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"Yeah I was thinking about the vanilla alt one, but the organisers didn’t want me there, as I said I’d been a bit naughty and have a tag on my ankle haha. Said it would put other people off for some reason. Otherwise that would be perfect. And that’s the reason we want to go to a daytime event " OP, if you have a tag on your ankle, I doubt many clubs would be happy to allow you in, it's mainly to do with their insurance/licencing, I'd say, but also other club goers attitude towards you. Also, are you not restricted with how far from your place of residence you can travel or what activities you can take part in? I'd discuss your ideas with your case worker or whoever is supervising you. And I would definitely add that info to your profile. | |||
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"Yeah I was thinking about the vanilla alt one, but the organisers didn’t want me there, as I said I’d been a bit naughty and have a tag on my ankle haha. Said it would put other people off for some reason. Otherwise that would be perfect. And that’s the reason we want to go to a daytime event OP, if you have a tag on your ankle, I doubt many clubs would be happy to allow you in, it's mainly to do with their insurance/licencing, I'd say, but also other club goers attitude towards you. Also, are you not restricted with how far from your place of residence you can travel or what activities you can take part in? I'd discuss your ideas with your case worker or whoever is supervising you. And I would definitely add that info to your profile. " And I’m NOT a sex offender, so I don’t have any restrictions about where or what I do. Are you police? | |||
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"Yeah I was thinking about the vanilla alt one, but the organisers didn’t want me there, as I said I’d been a bit naughty and have a tag on my ankle haha. Said it would put other people off for some reason. Otherwise that would be perfect. And that’s the reason we want to go to a daytime event OP, if you have a tag on your ankle, I doubt many clubs would be happy to allow you in, it's mainly to do with their insurance/licencing, I'd say, but also other club goers attitude towards you. Also, are you not restricted with how far from your place of residence you can travel or what activities you can take part in? I'd discuss your ideas with your case worker or whoever is supervising you. And I would definitely add that info to your profile. And I’m NOT a sex offender, so I don’t have any restrictions about where or what I do. Are you police? " Looks like someone is genuinely trying to help | |||
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"Yeah I was thinking about the vanilla alt one, but the organisers didn’t want me there, as I said I’d been a bit naughty and have a tag on my ankle haha. Said it would put other people off for some reason. Otherwise that would be perfect. And that’s the reason we want to go to a daytime event OP, if you have a tag on your ankle, I doubt many clubs would be happy to allow you in, it's mainly to do with their insurance/licencing, I'd say, but also other club goers attitude towards you. Also, are you not restricted with how far from your place of residence you can travel or what activities you can take part in? I'd discuss your ideas with your case worker or whoever is supervising you. And I would definitely add that info to your profile. And I’m NOT a sex offender, so I don’t have any restrictions about where or what I do. Are you police? Looks like someone is genuinely trying to help" It does and I appreciate replies. But the response is so far off the mark with the information they’re giving, I’m just explaining myself. Nothing malicious, as texts can be read in many different ways. So please don’t take it as me being arsey, as I’m really not | |||
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"Yeah I was thinking about the vanilla alt one, but the organisers didn’t want me there, as I said I’d been a bit naughty and have a tag on my ankle haha. Said it would put other people off for some reason. Otherwise that would be perfect. And that’s the reason we want to go to a daytime event " Sounds silly tbh ppl are to judgy | |||
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"Yeah I was thinking about the vanilla alt one, but the organisers didn’t want me there, as I said I’d been a bit naughty and have a tag on my ankle haha. Said it would put other people off for some reason. Otherwise that would be perfect. And that’s the reason we want to go to a daytime event Sounds silly tbh ppl are to judgy " Nothing to do with being too judgy. It’s about protecting their license and venue and keeping their guests safe. Clubs run under different rules to a pub/restaurant and often have licensing breathing down their necks as it is. | |||
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"Yeah I was thinking about the vanilla alt one, but the organisers didn’t want me there, as I said I’d been a bit naughty and have a tag on my ankle haha. Said it would put other people off for some reason. Otherwise that would be perfect. And that’s the reason we want to go to a daytime event Sounds silly tbh ppl are to judgy " Thank you. Sense at last. | |||
