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Essex's lack of clubs... discuss

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By *nforgettable_username OP   Couple
15 weeks ago

Brentwood

Why is Essex so very poorly served for swingers clubs?

Other than Monkey Business in Wickford (which we've been to and enjoyed) we're not aware of another established venue in the county.

Which is remarkable considering it has a population of about two million.

Is it just NIMBYism, aggressive obstacles put up by local authorities, or something else?

We really like going to the VA when we can but we really do not enjoy the three-hour round trip to the midlands.

So fingers crossed a few more clubs will pop up soon and help us all put the sex back into Essex!

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By *weet and SpiceCouple
15 weeks ago

Around the Midlands

Couldn't tell you why but it sounds like a good enough reason to never relocate to Essex

We are spoilt for choice up here in the Midlands.... long may it continue

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By *eltic connectionCouple
15 weeks ago

Manningtree

This is why we helped start the Ipswich and Suffolk Socials. It's not just Essex that has no clubs!

Being on the border we have a catchment across both counties and they have become very popular. We regularly get over 100 at the Ipswich social! The Suffolk Social will have its first event on the 6th July and the numbers are looking very similar.

It just shows how many people there are who enjoy the lifestyle in this part of East Anglia.

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By *eandmrsjones69Couple
15 weeks ago

Middle England

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By *eandmrsjones69Couple
15 weeks ago

Middle England

Look at it as a business opportunity!?

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By *nforgettable_username OP   Couple
15 weeks ago

Brentwood


"Couldn't tell you why but it sounds like a good enough reason to never relocate to Essex

We are spoilt for choice up here in the Midlands.... long may it continue "

Your cup really does runneth over up there - you lucky fuckers!

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By *he turned me GreyCouple
15 weeks ago

Warwick and Coventry

Up sticks and move to the Midlands, get yourself to Chams

Mr

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By *nforgettable_username OP   Couple
15 weeks ago

Brentwood


"This is why we helped start the Ipswich and Suffolk Socials. It's not just Essex that has no clubs!

Being on the border we have a catchment across both counties and they have become very popular. We regularly get over 100 at the Ipswich social! The Suffolk Social will have its first event on the 6th July and the numbers are looking very similar.

It just shows how many people there are who enjoy the lifestyle in this part of East Anglia. "

We like the sound of those socials (if not the trek up the A12!). Where can we find more info, please? x

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By *nforgettable_username OP   Couple
15 weeks ago

Brentwood


"Look at it as a business opportunity!?"

Absolutely. Clearly a huge gap in a popular market.

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By *rangarCouple
15 weeks ago

Bromsgrove

We both grew up in Essex. There’s a reason we now live in the West Midlands!!

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By *eltic connectionCouple
15 weeks ago

Manningtree


"This is why we helped start the Ipswich and Suffolk Socials. It's not just Essex that has no clubs!

Being on the border we have a catchment across both counties and they have become very popular. We regularly get over 100 at the Ipswich social! The Suffolk Social will have its first event on the 6th July and the numbers are looking very similar.

It just shows how many people there are who enjoy the lifestyle in this part of East Anglia.

We like the sound of those socials (if not the trek up the A12!). Where can we find more info, please? x"

There are two profiles for them.

Suffolk Socials is one, the first event is on the 6th July and is full for single men, there are still a few spaces left for couples and ladies.

The other is Ipswich Social which has been running for a while now and is always well supported.

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By *itygamesMan
15 weeks ago

UK

monkey business is in essex

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By *eltic connectionCouple
15 weeks ago

Manningtree


"monkey business is in essex"

At the bottom of Essex unfortunately!

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By *nforgettable_username OP   Couple
15 weeks ago

Brentwood


"This is why we helped start the Ipswich and Suffolk Socials. It's not just Essex that has no clubs!

Being on the border we have a catchment across both counties and they have become very popular. We regularly get over 100 at the Ipswich social! The Suffolk Social will have its first event on the 6th July and the numbers are looking very similar.

It just shows how many people there are who enjoy the lifestyle in this part of East Anglia.

We like the sound of those socials (if not the trek up the A12!). Where can we find more info, please? x

There are two profiles for them.

Suffolk Socials is one, the first event is on the 6th July and is full for single men, there are still a few spaces left for couples and ladies.

The other is Ipswich Social which has been running for a while now and is always well supported. "

Thank you. We have just added both of those profiles to our Hotlist and will keep an eye out. Happy to buy you a thank-you drink if we ever see you there!

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By (user no longer on site)
15 weeks ago

Be lovely if there was a club in Essex and in Cambridgeshire. When work takes me oooop north, I sometimes attend Quest in Hunslet; crackerjack club with great staff, facilities and a splendid ambience.

