather. Jeans dont make the person, its how you wear the jeans "...but if the club specifies no jeans on their site?? Surely its on there for a reason x | |||
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"I usually travel in a dress, then dress down to another dress, either shorter/lace/ highly suggestive and possibly have something with even less material for later
I dont think jeans should be permitted in any club at any time
personally I think this is quite an old fashioned view (generically talking), I am 38, well presented male, when going to a club I will wear smart jeans, very smart shoes and a crisp ironed shirt, perhaps with a suit jacket dependant on weather. Jeans dont make the person, its how you wear the jeans
...but if the club specifies no jeans on their site?? Surely its on there for a reason x"yea, in our opinion though its an outdated and stuffy reason. I always laugh at clubs that will let in a scum bag in a pair of stay press Farahs or Chino's (urgh) and would keep me out in a really well put together , smart, modern outfit. IMHO only  | |||
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"I usually travel in a dress, then dress down to another dress, either shorter/lace/ highly suggestive and possibly have something with even less material for later
I dont think jeans should be permitted in any club at any time
personally I think this is quite an old fashioned view (generically talking), I am 38, well presented male, when going to a club I will wear smart jeans, very smart shoes and a crisp ironed shirt, perhaps with a suit jacket dependant on weather. Jeans dont make the person, its how you wear the jeans
...but if the club specifies no jeans on their site?? Surely its on there for a reason x
yea, in our opinion though its an outdated and stuffy reason. I always laugh at clubs that will let in a scum bag in a pair of stay press Farahs or Chino's (urgh) and would keep me out in a really well put together , smart, modern outfit. IMHO only "and i dont mean that anyone in Farahs or Chinos is a scum bag !!! Just re read that! I meant that you could be a scum bag but get in due to your nice leisure slacks ...honest x | |||
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"I usually travel in a dress, then dress down to another dress, either shorter/lace/ highly suggestive and possibly have something with even less material for later
I dont think jeans should be permitted in any club at any time
personally I think this is quite an old fashioned view (generically talking), I am 38, well presented male, when going to a club I will wear smart jeans, very smart shoes and a crisp ironed shirt, perhaps with a suit jacket dependant on weather. Jeans dont make the person, its how you wear the jeans
...but if the club specifies no jeans on their site?? Surely its on there for a reason x"Then I wouldn't go. Simple as that. | |||
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"The first rule is dress to impress unless its a wet club lol but i always like to wear trousers and a shirt with nice shoes and always bath so i;m smelling nice as well. At least people can see i have made an effort,trainers and scruffy jeans should be banned!" We don't allow jeans , the ladies make an effort so men should....you wouldn't wear jeans to a wedding or a funeral, I'm not saying right or wrong but it's our policy.... Anybody turning up in jeans pays £5 in charity box and removes them .... Or leaves xxxx | |||
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"The first rule is dress to impress unless its a wet club lol but i always like to wear trousers and a shirt with nice shoes and always bath so i;m smelling nice as well. At least people can see i have made an effort,trainers and scruffy jeans should be banned! We don't allow jeans , the ladies make an effort so men should....you wouldn't wear jeans to a wedding or a funeral, I'm not saying right or wrong but it's our policy.... Anybody turning up in jeans pays £5 in charity box and removes them .... Or leaves xxxx" Because a swinging club is so comparable to a wedding or a funeral... So the man that takes the jeans off and presumably walks around in boxers, you seriouslyy feel that that constiutes making an effort? | |||
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"The first rule is dress to impress unless its a wet club lol but i always like to wear trousers and a shirt with nice shoes and always bath so i;m smelling nice as well. At least people can see i have made an effort,trainers and scruffy jeans should be banned! We don't allow jeans , the ladies make an effort so men should....you wouldn't wear jeans to a wedding or a funeral, I'm not saying right or wrong but it's our policy.... Anybody turning up in jeans pays £5 in charity box and removes them .... Or leaves xxxx Because a swinging club is so comparable to a wedding or a funeral... So the man that takes the jeans off and presumably walks around in boxers, you seriouslyy feel that that constiutes making an effort? " No, it means he couldn't read the basic requirements of the dress code. If the guy doesn't want to take his jeans off he has a choice. It is all a bit of fun and for a good cause. Why are you always so deadly serious?  | |||
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"Crystal I was referring to people not making the effort. Especially when the club dresscode says no jeans trainers. ... To be honest it wasn't your post as it was clear that you meant make an effort rather than dress scruffy and my response was to the other posts - it makes me laugh that apparently making an effort equates to wear a suit. I don't get it. Do people really have that little imagination?" | |||
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"The first rule is dress to impress unless its a wet club lol but i always like to wear trousers and a shirt with nice shoes and always bath so i;m smelling nice as well. At least people can see i have made an effort,trainers and scruffy jeans should be banned! We don't allow jeans , the ladies make an effort so men should....you wouldn't wear jeans to a wedding or a funeral, I'm not saying right or wrong but it's our policy.... Anybody turning up in jeans pays £5 in charity box and removes them .... Or leaves xxxx" | |||