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"Yeah I was thinking about the vanilla alt one, but the organisers didn’t want me there, as I said I’d been a bit naughty and have a tag on my ankle haha. Said it would put other people off for some reason. Otherwise that would be perfect. And that’s the reason we want to go to a daytime event Sounds silly tbh ppl are to judgy Nothing to do with being too judgy. It’s about protecting their license and venue and keeping their guests safe. Clubs run under different rules to a pub/restaurant and often have licensing breathing down their necks as it is. " I’m sorry but you’re wrong. Why would somebody with an “ankle bracelet” affect licensing?? It’s a crazy statement to make in all honesty. And protest guests?? If I was a danger to the public, I would be in prison, not on tag. The reason for the tag, is to not allow me to go out after a certain time, as the accusation of an argument happened at night. I’m not an axe murderer lol. | |||
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"Yeah I was thinking about the vanilla alt one, but the organisers didn’t want me there, as I said I’d been a bit naughty and have a tag on my ankle haha. Said it would put other people off for some reason. Otherwise that would be perfect. And that’s the reason we want to go to a daytime event Sounds silly tbh ppl are to judgy Nothing to do with being too judgy. It’s about protecting their license and venue and keeping their guests safe. Clubs run under different rules to a pub/restaurant and often have licensing breathing down their necks as it is. " And if it’s a case of keeping their customers safe, then why don’t they crb check members first? They don’t, because it’s not essential and not normal behaviour. So I am being judged basically. Do people go to sex clubs to be judged?? No! It’s all about having a laugh, being yourself and having fun…… without being judged. | |||
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"Yeah I was thinking about the vanilla alt one, but the organisers didn’t want me there, as I said I’d been a bit naughty and have a tag on my ankle haha. Said it would put other people off for some reason. Otherwise that would be perfect. And that’s the reason we want to go to a daytime event Sounds silly tbh ppl are to judgy Nothing to do with being too judgy. It’s about protecting their license and venue and keeping their guests safe. Clubs run under different rules to a pub/restaurant and often have licensing breathing down their necks as it is. I’m sorry but you’re wrong. Why would somebody with an “ankle bracelet” affect licensing?? It’s a crazy statement to make in all honesty. And protest guests?? If I was a danger to the public, I would be in prison, not on tag. The reason for the tag, is to not allow me to go out after a certain time, as the accusation of an argument happened at night. I’m not an axe murderer lol. " Because a ‘ankle bracelet’ is part of a court or prison order. A venue will not know the reasons for that (unless you disclose) and for all they know it could be alcohol related, or physical assault. Therefore they would not want you in the venue, and yes, it will affect their license. | |||
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"Yeah I was thinking about the vanilla alt one, but the organisers didn’t want me there, as I said I’d been a bit naughty and have a tag on my ankle haha. Said it would put other people off for some reason. Otherwise that would be perfect. And that’s the reason we want to go to a daytime event Sounds silly tbh ppl are to judgy Nothing to do with being too judgy. It’s about protecting their license and venue and keeping their guests safe. Clubs run under different rules to a pub/restaurant and often have licensing breathing down their necks as it is. I’m sorry but you’re wrong. Why would somebody with an “ankle bracelet” affect licensing?? It’s a crazy statement to make in all honesty. And protest guests?? If I was a danger to the public, I would be in prison, not on tag. The reason for the tag, is to not allow me to go out after a certain time, as the accusation of an argument happened at night. I’m not an axe murderer lol. Because a ‘ankle bracelet’ is part of a court or prison order. A venue will not know the reasons for that (unless you disclose) and for all they know it could be alcohol related, or physical assault. Therefore they would not want you in the venue, and yes, it will affect their license. " It wouldn’t be alcohol, as they have specific ones for that, which detect if you consume. I’m fighting a losing battle with this discussion. So I think we’ll agree to disagree. I doubt they will have the local council there checking for people wearing tags and to see if the crime is alcohol or violence related lol. The discussion is getting a little silly now. Thanks for your input | |||
