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By *uilder1979 OP   Man
over a year ago

birmingham

Hi

Me and my mrs are thinking bout going to a sex club, but we don't no what to exspect?

We think what happens in them? My mrs is worried that she will get far to much attention etc

Any help from people?

Thanks

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By *av1970Man
over a year ago

Tattershall

I am going to tease ii for the first ever time on 3rd May, am hoping it will be OK as it is a social off here. I think most regular users know the score and no means no so don't be afraid to say no.

Also I have been told just do what you feel comfortable doing on the first time, if you want to socialise in bar then fine, if you want to watch then fine, if you want to try to experience everything then fine....it's your night after all xx

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Also I have been told just do what you feel comfortable doing on the first time, if you want to socialise in bar then fine, if you want to watch then fine, if you want to try to experience everything then fine....it's your night after all xx"

Never be pressurised into doing something you don't want to do. Oh, and let them know you're new when you go and someone will show you round.

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By *lackCherryCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

It is important to have well worked out limits between you both that you both agree too and some sort of safe word maybe to help reinforce this if things go too "far".

What are you after ? couples ? females ? guys ?

look at prospective clubs and pick a night that matches your desires go along and remember no means no and dont be shy in saying no or no thanks, you dont have to be cruel but a simple "no thanks" will give people the message.

Go along, drink watch and socialize, go along do the above and play the ball is totally in your court you're paying for the night and its your night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All of the above is excellent advice. And some of the best advice I was ever given, which we always try and remember is that it's always better to go home wishing you'd done more than thinking you did too much.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I went first time a couple months ago thinking same, but found men to be very respectful, since first visit have attended weekly, and tried three different clubs, infact going again this Friday to club paradise for their social night.

Golden rule in clubs, no means no, say no it will be respected

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By *uilder1979 OP   Man
over a year ago

birmingham

thanks for your reply's people, i think that is what she is worried about the most "no means no"

thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"thanks for your reply's people, i think that is what she is worried about the most "no means no"

thanks

"

No always means no and you really don;t need to worry about that.

From your profile you aren;t looking for single guys so maybe look for a couples only night.

And what sort of club, what size and numbers and would your be comfortable in a towel club or somehere wehere normal clothes are allowed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A sex club or a swinging club

A swinging club is like a sex club only more relaxed

Go chat with people and have a good time, anything extra you decide to do is a bonus

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