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"A pet hate of ours! If it says dress smart then dress smart it should be, the ladies make the effort so why shouldn't the guys? MrH always dresses smart for a club even if it is a towel down club. One of the most enjoyable nights we had at a club was New Year's Eve at Xtasia because all the men had suits on and looked really good and sexy to be honest! " We went to va on nye I wore a tux and that was appropriate and it was a lovely evening, but I think a man in a ill fitting suit can look scruffy ! | |||
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"Guess I will try it then, I will go out in jeans, and leave my expensive/ hunted high and low for, dresses in my wardrobe, along with my equally sought after shoes. After all, it is just sex, so if I want sex I have to get at least partially undressed at some point
I think it's about dressing appropriately, no one is suggesting that a lady should go dressed in jeans, I myself live seeing a lady in an elegant sexy dress with heels, but in my opinion suits would be to formal. We as a couple are in our early forties and dress appropriately for our age in smart casual for the man and sexy for the lady
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"Guess I will try it then, I will go out in jeans, and leave my expensive/ hunted high and low for, dresses in my wardrobe, along with my equally sought after shoes. After all, it is just sex, so if I want sex I have to get at least partially undressed at some point
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"Guess I will try it then, I will go out in jeans, and leave my expensive/ hunted high and low for, dresses in my wardrobe, along with my equally sought after shoes. After all, it is just sex, so if I want sex I have to get at least partially undressed at some point
What a childish comment "In your opinion sarcasm is a form of wit, and I didnt really fancy going into a long winded equality thing | |||
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"Guess I will try it then, I will go out in jeans, and leave my expensive/ hunted high and low for, dresses in my wardrobe, along with my equally sought after shoes. After all, it is just sex, so if I want sex I have to get at least partially undressed at some point
What a childish comment
In your opinion sarcasm is a form of wit, and I didnt really fancy going into a long winded equality thing "I think it's commonly considered that sarcasm is the lowest form of wit | |||
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"Guess I will try it then, I will go out in jeans, and leave my expensive/ hunted high and low for, dresses in my wardrobe, along with my equally sought after shoes. After all, it is just sex, so if I want sex I have to get at least partially undressed at some point
What a childish comment
In your opinion sarcasm is a form of wit, and I didnt really fancy going into a long winded equality thing
I think it's commonly considered that sarcasm is the lowest form of wit " | |||
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"Have we been transported back to the 80s?! Where you have to wear shoes, trousers and a collar to get into a club?! Nightclubs have moved with times and fashion, and swingers clubs should too. No jeans is ridiculous. " Well I guess you wont want to come to our club then, thats the policy | |||
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"Have we been transported back to the 80s?! Where you have to wear shoes, trousers and a collar to get into a club?! Nightclubs have moved with times and fashion, and swingers clubs should too. No jeans is ridiculous. Well I guess you wont want to come to our club then, thats the policy "We wouldn't for that very reason, and your half way across the country, I wouldn't feel comfortable in trousers they wouldn't suit my style, but there are plenty of other clubs | |||
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"A pet hate of ours! If it says dress smart then dress smart it should be, the ladies make the effort so why shouldn't the guys? MrH always dresses smart for a club even if it is a towel down club. One of the most enjoyable nights we had at a club was New Year's Eve at Xtasia because all the men had suits on and looked really good and sexy to be honest! We went to va on nye I wore a tux and that was appropriate and it was a lovely evening, but I think a man in a ill fitting suit can look scruffy !" Was that not a black tie theme? See to me that's totally different and I'd have loved that. But I am still pretty incredulous at this belief that only a suit equates to making an effort. As others have said it is like a throw back to the 80's. It's interesting though that on another thread VA is getting referred to as both classy and upmarket but has no problem with smart denim. | |||
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"The first rule is dress to impress unless its a wet club lol but i always like to wear trousers and a shirt with nice shoes and always bath so i;m smelling nice as well. At least people can see i have made an effort,trainers and scruffy jeans should be banned! We don't allow jeans , the ladies make an effort so men should....you wouldn't wear jeans to a wedding or a funeral, I'm not saying right or wrong but it's our policy.... Anybody turning up in jeans pays £5 in charity box and removes them .... Or leaves xxxx Because a swinging club is so comparable to a wedding or a funeral... So the man that takes the jeans off and presumably walks around in boxers, you seriouslyy feel that that constiutes making an effort? No, it means he couldn't read the basic requirements of the dress code. If the guy doesn't want to take his jeans off he has a choice. It is all a bit of fun and for a good cause. Why are you always so deadly serious? "Is there not a significant contradiction. between making an effort and men walking around in underwear? | |||