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"Yeah I was thinking about the vanilla alt one, but the organisers didn’t want me there, as I said I’d been a bit naughty and have a tag on my ankle haha. Said it would put other people off for some reason. Otherwise that would be perfect. And that’s the reason we want to go to a daytime event Sounds silly tbh ppl are to judgy Nothing to do with being too judgy. It’s about protecting their license and venue and keeping their guests safe. Clubs run under different rules to a pub/restaurant and often have licensing breathing down their necks as it is. I’m sorry but you’re wrong. Why would somebody with an “ankle bracelet” affect licensing?? It’s a crazy statement to make in all honesty. And protest guests?? If I was a danger to the public, I would be in prison, not on tag. The reason for the tag, is to not allow me to go out after a certain time, as the accusation of an argument happened at night. I’m not an axe murderer lol. Because a ‘ankle bracelet’ is part of a court or prison order. A venue will not know the reasons for that (unless you disclose) and for all they know it could be alcohol related, or physical assault. Therefore they would not want you in the venue, and yes, it will affect their license. It wouldn’t be alcohol, as they have specific ones for that, which detect if you consume. I’m fighting a losing battle with this discussion. So I think we’ll agree to disagree. I doubt they will have the local council there checking for people wearing tags and to see if the crime is alcohol or violence related lol. The discussion is getting a little silly now. Thanks for your input" Why you on a tag then??? | |||
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"Yeah I was thinking about the vanilla alt one, but the organisers didn’t want me there, as I said I’d been a bit naughty and have a tag on my ankle haha. Said it would put other people off for some reason. Otherwise that would be perfect. And that’s the reason we want to go to a daytime event Sounds silly tbh ppl are to judgy Nothing to do with being too judgy. It’s about protecting their license and venue and keeping their guests safe. Clubs run under different rules to a pub/restaurant and often have licensing breathing down their necks as it is. I’m sorry but you’re wrong. Why would somebody with an “ankle bracelet” affect licensing?? It’s a crazy statement to make in all honesty. And protest guests?? If I was a danger to the public, I would be in prison, not on tag. The reason for the tag, is to not allow me to go out after a certain time, as the accusation of an argument happened at night. I’m not an axe murderer lol. Because a ‘ankle bracelet’ is part of a court or prison order. A venue will not know the reasons for that (unless you disclose) and for all they know it could be alcohol related, or physical assault. Therefore they would not want you in the venue, and yes, it will affect their license. It wouldn’t be alcohol, as they have specific ones for that, which detect if you consume. I’m fighting a losing battle with this discussion. So I think we’ll agree to disagree. I doubt they will have the local council there checking for people wearing tags and to see if the crime is alcohol or violence related lol. The discussion is getting a little silly now. Thanks for your input Why you on a tag then???" Unexplained wealth. Went to court, biggest load of shite you’ve heard in your life. Judge kicked it out and the prosecution appealed and got a retrial. So until it starts again or doesn’t. They insist I wear this on my ankle. | |||
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"Yeah I was thinking about the vanilla alt one, but the organisers didn’t want me there, as I said I’d been a bit naughty and have a tag on my ankle haha. Said it would put other people off for some reason. Otherwise that would be perfect. And that’s the reason we want to go to a daytime event Sounds silly tbh ppl are to judgy Nothing to do with being too judgy. It’s about protecting their license and venue and keeping their guests safe. Clubs run under different rules to a pub/restaurant and often have licensing breathing down their necks as it is. I’m sorry but you’re wrong. Why would somebody with an “ankle bracelet” affect licensing?? It’s a crazy statement to make in all honesty. And protest guests?? If I was a danger to the public, I would be in prison, not on tag. The reason for the tag, is to not allow me to go out after a certain time, as the accusation of an argument happened at night. I’m not an axe murderer lol. Because a ‘ankle bracelet’ is part of a court or prison order. A venue will not know the reasons for that (unless you disclose) and for all they know it could be alcohol related, or physical assault. Therefore they would not want you in the venue, and yes, it will affect their license. It wouldn’t be alcohol, as they have specific ones for that, which detect if you consume. I’m fighting a losing battle with this discussion. So I think we’ll agree to disagree. I doubt they will have the local council there checking for people wearing tags and to see if the crime is alcohol or violence related lol. The discussion is getting a little silly now. Thanks for your input Why you on a tag then??? Unexplained wealth. Went to court, biggest load of shite you’ve heard in your life. Judge kicked it out and the prosecution appealed and got a retrial. So until it starts again or doesn’t. They insist I wear this on my ankle. " Oh wow. Wish I had unexplained wealth lol | |||
