FabSwingers.com forum: Shy guys

By *aguester OP Man
32 weeks ago

Bolton

Hi I am a shy guy looking to open up. What is icebreaker chat

By *hades Of GreyMan
32 weeks ago

Leeds

What is icebreaker chat?

Well in Australia it would be "Brace yourself Sheila"

By *izzy.Woman
32 weeks ago

Stoke area

It really depends on if it's a one to one arranged social, a group social or at a club.

Best thing is to say "hi. My name is ________ , mind if I chat to you for a few minutes. I'm feeling a bit nervous". People then know your intentions ie you just want to chat, nothing more and they know you are hoping for a couple of minutes of their time.

Smiling, eye contact and listening to what they say are all important in helping create a good impression.

What you say would then depend on the setting , but chatting about the surroundings coffee shop, club etc is a good opener, maybe talk about what you like eg their outfit, hair style or the music.

Hope this helps you.