FabSwingers.com forum: Approaching Couples

By *ou and Jay OP Couple
24 weeks ago

STRATFORD-UPON-AVON

Bit of an obvious one. But what's people's go to line in clubs. We've been on the scene for a couple of years and have met some awesome people. But still terrible at introducing ourselves, probably for fear of rejection.

Anyone got any great one liners for striking up a conversation?

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By *empted23Couple
24 weeks ago

countryside

Will follow this thread

We havent actually ever approached a couple but Intend to if we see a nice one at the club on Saturday

But no idea how to start the conversation

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By *weet and SpiceCouple
24 weeks ago

Around the Midlands

We don't really use one-liners as we just treat it like a normal conversation without expectations and end up chatting to lots of people throughout the night!

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By *ou and Jay OP Couple
24 weeks ago

STRATFORD-UPON-AVON

Yeah I think that's been out problem. We instantly start scanning to see who we are interested in and avoid eye contact with the ones we're not interested in. Definitely need to take this approach more.

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By *londebiguyMan
24 weeks ago

Southport

I found I just chat to people as normal.

Like in a supermarket or a post office queue!

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By *cLovin2Man
24 weeks ago

Reading

"Will follow this thread

We havent actually ever approached a couple but Intend to if we see a nice one at the club on Saturday

But no idea how to start the conversation "

How about, mind if I bang your Mrs in front of you

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By *23bbcMan
24 weeks ago

Romford

Ok here is really good advice. Decide on what club night you are going to. DM some couples on fab who are going to the same club night. Go to club and then introduce yourselves to them. No need for body language analysis haha!

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By *forfuntimesCouple
24 weeks ago

Sheffield

The way it usually goes with us is that Mrs or Mr will compliment someone on what they are wearing / if they have interesting tattoos or hair Color etc… that then can break the ice if reciprocated..

Done do the ‘Do you come here often then?’ lol

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By *forfuntimesCouple
24 weeks ago

Sheffield

"The way it usually goes with us is that Mrs or Mr will compliment someone on what they are wearing / if they have interesting tattoos or hair Color etc… that then can break the ice if reciprocated..

Done do the ‘Do you come here often then?’ lol"

Don’t do meant to say

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By *andPextraCouple
24 weeks ago

North West

Weve found (either asking/being asked) “is this your first visit to this club” works ok as theres multiple places to go with that as a question.

If asked/not interested we can simply say ‘yes it is and we just want to take it all in”

If interested can discuss our experiences.

If asking its a mirror of the above.

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