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"At the end of the day and as an answer to the op's question... If a club owner has set a standard of no denim, then that is the expectation. Each club is different and has different standards, if I did not agree to a club's rules I wouldn't attend. " | |||
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"A pet hate of ours! If it says dress smart then dress smart it should be, the ladies make the effort so why shouldn't the guys? MrH always dresses smart for a club even if it is a towel down club. One of the most enjoyable nights we had at a club was New Year's Eve at Xtasia because all the men had suits on and looked really good and sexy to be honest! We went to va on nye I wore a tux and that was appropriate and it was a lovely evening, but I think a man in a ill fitting suit can look scruffy ! Was that not a black tie theme? See to me that's totally different and I'd have loved that. But I am still pretty incredulous at this belief that only a suit equates to making an effort. As others have said it is like a throw back to the 80's. It's interesting though that on another thread VA is getting referred to as both classy and upmarket but has no problem with smart denim." Yes it was a black tie masquerade ball, and I agree va is the most upmarket swinging clubs I have been to and it has no problems with smart denim, I agree it's about the effort put in to how you look. | |||
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"An interesting debate, one we have at the door most nights! Jeans, trainers and Tshirts. As a nightclub the standard response used to be "Sorry, please come back with shirt and tie" but we all know those days are gone. Any of the three above can cost well over £100 these days, and be very respectable, smart, and attractive. A t-shirt doesn't make you a scruff, a scruffy t-shirt does. We've given our door staff power to make an informed call, and also give out a "yellow card" if needed, "Please tidy up for next visit, look how much effort your lady has put into getting ready" and then record the warning on our entry system. Next time, we're looking out for them, if tidy, warning removed. Has to be down to common sense in all honesty. Some people travel 200 plus miles to visit a club, would you really turn them away for a rip in the jeans if clean and tidy? More importantly these days is personal hygiene, but guess thats another topic "What a sensible policy I've got t-shirts that cost £300 and I believe they look very smart will have to give your club a look soon | |||
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"An interesting debate, one we have at the door most nights! Jeans, trainers and Tshirts. As a nightclub the standard response used to be "Sorry, please come back with shirt and tie" but we all know those days are gone. Any of the three above can cost well over £100 these days, and be very respectable, smart, and attractive. A t-shirt doesn't make you a scruff, a scruffy t-shirt does. We've given our door staff power to make an informed call, and also give out a "yellow card" if needed, "Please tidy up for next visit, look how much effort your lady has put into getting ready" and then record the warning on our entry system. Next time, we're looking out for them, if tidy, warning removed. Has to be down to common sense in all honesty. Some people travel 200 plus miles to visit a club, would you really turn them away for a rip in the jeans if clean and tidy? More importantly these days is personal hygiene, but guess thats another topic
What a sensible policy I've got t-shirts that cost £300 and I believe they look very smart will have to give your club a look soon "A Tshirt costing £300? I bet no one could tell that by looking at it though!  | |||
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"An interesting debate, one we have at the door most nights! Jeans, trainers and Tshirts. As a nightclub the standard response used to be "Sorry, please come back with shirt and tie" but we all know those days are gone. Any of the three above can cost well over £100 these days, and be very respectable, smart, and attractive. A t-shirt doesn't make you a scruff, a scruffy t-shirt does. We've given our door staff power to make an informed call, and also give out a "yellow card" if needed, "Please tidy up for next visit, look how much effort your lady has put into getting ready" and then record the warning on our entry system. Next time, we're looking out for them, if tidy, warning removed. Has to be down to common sense in all honesty. Some people travel 200 plus miles to visit a club, would you really turn them away for a rip in the jeans if clean and tidy? More importantly these days is personal hygiene, but guess thats another topic
What a sensible policy I've got t-shirts that cost £300 and I believe they look very smart will have to give your club a look soon
A Tshirt costing £300? I bet no one could tell that by looking at it though! "If I like something I but it | |||
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"An interesting debate, one we have at the door most nights! Jeans, trainers and Tshirts. As a nightclub the standard response used to be "Sorry, please come back with shirt and tie" but we all know those days are gone. Any of the three above can cost well over £100 these days, and be very respectable, smart, and attractive. A t-shirt doesn't make you a scruff, a scruffy t-shirt does. We've given our door staff power to make an informed call, and also give out a "yellow card" if needed, "Please tidy up for next visit, look how much effort your lady has put into getting ready" and then record the warning on our entry system. Next time, we're looking out for them, if tidy, warning removed. Has to be down to common sense in all honesty. Some people travel 200 plus miles to visit a club, would you really turn them away for a rip in the jeans if clean and tidy? More importantly these days is personal hygiene, but guess thats another topic
What a sensible policy I've got t-shirts that cost £300 and I believe they look very smart will have to give your club a look soon
A Tshirt costing £300? I bet no one could tell that by looking at it though!