Natt x

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By *heekychick15Woman
15 weeks ago

Ingatestone

I totally agree. There is a weekender this Friday to Sunday in Essex it’s all on the monkey business website. Chelmsford to be a good place for another club x

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By *os19Man
15 weeks ago

Edmonton

Many years ago there was a club in Colchester I think it was called Mingles.Now Essex has Monkey Business in Wickford and if all else fails now we have some good weather there is a nudist beach in St Osyth where I believe there can be adult fun to be had.

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By *eltic connectionCouple
14 weeks ago

Manningtree

The numbers for the social in Ipswich on Saturday night just demonstrate the need for a club in this area. We are about to cross the 100+ point!

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By *umhitherCouple
14 weeks ago

billericay

We are new to the scene and also find the lack of essex clubs annoying. Ww go to op4f as it's not too bad in an uber but if we go further afield it means a hotel and a drive as we both need a little dutch courage.this lifestyle is expensive! We went to the Monkey Business weekender which was great but still spent nearly £300 with food, drink and accommodation. A local club somewhere like Brentwood or Chelmsford would be epic

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By *unessexcoupleCouple
14 weeks ago

Basildon

We'd love a club in Essex

Heard MB gone as a club only doing events we may be wrong

We often go pleasures in Kent

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By *umhitherCouple
14 weeks ago

billericay


"We'd love a club in Essex

Heard MB gone as a club only doing events we may be wrong

We often go pleasures in Kent "

Yep sadly so

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By *octordigitsMan
14 weeks ago

Cheshire


"Couldn't tell you why but it sounds like a good enough reason to never relocate to Essex

We are spoilt for choice up here in the Midlands.... long may it continue "

Interesting- so many people at chameleons from all over

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By *he fab twoCouple
13 weeks ago

brentwood


"Be lovely if there was a club in Essex and in Cambridgeshire. When work takes me oooop north, I sometimes attend Quest in Hunslet; crackerjack club with great staff, facilities and a splendid ambience.

Natt x"
jaydees on beds camb border is a great club

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By *he fab twoCouple
13 weeks ago

brentwood

Brentwood couple here and yes annoying that we have a lack of clubs being as all quiet country places hidden away, there would be loads of suitable places!!

Eureka is just the other side of Dartford crossing and pretty close only about 20 miles away, never tried monkeys but would like to!

We tend to use jaydees mostly as we have a motor home and can stay over night there! They also do accommodation

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By *umhitherCouple
13 weeks ago

billericay

I'd like to find a luxury house or apartment to rent for the weekend and host an epic essex party. Sadly I can't find what I'm looking for on air bnb. Any ideas? Boutique hotel takeover maybe?

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By *riskynriskyCouple
13 weeks ago

Essex.


"I'd like to find a luxury house or apartment to rent for the weekend and host an epic essex party. Sadly I can't find what I'm looking for on air bnb. Any ideas? Boutique hotel takeover maybe?"

A friend did this and when the owner found out it went from a few hundred for the weekend to thousands as they thought they could make money off the organiser.

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By *eltic connectionCouple
13 weeks ago

Manningtree


"I'd like to find a luxury house or apartment to rent for the weekend and host an epic essex party. Sadly I can't find what I'm looking for on air bnb. Any ideas? Boutique hotel takeover maybe?

A friend did this and when the owner found out it went from a few hundred for the weekend to thousands as they thought they could make money off the organiser."

Legally you are on very thin ice holding parties this way, have you got insurance in place for any damages etc etc! There is also licence issues if you're charging to cover the costs!

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By *umhitherCouple
13 weeks ago

billericay

I was thinking more a group booking of like minded 'friends'

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By *he fab twoCouple
13 weeks ago

brentwood


"I'd like to find a luxury house or apartment to rent for the weekend and host an epic essex party. Sadly I can't find what I'm looking for on air bnb. Any ideas? Boutique hotel takeover maybe?"
bear us in mind if you do please I’ve sent freind request

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By *umhitherCouple
13 weeks ago

billericay

Ah thanks but you've got no face pics on your profile and you won't send them either. Sadly that's a red flag for us

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By *ayy10Man
13 weeks ago

romford

Need a club in Romford!

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By *riskynriskyCouple
13 weeks ago

Essex.

Two or three years ago, we got invited to look at premises by a small consortium that were looking to open a club in Pitsea.

I couldn't go but Frisky went with a friend.

They showed her plans for the layout and she made a few suggestions.

Anyway it all went quiet and then a while back I drove past the premises, it's now a dog fertility clinic...

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By *he fab twoCouple
12 weeks ago

brentwood


"Ah thanks but you've got no face pics on your profile and you won't send them either. Sadly that's a red flag for us"
we’re just cautious happy to send face pics in private just not on profile no red flags

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By *he fab twoCouple
11 weeks ago

brentwood

So what clubs do you Essex lot use thrn

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