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"Yeah I was thinking about the vanilla alt one, but the organisers didn’t want me there, as I said I’d been a bit naughty and have a tag on my ankle haha. Said it would put other people off for some reason. Otherwise that would be perfect. And that’s the reason we want to go to a daytime event Sounds silly tbh ppl are to judgy Nothing to do with being too judgy. It’s about protecting their license and venue and keeping their guests safe. Clubs run under different rules to a pub/restaurant and often have licensing breathing down their necks as it is. I’m sorry but you’re wrong. Why would somebody with an “ankle bracelet” affect licensing?? It’s a crazy statement to make in all honesty. And protest guests?? If I was a danger to the public, I would be in prison, not on tag. The reason for the tag, is to not allow me to go out after a certain time, as the accusation of an argument happened at night. I’m not an axe murderer lol. Because a ‘ankle bracelet’ is part of a court or prison order. A venue will not know the reasons for that (unless you disclose) and for all they know it could be alcohol related, or physical assault. Therefore they would not want you in the venue, and yes, it will affect their license. It wouldn’t be alcohol, as they have specific ones for that, which detect if you consume. I’m fighting a losing battle with this discussion. So I think we’ll agree to disagree. I doubt they will have the local council there checking for people wearing tags and to see if the crime is alcohol or violence related lol. The discussion is getting a little silly now. Thanks for your input Why you on a tag then??? Unexplained wealth. Went to court, biggest load of shite you’ve heard in your life. Judge kicked it out and the prosecution appealed and got a retrial. So until it starts again or doesn’t. They insist I wear this on my ankle. " So instead of a remand in custody you got a tag. It may be harsh but it probably means a judge was worried you're a flight risk. People don't get those sorts of bail restrictions for low level offences and your account of this conceals as much as it reveals. In the absence of a more convincing account of your circumstances I'm afraid most people might see the tag as being a consequence of something involving violence and disorder. Them's the breaks I'm afraid. | |||
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"Yeah I was thinking about the vanilla alt one, but the organisers didn’t want me there, as I said I’d been a bit naughty and have a tag on my ankle haha. Said it would put other people off for some reason. Otherwise that would be perfect. And that’s the reason we want to go to a daytime event Sounds silly tbh ppl are to judgy Nothing to do with being too judgy. It’s about protecting their license and venue and keeping their guests safe. Clubs run under different rules to a pub/restaurant and often have licensing breathing down their necks as it is. I’m sorry but you’re wrong. Why would somebody with an “ankle bracelet” affect licensing?? It’s a crazy statement to make in all honesty. And protest guests?? If I was a danger to the public, I would be in prison, not on tag. The reason for the tag, is to not allow me to go out after a certain time, as the accusation of an argument happened at night. I’m not an axe murderer lol. Because a ‘ankle bracelet’ is part of a court or prison order. A venue will not know the reasons for that (unless you disclose) and for all they know it could be alcohol related, or physical assault. Therefore they would not want you in the venue, and yes, it will affect their license. It wouldn’t be alcohol, as they have specific ones for that, which detect if you consume. I’m fighting a losing battle with this discussion. So I think we’ll agree to disagree. I doubt they will have the local council there checking for people wearing tags and to see if the crime is alcohol or violence related lol. The discussion is getting a little silly now. Thanks for your input Why you on a tag then??? Unexplained wealth. Went to court, biggest load of shite you’ve heard in your life. Judge kicked it out and the prosecution appealed and got a retrial. So until it starts again or doesn’t. They insist I wear this on my ankle. So instead of a remand in custody you got a tag. It may be harsh but it probably means a judge was worried you're a flight risk. People don't get those sorts of bail restrictions for low level offences and your account of this conceals as much as it reveals. In the absence of a more convincing account of your circumstances I'm afraid most people might see the tag as being a consequence of something involving violence and disorder. Them's the breaks I'm afraid. " How is there an absence of a convincing account?? The facts are what I gave in the post. Went to court…… judge threw it out and said there wasn’t a case. Then the prosecution have appealed and get a retrial. Can’t really give much more than that, unless you want my court paperwork hahaha. Am I on tag for a dangerous crime…… no. Am I on tag to restrict my movements…. Yes Does this make me a bad person…. No Should people judge people on face value? Yes Plenty of horrible nasty people out there who don’t get judged. It’s taught me a lot having this issue. Some normal people are non judgemental as they like you for you. Yet some judge without knowing the circumstances or who I am. How many people get judged for going to a sex club/swingers club?? Yet the people judging you have most likely never even been to one to understand? Lesson for most people, take people for who they are on face value and then make your own judgement of them. Makes the world a whole lot easier and better place to be. Rather than “assuming” rant over haha | |||
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