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"An interesting debate, one we have at the door most nights! Jeans, trainers and Tshirts. As a nightclub the standard response used to be "Sorry, please come back with shirt and tie" but we all know those days are gone. Any of the three above can cost well over £100 these days, and be very respectable, smart, and attractive. A t-shirt doesn't make you a scruff, a scruffy t-shirt does. We've given our door staff power to make an informed call, and also give out a "yellow card" if needed, "Please tidy up for next visit, look how much effort your lady has put into getting ready" and then record the warning on our entry system. Next time, we're looking out for them, if tidy, warning removed. Has to be down to common sense in all honesty. Some people travel 200 plus miles to visit a club, would you really turn them away for a rip in the jeans if clean and tidy? More importantly these days is personal hygiene, but guess thats another topic
What a sensible policy I've got t-shirts that cost £300 and I believe they look very smart will have to give your club a look soon
A Tshirt costing £300? I bet no one could tell that by looking at it though!
If I like something I but it
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"I know I certainly dont feel comfy dressed up to the nines in lbd and sexy heels and the guy attempting to come on to me looking like he came from work or walking the dog. Bog standard jeans tshirt and trainers. Its similar if all the people are fully dressed and your the only one naked. It can make you feel uncomfy xx" I'd feel uncomfortable if everyone was clothed and there was 1 random naked chick wandering around, how bizarre! | |||
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"An interesting debate, one we have at the door most nights! Jeans, trainers and Tshirts. As a nightclub the standard response used to be "Sorry, please come back with shirt and tie" but we all know those days are gone. Any of the three above can cost well over £100 these days, and be very respectable, smart, and attractive. A t-shirt doesn't make you a scruff, a scruffy t-shirt does. We've given our door staff power to make an informed call, and also give out a "yellow card" if needed, "Please tidy up for next visit, look how much effort your lady has put into getting ready" and then record the warning on our entry system. Next time, we're looking out for them, if tidy, warning removed. Has to be down to common sense in all honesty. Some people travel 200 plus miles to visit a club, would you really turn them away for a rip in the jeans if clean and tidy? More importantly these days is personal hygiene, but guess thats another topic
What a sensible policy I've got t-shirts that cost £300 and I believe they look very smart will have to give your club a look soon
A Tshirt costing £300? I bet no one could tell that by looking at it though!
If I like something I but it
Buy it fucking predictive text
Have you heard the saying 'more money than sense'? "You sound like my mum | |||
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"An interesting debate, one we have at the door most nights! Jeans, trainers and Tshirts. As a nightclub the standard response used to be "Sorry, please come back with shirt and tie" but we all know those days are gone. Any of the three above can cost well over £100 these days, and be very respectable, smart, and attractive. A t-shirt doesn't make you a scruff, a scruffy t-shirt does. We've given our door staff power to make an informed call, and also give out a "yellow card" if needed, "Please tidy up for next visit, look how much effort your lady has put into getting ready" and then record the warning on our entry system. Next time, we're looking out for them, if tidy, warning removed. Has to be down to common sense in all honesty. Some people travel 200 plus miles to visit a club, would you really turn them away for a rip in the jeans if clean and tidy? More importantly these days is personal hygiene, but guess thats another topic
What a sensible policy I've got t-shirts that cost £300 and I believe they look very smart will have to give your club a look soon
A Tshirt costing £300? I bet no one could tell that by looking at it though!
If I like something I but it
Buy it fucking predictive text
Have you heard the saying 'more money than sense'?
You sound like my mum "Yet you're almost old enough to be my dad | |||
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"An interesting debate, one we have at the door most nights! Jeans, trainers and Tshirts. As a nightclub the standard response used to be "Sorry, please come back with shirt and tie" but we all know those days are gone. Any of the three above can cost well over £100 these days, and be very respectable, smart, and attractive. A t-shirt doesn't make you a scruff, a scruffy t-shirt does. We've given our door staff power to make an informed call, and also give out a "yellow card" if needed, "Please tidy up for next visit, look how much effort your lady has put into getting ready" and then record the warning on our entry system. Next time, we're looking out for them, if tidy, warning removed. Has to be down to common sense in all honesty. Some people travel 200 plus miles to visit a club, would you really turn them away for a rip in the jeans if clean and tidy? More importantly these days is personal hygiene, but guess thats another topic
What a sensible policy I've got t-shirts that cost £300 and I believe they look very smart will have to give your club a look soon
A Tshirt costing £300? I bet no one could tell that by looking at it though!
If I like something I but it
Buy it fucking predictive text
Have you heard the saying 'more money than sense'?
You sound like my mum
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"An interesting debate, one we have at the door most nights! Jeans, trainers and Tshirts. As a nightclub the standard response used to be "Sorry, please come back with shirt and tie" but we all know those days are gone. Any of the three above can cost well over £100 these days, and be very respectable, smart, and attractive. A t-shirt doesn't make you a scruff, a scruffy t-shirt does. We've given our door staff power to make an informed call, and also give out a "yellow card" if needed, "Please tidy up for next visit, look how much effort your lady has put into getting ready" and then record the warning on our entry system. Next time, we're looking out for them, if tidy, warning removed. Has to be down to common sense in all honesty. Some people travel 200 plus miles to visit a club, would you really turn them away for a rip in the jeans if clean and tidy? More importantly these days is personal hygiene, but guess thats another topic
What a sensible policy I've got t-shirts that cost £300 and I believe they look very smart will have to give your club a look soon
A Tshirt costing £300? I bet no one could tell that by looking at it though!
If I like something I but it
Buy it fucking predictive text
Have you heard the saying 'more money than sense'?
You sound like my mum
Yet you're almost old enough to be my dad
You cheeky young pup
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"An interesting debate, one we have at the door most nights! Jeans, trainers and Tshirts. As a nightclub the standard response used to be "Sorry, please come back with shirt and tie" but we all know those days are gone. Any of the three above can cost well over £100 these days, and be very respectable, smart, and attractive. A t-shirt doesn't make you a scruff, a scruffy t-shirt does. We've given our door staff power to make an informed call, and also give out a "yellow card" if needed, "Please tidy up for next visit, look how much effort your lady has put into getting ready" and then record the warning on our entry system. Next time, we're looking out for them, if tidy, warning removed. Has to be down to common sense in all honesty. Some people travel 200 plus miles to visit a club, would you really turn them away for a rip in the jeans if clean and tidy? More importantly these days is personal hygiene, but guess thats another topic "What a refreshing and pro-active attitude, and particularly like the yellow card system. | |||
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"I know I certainly dont feel comfy dressed up to the nines in lbd and sexy heels and the guy attempting to come on to me looking like he came from work or walking the dog. Bog standard jeans tshirt and trainers. Its similar if all the people are fully dressed and your the only one naked. It can make you feel uncomfy xx" You dong feel comfy dressed up to the nines, yet you are comfy with a pasting brush hanging out of your fanny !!?!? Hahaha | |||
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"I know I certainly dont feel comfy dressed up to the nines in lbd and sexy heels and the guy attempting to come on to me looking like he came from work or walking the dog. Bog standard jeans tshirt and trainers. Its similar if all the people are fully dressed and your the only one naked. It can make you feel uncomfy xx You dong feel comfy dressed up to the nines, yet you are comfy with a pasting brush hanging out of your fanny !!?!? Hahaha " ....its for the kitchen appliance avatar competition lol | |||
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"I usually travel in a dress, then dress down to another dress, either shorter/lace/ highly suggestive and possibly have something with even less material for later
I dont think jeans should be permitted in any club at any time
personally I think this is quite an old fashioned view (generically talking), I am 38, well presented male, when going to a club I will wear smart jeans, very smart shoes and a crisp ironed shirt, perhaps with a suit jacket dependant on weather. Jeans dont make the person, its how you wear the jeans "Well said!!! Smart classy jeans can nicely show a pert bottom yum!! | |||
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"If anybody mentions smart jeans with a crease down the front I am leaving" Me too!!! Gawd I painstakingly remember creases!!! | |||
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"Its good to see some common sense coming out of clubs about this, scruffy is what should be banned not "X" item of clothing, I think given the huge range of styles and types of jeans banning them wholesale is a little odd, as long as the person is smart and not scruffy that should be all that matters. Its the tattered jeans, scruff trainers and dirty T shirts that need to be stopped imo! " | |||
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